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I have been dating this girl for the past 3 years with little or no difficulties in handling the relationship. Actually, there is no form of sex involved in the relationship it was purely built on Platonic Love however, all through her NYSC (last passed outs), I was unable to send her Money as I used to do while I was doing my own NYSC last year. Now she is accusing me of not loving her as I used to do. I have tried but to no avail to explain to her that since my elder late brother died some two months back, I have gotten more responsibility than before. I will like to paste a copy of the email she sent to me:
Dear,I so much appreciate ur kind of love but the the
only thing u lack in ur r/ship is CARE.May be u
believe that love is all about VERBAL.Sorry it is more
than what u thought.I wish u well in ur r/ships bt
learn to care 4 someone u say u love.Always tk good
care of yourself.
From the tone of this mail, I guess it is all over between us? Please what do I do? I need some help. I have also explained to the girl that even though I am working my current salary as a graduate is nothing to write home about. Mind you this girl is from a well to do family and that's what scares me the most. what do I do even though I am not willing to marry her, I will not want the relationship to end on this kind of note. please advise me.
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walemania (m)
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Hey bros sorry about that but i think you start having a new date because she is tring to let you understand nothing can hapen between the both of you she realy cares for your money and i think you in love with here please Guys this is a lesson never try to Make your self cheep for ladies so they wount want to fuckup,
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InCar_Nav
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Dating her for three years and no sex involved? Na your sister? well - if na me be u - i go bail out nicely.
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mia2804 (f)
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Maybe u don't understand the meaning of "care'' in her email.if she is well to do then that might not be what she means by care, u should call her and find a way to sit her down and have her expalin what she means. Even if u guys will break up then it shouldnt be on that note. Tell her that even if she has made up her mind to leave, she should hear you out first. i wish you all the best!!!
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walemania (m)
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Mia, Do you think he should do that because ladies can be crazy anyway i believe even if he sit her down and talk to her she will be more than ready to show her self because she will like to show herself her believe is that this birbrother is nothing to her anymore and i beluive at last the guy she will be going out with is going to deal with her latter she will realise she had fuckup at frist by leaving the bigbrother, Am talking From experience,
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mia2804 (f)
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Mia, Do you think he should do that because ladies can be crazy anyway i believe even if he sit her down and talk to her she will be more than ready to show her self because she will like to show herself her believe is that this birbrother is nothing to her anymore and i beluive at last the guy she will be going out with is going to deal with her latter she will realise she had fuckup at frist by leaving the bigbrother, Am talking From experience,
i based my opinion on what he said and i don't judge based on one side as well. her mail didnt state anything about money- i personally do not understand care as money and thats y i said maybe they sud talk, |
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walemania (m)
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Alright then mia can i get to know you better as a friend you sound great,
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