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2muchbar (m)
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Is it wrong 4 men 2 cry,after a breakup or heartbreak?
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jkpretty (f)
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Its not wrong for a man 2 cry after break up, they should cry cry cry cry cry cry for as long as they want
who ever said they should not cry, did God attached a particular sex to crying, abeg they should even suck their mother's breast after crying & cry again.
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$$Rhino
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because we men are kind of crying inside and too macho to show the emotion, but some of us men are just heartless, probably were never into the relationship, but for the ladies, it is like something has been stolen from them with the heartbreak, so much emotions inside that has to come out, and so much unspoken words
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2muchbar (m)
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Mehn Rhino .Liked ur answer.But i feel it muders more 4 you to cry inside.
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$$Rhino
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@2muchbar, i so much agree with you, but remember the old nonesense they said in nija, " big boyz don't cry? ,
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tpia
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who says men don't cry after a breakup?
some do.
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2muchbar (m)
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@ Rhino:hahaha!Mehn boiz r human they'D better start cryin when they feel pain.Gurlz get comforted when they'r r seen cryin by their frends probably but if u r a boi and ur gurl frend dumps u,mehn u better don't let ur frends know o,they'D only make situations worse by laffin at u,that makes u weep bitter tears from inside.They mite even comfort her, u feel me?
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azpunpin
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Haaaaaaaaaaa, I nearly cry ooo when my Girl Friend break up with me but she told me that there is nothing new in breaking up, On phone oooo,I was just bored, But all the same,within a week, I forgot everything until when she text me that i can now call her on her new cell number, I was like oshhhh,she don come again kan give me 2nd heartBreak, Not knowing she is my soulmate, Till now,we are always happy, U won`t believe that this Girl told me that it was just a test to know if i truely love her, I don call all her family they beg her ooo Until she kan know say nah true love,
Now, We are just like sister n Brothers,
I love her so much,
Love Ya.
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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men should cry, .loose appetite and their self esteem and then start looking like opokoro. ******inner chuckle***** After all the nonsense they put ladies through they should feel some pain as well.
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Siena
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@ Poster: Where did you get your facts from?  Some men DO cry after a break-up, and some women DON'T. There are no hard and fast rules where emotions are involved, there's absolutely nothing wrong with men crying, and women NOT crying. It just shows we're human. |
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2muchbar (m)
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@azpunpin Mehn thats true love mehn.Y'all should continue keepin it real.But the chic should not go nd break up with u again o,u'D just land in an hospital, lol
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RuuDie (m)
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if we really like the girl. . . . we go home and cry, never in front of her or anyone else - its a guy thing, not good for his rep at all! if we don't dig u as such. . . . ur memory's only g'onna have approximately 22mins 37secs of our time in our heads, after that, case dismissed!  |
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UNLEASHED (m)
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Of recent, I cried deep down inside of me but no tears in my eyes!!
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estylove1 (f)
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i do cry in d past but now i don't allow such things to get to me any longer i have vowed that i wont cry over any guy ever again no matter what
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2muchbar (m)
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@estylove1 : Ur cryin only shows that u care and that u r hurt.Learn to cry when u ave to.
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tnaidaR (f)
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Girls cry only when they loose a guy they really love. If the r/ship wasn't a big deal to us then fcuk you to hell!
Guys do cry big time. Some in the girl's presence and some in their freaking closets. Fact is, they cry as well but who cares?
Life's a bitch!
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2muchbar (m)
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@tnaidaR: nice reply.Yea lifes a bitch.But i avent heard of dudes cryin on the scence of the hart break or in front of their Chic, that's really crazy, cryin in front of ur Gurl? ?4 real that aint tyte!!!!!! |
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tnaidaR (f)
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@tnaidaR: nice reply.Yea lifes a bitch.But i avent heard of dudes cryin on the scence of the hart break or in front of their Chic, that's really crazy, cryin in front of your Girl? ?4 real that aint tyte!!!!!! The fact is that they cry. Must it be in her presence? Mind you, not all girls cry in a guy's presence  |
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johnnygan (m)
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Whatta if a guy LOVEs a gurl really really really really much to the Fuckin point of kissin her ass for breakfast, lunch then dinner. Then gurl now finds a new dude who she can die for as jesus did. She decided to cause a breakup with her dude for the one she finks she loves. Do you think the gurl would cry over that breakup? Afterall, its a breakup. For the guy notta cry, Don't y'all think thats weird? Any sex can cry after breakups. Even animals do
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2muchbar (m)
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@tnaidaR U sed not "all" girls cry in guys presence that means sum of em du.U'D hardly c a guy cry in front of his chic
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Bolarge (m)
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Who says men don't cry? You obviously referring to those who really weren't into the relationship. I've said this before n' I'll say it again, men can love just as hard n' as deep as
women. When this happens, they'll cry u rivers. However woe betides d next girl they lay their hands on.  |
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tnaidaR (f)
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Whatta if a guy LOVEs a girl really really really really much to the Fuckin point of kissin her ass for breakfast, lunch then dinner. Then girl now finds a new dude who she can die for as jesus did. She decided to cause a breakup with her dude for the one she finks she loves. Do you think the girl would cry over that breakup? Afterall, its a breakup. For the guy notta cry, Don't y'all think thats weird? Any sex can cry after breakups. Even animals do
Na u talk am  @tnaidaR You sed not "all" girls cry in guys presence that means sum of em du.You'D hardly c a guy cry in front of his chic
That's enough. Point has been made. |
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Banderas (m)
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This has less to do with the pain of a breakup as with the fact that women, for some reason, cry easier. Even men who want to cry don't because crying is simply NOT macho.
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kanmosyl (m)
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who say men don't cry after break up
Guy men dey cry oooooo
i cried after my last break up infact i cried for days it was so hard for me to get over on time.
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2muchbar (m)
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Mehn!u must ave really luved the gurl 4 you to cry 4 days o
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jkpretty (f)
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@ 2muchbar u said You'D hardly c a guy cry in front of his chic
Sure guys may not cry right in front of his girl but go into d corner of his room, cover his head & cry inside him, which is deep, frustrating & killing when it cannot be let out, & can be there for a life time, building up a more dangerous person.
We ladies can easily cry in front of u, cry in front of anybody & maybe tell d whole world we lost someone, which makes d pain fade easily.
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2muchbar (m)
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yea thats part of wot i'm sayin.I've never seen a dude cry sha.Ave u?
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nafsquare
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Girls cry because dey av a tender heart but guys do nt because dey believe dey av nothin 2 loose.anyway sha let stop breakin each odas HEART
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jkpretty (f)
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@2much bar but i prefer u guys letting it out, it creates hard feelings.
Oh yes i've seen a guy cry, he cried, on d street o, d next Avenue to where i stay, yes i remember his male friends were holding him, & i heard him shouting "is she d only one, what's she feeling like, ok what does she ----- " wit tears drooping & i saw d lady walking away. It was a break up i guess, but it was such a relieve to see a guy cry.
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2muchbar (m)
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@jkpretty
wow that's crazilly serious,i can imagine what that kind of scene would luk like.the gurl reall must ave been the only one.Never make a man cry o.Its not nice
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jkpretty (f)
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Why not, if not
roll eyes, roll eyes, roll eyes
But really, i can't hurt a fly.
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2muchbar (m)
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yea,heard that on 2 many tymes."i can't hurt a fly".That's what them girls say before they meet some other dude
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