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manni (m)
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Is there any need discussing your last relationship with your new girl or guy ?
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nosilla (f)
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In my honest opinion I would say not at all.
nosillA xx
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manni (m)
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Nosilla why? well to me i think its ok ,if there is a basic understanding between two people
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Sexytruth0 (f)
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Yes you should, somethings need to be talked about.
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yimiton (f)
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Yes, talk about it, it makes your partner understand you better. You don't have to go about insulting your ex or bad mouthing the person, just the basics, like y you broke up, things you loved and things you couldn't stand. This will help your new partner understand what you really love and what you can't stand.
Enjoy!
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iice (f)
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Depends on the relationship and the people involved
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manni (m)
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hi iice ,can yu please explain better
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iice (f)
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Hmmmmm
Some relationships arent that deepold memories sometimes don't come into play. No one asks, no tales told.
Some people cannot handle somethings. If he/she is the jealous, paranoid, over-possessed type, erhhhh that can trigger somethingswhat am saying, best be knowing the person so as to know what to reveal and when to reveal.
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pejubaby (f)
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i don't really buy the idea of discussing about your past relationship, i suggest been quit when u ar not ask. and speak as at when due. 
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pejubaby (f)
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Hmmmmm
Some relationships arent that deepold memories sometimes don't come into play. No one asks, no tales told.
Some people cannot handle somethings. If he/she is the jealous, paranoid, over-possessed type, erhhhh that can trigger somethingswhat am saying, best be knowing the person so as to know what to reveal and when to reveal.
i don't think it should be discussed at all.
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iice (f)
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pejubaby, when you reply, scroll down and look on the right hand side of your screen, you will see 'insert quote' just beside the post of the personto make it easier for you
Nwayz, sometimes somethings are meant to be discussed. Especially if you are still around your ex/exesmakes your current partner understand you more and it could help with your present relationship
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manni (m)
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hi pejubaby and iice ,you guys are right,to be honest,its not easy - because you might just be caught up in a relationship that might last for a life time(marriage).your partner might just be really hurt to find out that you had a hidden past that never came out till after marriage-trust me i have seen it happen
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