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Big Mario2 (m)
My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« on: August 28, 2007, 07:40 PM »

Hello here i do not know why my girl friend does not have sexual feeling if i try kissing her she will just ignore me and also ignore my romance to her and she told me she do not have any feelings at all that her last Boy friend had to force her for sex. which disvirgined her.
yewa-man (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #1 on: August 28, 2007, 08:24 PM »

big bros, na wa oooooooooo
$$Rhino
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #2 on: August 29, 2007, 01:59 AM »

Loan her out to a man that can make it happen for her, a man that will rock her world and take her to the cloud of no return Tongue

Jokes apart, try to understand her from within, it i possible that she has had some terible past that made her never to tune in to all the romance, and my guy, make sure your romance is good too, not just kissing her, make sure that the kiss worths it, because i see some nigerian kissing on the movie that might want to make u puke, make sure the lips are looking good too, not some sore lips, make it fun, put some nice rose petals on da bed and rub her down with some nice aroma oil, massage her from head and spend special time around her chest, go down town on her and pally make her feel good, trust me, she will feel u, Wetin i sabi, i am just a rhino
Big Mario2 (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #3 on: August 29, 2007, 02:14 AM »

hello thanks for your advice but this girl no dey allow me touch are pussy
Eko Lomo (f)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #4 on: August 29, 2007, 02:43 AM »

Quote from: Big Mario2 on August 29, 2007, 02:14 AM
hello thanks for your advice but this girl no dey allow me touch are pussy
Gosh i dislike guys like you Angry Angry Angry


Are you dating her for the SEX or what Undecided Undecided


Rubbish!!!!!!!!!shio
Big Mario2 (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #5 on: August 29, 2007, 02:49 AM »

 Shocked :oWel you do not need to dislike me i cherish ladies sex is what keeps the relationship going not really sex but at least a romance a kiss e.t.c may i as you a question Why do one get married? you may say because of children , then i ask again how do children comes,
o girl many marriages are scattered because of lack of sexxxxxxxxxxxoooooooooooooo Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin so abeg no hate me oooooooo  Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley
Eko Lomo (f)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #6 on: August 29, 2007, 02:51 AM »

So your whole relationship is based on SEX, well more grace to your elbow.
Big Mario2 (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #7 on: August 29, 2007, 02:56 AM »

 Embarrassed Embarrassed Embarrassed Embarrassed Embarrassed Embarrassed hello girl do not mis understand me the girl am talking about if am to mary will the marriage last for long or will i have to force and tie her down every night for sex abeg reason with nowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry
samsilo (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #8 on: August 29, 2007, 03:25 AM »

@ Eko Lomo
 If you are a woman and a guy tells you he is not dating you with sex on his mind,he is a bloody liar Angry.
Whether in the long term or short term if you no tender Wink the relationship go scatter or he will play cool and be getting the action some where else while the babe will be the'holy companion'

@poster a lot of women in our culture are brought up with very  funny ideas about sex and relationships.
If you like the babe, don't be too much in a hurry,she sounds young and they are the most confused and ignorant ones.It will need patience for you to make her loosen up.Take her out of her familiar environments especially to where she will see modern romantic couples and if she has had bad experiences in the past try to reassure her.
I don't envy you sha Grin
Eko Lomo (f)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #9 on: August 29, 2007, 03:33 AM »

Quote from: samsilo on August 29, 2007, 03:25 AM
@ Eko Lomo
 If you are a woman and a guy tells you he is not dating you with sex on his mind,he is a bloody liar Angry.
Whether in the long term or short term if you no tender Wink the relationship go scatter or he will play cool and be getting the action some where else while the babe will be the'holy companion'




You guys are misunderstanding me

What I was saying is that, there is more in a relationship than sex.

Having sex doesn’t guarantee an healthy relationship neither will it your lead to the altar
samsilo (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #10 on: August 29, 2007, 03:40 AM »

I get you now.
But please also do not misunderstand me.I am married and a realist.How many relationships lead to marriage ,I would say less than 5%.
Women tend to have a very romantic ,head in the clouds approach to relationships while guys are usually more realistic.This girl may like the poster for real but I have found that most women stop being confused about relationships and sex in their 30s or 40s
Eko Lomo (f)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #11 on: August 29, 2007, 03:50 AM »

Quote from: samsilo on August 29, 2007, 03:40 AM
I get you now.
But please also do not misunderstand me.I am married and a realist.How many relationships lead to marriage ,I would say less than 5%.
 Women tend to have a very romantic ,head in the clouds approach to relationships while guys are usually more realistic.This girl may like the poster for real but I have found that most women stop being confused about relationships and sex in their 30s or 40s
Well that statement is so untrue because have see ladies in their early thirties that still get confused, because they seem to put their WANT first, rather than what they NEED out of the relationship.
iice (f)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #12 on: August 29, 2007, 03:52 AM »

What a thread!
samsilo (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #13 on: August 29, 2007, 04:05 AM »

Its a very different debate if we are to talk about what one wants and what one needs out of a relationship.
The most important question being who determines what you need( I think that should be for the individual to decide).

I may not be that old but I have seen enough and have studied people enough to hold a somewhat hard line when it comes to people and relationships. I have seen how much people preach one thing and do another(esp women) that i tend to dismiss what people say and only take what they do .

The girl in question in this thread will one day meet a guy she likes who as this things tend to happen, be one bad guy who is very good in bed. She will then fall in "love"(Lust?) and get her heart broken and wish she knew better.

@iice what do you mean by what a thread?
anney (f)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #14 on: August 29, 2007, 03:30 PM »

@poster
A God fearing lady will not want 2  to have sex until  d wedding night even if she has to do it  she is so show she is secure  wit u . sex is not everything ,who knows may be u have not been given her,  adequate security , attention ,smile,protection  and trust let her feel your presence,give your lady time and may  b she is stil want 2 b sure u don't want her 4 sex, if u love  her stick to her not because of 1min enjoyment.u guys should just appreciate what u have. Smiley
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #15 on: August 29, 2007, 03:34 PM »

lol you know quite alot for a Rhino.

I agree with you  Wink
ibrahiem (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #16 on: August 29, 2007, 04:44 PM »

she is nt sure of u ma,guy.go to da nearest polilce station 4 check up.
sojioguns (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #17 on: August 29, 2007, 06:44 PM »

Guy, talk to your girl and find out what actually the problem is. From my opinion, I think it is trust. She doesnt trust you yet. So work on it dude.
Big Mario2 (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #18 on: August 30, 2007, 12:40 PM »

hello thanks you guys for your contribution but the girl really loves me trust and care for me but that only is her big problem abegi make huna help me out
marjson (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #19 on: August 30, 2007, 02:26 PM »

Quote from: anney on August 29, 2007, 03:30 PM
@poster
A God fearing lady will not want 2 to have sex until d wedding night even if she has to do it she is so show she is secure wit u . sex is not everything ,who knows may be u have not been given her, adequate security , attention ,smile,protection and trust let her feel your presence,give your lady time and may b she is stil want 2 b sure u don't want her 4 sex, if u love her stick to her not because of 1min enjoyment.u guys should just appreciate what u have. Smiley

SHE SAID IT ALL,
drwhopl (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #20 on: May 07, 2008, 11:28 PM »

@ anney

A God fearing lady will not want 2  to have sex until  d wedding night even if she has to do it  she is so show she is secure  wit u . sex is not everything ,who knows may be u have not been given her,  adequate security , attention ,smile,protection  and trust let her feel your presence,give your lady time and may  b she is stil want 2 b sure u don't want her 4 sex, if u love  her stick to her not because of 1min enjoyment.u guys should just appreciate what u have.



you girls are always wanting to dull us guys that {when we get married we will have sex}mean while one bros somewhere is combing the Punta. i heard that before.my guy know let that girl dull that one bros forced her to have sex.just pray she ain't lesbian.or she might not find you appealing.put her to different test,she might be fooling you and who knows?she might have succeeded.

be sharp,get your groove from someone else.
NubianQ (f)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #21 on: May 08, 2008, 12:21 AM »

Big Mario,

You are not living up to your name oh,  u might have to remove the Big from Mario, 

Sweet talk her and tell her lies, promise her the atlantic ocean,  the Leg go Open,  or maybe u re not Seducing her Properly.

Good luck and when u eventually Enter the DRAGON,  GIST ME Wink
NubianQ (f)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #22 on: May 08, 2008, 12:22 AM »

Big Mario,

You are not living up to your name oh,  u might have to remove the Big from Mario, 

Sweet talk her and tell her lies, promise her the atlantic ocean,  the Leg go Open,  or maybe u re not Seducing her Properly.

Good luck and when u eventually Enter the DRAGON,  GIST ME Wink
Rlst84sale (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #23 on: May 08, 2008, 12:29 AM »

You ned to find out very well why she is not being turned on by your advances, that might be an indication for you to let her go if u guys get married u may be facing harder time getting sex and then it might be too late. Sorry for my response, I don't support fornication, however not turned on is different from resisting temptation. You need to dump her and take  a hike bro.
kaliphman (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #24 on: May 08, 2008, 12:01 PM »

O boy, try develop new and very key romance skills
frank 3.16 (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #25 on: May 08, 2008, 01:30 PM »

continue to try your best, will surely succeed,na woman she be. the day you get through to her, you will be the one running.
@Eko Lomo
you are angry with poster for bringing sex onto their relationship. i don't know what else you want them to be doing. if you must know, in every relationship, the people involved must have a reason for being together, it could be sex, mony,intelligence, fame, beauty, character/personality, religion, tribe etc. and so if he theirs is sex, let them enjoy themselves while it lasts.
Busta (f)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #26 on: May 08, 2008, 01:41 PM »

You ain't working it hard enough . . if u handle her well, she's forget her name.

Pele, but keep trying to u get her and know the buttons that'll switch her on
tngtech (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #27 on: May 08, 2008, 01:49 PM »

@poster

You sure say your babe nor bi Mamiwater Grin Grin Cheesy

How human being go say she nor get sexual feelings. Abi she bi wood. Tell her to go check herself for hospital or abi na u nor dey work hard on her. Tell us oh. Shocked Shocked Shocked
jkak (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #28 on: May 08, 2008, 02:01 PM »

since she does not use no sex before marriage as an excuse, then guy u got to be careful because she may b a lesbian or one bros somewere is helping u out.
nikekenny (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #29 on: May 09, 2008, 12:26 PM »

look for her sensitive spot, girls usually have somewhere if u touch them there they give in, my present girl was a virgin, but before i disvirgin her i found out that her  nipples is her greatest weakness, which i xplor, so find it bro
kufreabasi (m)
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #30 on: May 09, 2008, 12:55 PM »

better slap her on her buttock
mysticnix
Re: My Girl Do Not Have Any Feeling For Sex What Do I Do?
« #31 on: May 09, 2008, 02:39 PM »

No one was born without feelings.

teah her that love is not always about making it
let her want it

don't let every touch lead into,

take it very slow
it is a clear case of childhood throma
which cannot go by trying to have,

approach it from a different perspective.

good luck Grin
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