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fawwyb (m)
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@Nella, what do you mean? I know myself. ok?  |
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mamaput (f)
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oh yes they are.
That is till you become very rude.
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Nella (f)
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@Nella, what do you mean? I know myself. ok? I wasn't saying otherwise, just sounded a little weired\sarcastic, u saying it yourself, but srry if u were offended------ |
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Queen K (f)
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:)lol, Men don't play with their ego, and all mens ain't sturborn, we just need know how to deal with them as individual. some of them are good. and some of them are so self-center, selfish, stupid n crazy sometimes. Most nigeria men never take NO!!! for ans when they asked u, even when u let them know you have a man already, they still do " ibe ni ma ku si".  |
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ariblaze (m)
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@poster
what you described is not stubborness
but perseverance
which i consider an admirable
and am sure most women do too
agreed when the direction its
channelled towards doesnt favour the recipient
it can be annoying.
perseverance shows strenght of character.period!!!
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champredd (m)
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Na only Nigerian guys?
When it come to girls, Nigerian girls are more stubborn than any other in the world, maybe they and the American girls (especially blacks)
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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@nella so u don't believe that some guys are different? that's the mistake most girls make that's why they get to fall for the bad guys. for someone like me, if i say that i'm different, then it's the truth. i don't have to say that just because i want something like someone said earlier.  |
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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i agree with ariblaze.
most women admire it too
it really can be annoying but then,
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Nella (f)
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@nella so u don't believe that some guys are different? that's the mistake most girls make that's why they get to fall for the bad guys. for someone like me, if i say that i'm different, then it's the truth. i don't have to say that just because i want something like someone said earlier. lol! of course i do believe that some guys r different! (  ) u just don't hear guys say such about them self so often, ( they r normally sarcastic when they do), which was y i thought fawwyb was being sarcastic. Bad guys n good guys-- hmmmm |
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ClimieNH89
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They are not only stubborn they are also irritating.
Thanks to some girls, who mean no as yes, these guys won't let you be even when you are dead serious.
It's time they understand for this world that not all girls have times for fronting. if I say no today, it'll be no forever.
Chikena!
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Nella (f)
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They are not only stubborn they are also irritating.
Thanks to some girls, who mean no as yes, these guys won't let you be even when you are dead serious.
It's time they understand for this world that not all girls have times for fronting. if I say no today, it'll be no forever.
Chikena!
tell em gurl! hehe lol |
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tnaidaR (f)
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if I say no today, it'll be no forever.
Liar!!! We all know what's up girl.  |
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ClimieNH89
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@ Radiant Well this is one of the things I don't lie about. It's easy for "I don't know" to become "yes" but it's impossible for " no". A first look is enough to tell if you can like him or not. |
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tnaidaR (f)
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Limie, let's not sweat the case abeg. We both know better
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tnaidaR (f)
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Besides, what's ur old ID? You seem to know me |
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ClimieNH89
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@ radiant I nor go tell you!  |
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+osisi
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Nigerian men are cool. love them (my dad,my honey bun  ,brothers,uncles,cousins). some are stubborn,some are not. They are men,not too different from any other group of men. |
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oyie (f)
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i think ova time,nigerian people have to take "long toasting"as normal.if the girl agrees on time-she is loose and if d guy does not keep on,he is not serious.so most people still take that old school mentality around.to me it has only made d whole thing a game of prey and predators |
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Bidy (f)
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I quite agree with you Onyie, Nigerian ladies should know that keeping a guy on suspense for too long when you know you will finally say YES complicates issues. It makes the guy loose interest (if he ever had a genuine one) and all he runs after will be to see what makes the lady think she is THICK. Once he gets a yes from you, he moves so fast in and out of your life you will never believe it. when you know you will say YES, don't take too long, but when you say NO for a long time, NEVER SAY YES AGAIN!!!!
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Komodo
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@ Bidy, You are damn right!!! If it is yes, well you could delay for a while(Ample time to consider whether he really likes you and if you,ve got feelings for him) then be prompt with your yes after giving it some thought and if it is NO you gotta put down your foot like forever. The major prob i see with that kind of attitude from Nigerian ladies is the fact that they pretend too much and unduely mind what people think of em.U gotta free your mind and satisfy only the You in You, because try as much as you can, some people will still have something bad to say bout you, so y not just do your thing?, Yeah Do your thing, your own way.  |
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fesse (f)
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nigerian men are not only stubborn but rude,selfcentered etc.
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bimbliss (f)
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well saying nigerian guys are stubborn will not be the right words to use for them
then on an issue like this i don't think it will be safe to generalise them
but i will like to say that the stubborn guys are the ones who don't cut their coat according to their cloth and then go after girls that are bigger than them(not in the physical size sense anyway) then they keep insisting on an impossible mission and it really makes one sick if u don't want to be insultive or rude to them
also some guys think if a girl just says yes she is cheap so they girls have to hold on for long and keep the words, so if the guy is not persistent sure he will miss out because they girl dint want to be too hasty
in some way sha this guy and girl tussle can be fun atimes u know.
my dear guys and babes enjoy life while it last i wish everyone all the best in his or her relationship because a real stubborn guy can be the best guy u will ever meet and the best love u can have.
take time with the stubborn guys
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pterygott (f)
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stubborn isn't exactly the right word. . . I think they're go- getters
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Komodo
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PLEASE STOP THE GENERALIZATION.Every group of individuals, geder, age, origin has the good numbers as well as the bad ones.We got Good guys and we got bad guys no doubt.Rude, Self-centered? I don't think so.Nigerian men are Whaooooooooo. We are the best, ****Just too stubborn sumtimes which is actually fun.
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jkpretty (f)
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Its ok to be stubborn as a guy, but be reasonably stubborn |
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shockreaction (m)
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Psh.
You say no and I move on.
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walemania (m)
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My people lets yan about something else i believe we all aint thesame girls dosnt seems to understand what they saying is not corect because they are the cause of it,
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Gamba (f)
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The more stubborn you prove to them the more interesting you become to them,so baby bring it on!
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deekseen (m)
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I wonder why the complain.
Ladies, if a guy asks you out you tell him no and he walks away, what are you going to think of him?
If unserious is the answer, then why complain when he becomes a little persistent?
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OhGrey (m)
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If naija man stubborn, na naija woman cause am.
when they are saying one thing and their body language is saying another.
It just makes the game more interesting. Both prey n predator knows the fun is in the chase. Its a primal thing so like Gamba said "bring it on"
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