My Wife Called Me A Liar

On saturday my wife and myself were preparing for a drama presentation in church and part of the drama items is a wedding cake. we placed order for one real cake but when it came it was too small to ba a wedding cake, so i took money for my personal purse to make a dummy cake of 3,000 naira. when my wife came back i explained to her , she just started shouting that why must i do that, that she has paid for another cake , that why should i do a cake for 3,000 that is not rational that maybe im lieing that i did it for 1,ooo.

please, advice me on what to do.

thank you all

let us know are you the man of the house abi na your woman
MY WIFE CAN NEVER CALL ME A LIER EVEN IF I LIE SAY NA ME BE
THE SENATE PRESIDENT OF FEDERAL REPUBLIC OF NIGERIA

GUYS IN THE HOUSE ,
allways let your woman know that you are the man of the house,
and that
 you have the upper hand even when the hand is hanging low by your side

this is a domestic issue - u want to get advice from the public so that u can go home and vent the advice on your wife? and to me, it is a question of simply taking her where you made it or phone them and let her confirm or simply just let it go.

this na small isuue o before u let Nairalanders blow it big for u.

Ignore all the "advice" you've gotten so far about being a "man" and battering your wife.  Just discuss it with her.

That woman lacks respect. I mean what’s her business in the matter. You already made it clear to us that you collected the money from you personal pause. So if you decide to buy a cake worthN3000, N10, 000 or even one million Naira, it’s none of her business because:
1. You are the man of the house and
2. You are the owner of the money.

So I would advise you to call her and tell her to apologize to for insulting your (her husband) personality. She must know how to show some respect to you who married her.

What kind of a man would come and seek advice from a public forum for such a domestic matter?
My advice to you: Lie her on your sofa and give her 24 strokes of the cane or throw her properties out.

Please stop referring to me.

keep your idiotic brutish words to yourself and those that care to read them.

Thanks.

Little misunderstanding like this could be brought to Nairaland?  So, a couple cannot misunderstand issues?  Haba!

another divoucy

not sure why you are responding to that numbskull, mamaput.

@ThiefOfHearts
I make you sick, how?

Well that's what you said

You could have called her and discuss with her over the phone be4 doing it, and besides, after doing it and she called you a liar, just hold her and tell her you were sorry for not explaining to her before hands, but u just did because u thought that was the best thing to have done at that time, however, u might have thread the path of lying in da past, because she wont just wake up one day and call you a liar.
Please, don't listen all those advice of being the man of the house, she is your wife, yuo are the head and all that, however, she is human with blood running through her vein, so she could flip her lid sometimes, and i am sure some of these men making mouth, such are those that the wife will slap and tell them to kneel down and raise up their hands, i beg don't mind them, it is yuor home and yu have to make it aiight at home, remember, being a xtian, if your home is not OK, God can't bless you, good luck, please try and make it up to her sha

boy,
them don kill you for nairaland o
haa!, haba! you wifey called you liar,
them still de advise you say make you kneel down and beg her
MEEEEN YOU ARE DEAD IF YOU TRY THAT! give woman an inch, and she becomes the ruler!

I understand it pains to be called a liar but umm. . can't this be settled there and then? Have sleepless nights over this and even come and say it on a forum? Dear Lord, I reject such a man!


Crazykid, please delete my Yahoo!ID from your list. Thought you were better than this. Damn you kid!