My Friend's Fiancee Is Pregnant For His Father!

I guess his father doesn't want the child, and the girl doesn't want one either.  Since they're in the US, a very early abortion would be in order, since the father and the mother are not prepared for it.  Unless your religion is against that.

As for whether he should continue the relationship, I don't know.  If the love is very strong, I guess the relationship can be repaired.  But they will definitely need professional counseling.  As they say, to err is human but to forgive is divine.  Advice your friend to keep his cool and listen to what the father and fiancee have to say.  No hurry for marriage.

If they are in the US i suggest he goes to the nearest convenient store get a double barrell probably like $49.99 or something n try out his " Say hello to my little friend"

tell your friend to forget the girl n give his dad hi5, and if they are together shes going to have to live with watchin u do your thang n laughin inher face ,

Ho hoz hos everywhere

He should remove himself from this situation. It's not his fault or his responsibility. As much as it hurts, he has to cut her loose and THEY (MINUS him) have to decide what to do in this predicament.

What will she refer the baby as; son/daughter, brother/sister? Unfortunately, this happens more often than you think. One of my friends from Kansas just found out that his wife is carrying her brothers baby. They were too close and he never suspected a thing. In their sick twisted mind, they believe they didn't do anything wrong. Of course, he is now talking to a divorce lawyer.

first the father is a freak for such crap  abortion should be out of it because thats murder or they might be complications so just deliever the baby and give yoiur father to take care of him and does her fiancee knows

It's really unbelievable. Well, I suggest your friend delete his fiance out of his memory. And somehow keep his dad at arms lenght.But he should bear it in mind that both of them could poison him if they have the opportunity.

The girl is crap, couldn't she control herself,  just forget about the bitch, probably being doing it with some of your friends too.

Tha's messed up! Who's to be blamed? What is the world turning into?

I trust they find another solution


I pray that they don't believe in abortion

I will really like to agree with seun but its a pity not entirely.

The only reason why I will not continue with the relationship or actual marriage is that:

1. I am not sure of the kind of affection btew them. what if there is some level of love? then it may be difficult if after the resolution that they both meet and continue the affair.

2. How are my sure that the lady really loves me if she can be going out with me and still seeing someone else (whether my dad or not)?

3. How are my even sure that apart from my father and I there is no other one tapping the thing?

4. There is no way she (now being my wife) will not see my dad (her father-in-law) after we are married or that something will not bring them together somehow someday sometime and the affair can be triggered again even though they break it up totally now.

In short, for me, its no go area. I can't continue with the relationship.

Please tell your friend to just disemback entirelly totally because its totally unsafe if he wants to live long.
I mean, if it is someone else not my father, then I may consider it. But my father, it is too close (the opponent is too close and the war could be too fatal).

Damn,  this is crap.

Honestly, there's no question of reconciliation or to err is human n whatever.
A woman like that cud kill you!
Get away from her as fast as you can;
life is too short, move on with your life
No matter what kind of love u hav 4 her, shes not worth your love
You'll find somone better who'l love u for who u 'r
Dont think u can't find love again, its just the beginnin :

B4 i forget, your father can hav her if he wants!!!!!!

Ya like i said earlier they need to all go and c a shrink, because to me they all have warped sense of life,

And abortion is wayyyy out of the question (I'm even against the death penaltyand Assisted suicide{Euthanasia}, but thats another discussion for another day, YAAA PROLIFE RULES)
lol that looks like a math equation.

Ive been around, where have you been? What is your take on this issue, please sh

@Terry,

your friend is in a sure big mess. If I were him, I would keep my cool and begin watching. To interfere would be to stand between two close walls and be ramming oneself into both at the same time.

Definitely, a lot of ?shit happens nowadays, but all the same, he has to bear im mind that his own "Father" fathered the child in his girlfriends womb,,, that father still deserves respect, no matter how little. On the other hand, his girlfriend needs him too. so thats why he should take a vacation. the decision to abort or not must not be his(your friends).

such children are lucky-charms for families that keep them.

ive heard a similar story, that such a child was born and kept, and be became the most successful person in the history of that family.

hey this is tight the deed is already done so he should just let it be .let go and start from afresh with another person may be she loves the dad more.

Stuff for a good family movie!