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bommy
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My boyfriend smokes nd pack ladies 2much which is against my principle. I hav plan 2 leave him bcs is not ready 2 change but his family love me somuch. what do i do bcs i'm scared of nigeria guys .
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godslead (f)
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Hmm I think u shuld leave him FAST
As for his family loving u,girl I don't see hw that will make u happier.
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geevader (m)
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If there\s something u can't put up with because its against ur principles as a person then u should let him go!!!
U are already experiencing heart ache now i can't imagine wot u would experience when u marry him.
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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First of all let me laugh,,,, *rolls on the floor in fits of laughter*Let me write it back to you so u can read what u wrote. 'your boyfriend smokes and he packs the ladies.'Now that you've read it how does that sound to you?  ? my dear leave the guy and go and find out who you are. You are not going out with his family. You can still remain friends with his family if you chose to but the guy is clearly no good for you. A GUY THAT DOES NOT RESPECT YOU DOES NOT DESERVE YOU!!! |
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bommy
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Thank's a whole lot, but nija guys ar unpredictable. please pray 4 me i need a God fearin man if possible a pastor.
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@labiyemmy (m)
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@Bommy
hmmm- only a pastor? U probably need an herbalist.
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bommy
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Yemmy u must b out of ur mind, abi u ar a pagan ni i c u're d guy i'm talkin about.
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@labiyemmy (m)
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No bommy - an herbalist will be more commited.
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Easybaby (f)
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@poster . . .which guys are predictable . . . if I may ask 
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ike4real
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ahhhaa,but i thought ''they'' said good girls love bad boys?
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sanrima (f)
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if u talk to him to change his ways and he refuses my dear please just take walk because its not his familyu are going to marry
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crazykid (m)
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You already know he womanizes, so why are you still hanging out with him? You’re lucky he hasn’t started beating you up yet. Flee now there’s still time before you get infected with some STD.
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ayeesha (f)
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are you dating him or his family what has his family liking you got to do with your peace of mind girl? * just asking o!*
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azpunpin
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I will advise you make the right decision for yourself, You are capable to do so if only you want to.
Take Care,
Love Ya.
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$$Rhino
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labiyemi, i beg it is too early in da morning to laff my head off, i beg.
@ Poster, you sure know what to do, so do it, and if you want a pastor, i fit give u one, halla me
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webman (m)
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Do you want to learn how to smoke too, ? Well, you are not marrying the family but him, Just run fast to me because, l do not smoke nor drink and l only pack knowledge lol
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Vannesa (f)
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leave him,even if his family likes u they would also like his new girl remember its his family, so forget it,if he doesnt what to change ,move on with ur life
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agwoko
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@ post
i will advice u to stay with him, because if u decide to walk away from him simply because he drinks and do other stuff u r not please with, what if the next guy happen to even worse compare to the present 1? any ways its ur choice oh do what eva please u.
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Nautillus (m)
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Stay with him girl . . . .where is your power of enduorance as a woman??
so what . . . .He smokes . . .eh hen ? ? Barrack Obama smokes too.
so he packs women, . . . .well who doesn't ? ? ?
Stay with your man abeg.
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whatever90 (f)
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Stay with him girl . . . .where is your power of enduorance as a woman??
so what . . . .He smokes . . .eh hen ? ? Barrack Obama smokes too.
so he packs women, . . . .well who doesn't ? ? ?
Stay with your man abeg.
so that she will die of heart attack and AIDS before her time right? @topic old story though but i want u to know that no woman should be wt a partner that does not give her peace and happiness,does two r d strong pillar of a relationship,likewise them men |
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Mgbejume
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My dear, U should first of all define your purpose of been in the relationship. You know what u want best, so if its d guy that drink, smokes womanizes and maybe manizes  u go on girl but if it's not u know what to do. You are in the best position to advice yourself. Much love |
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Missy B (f)
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Posta For your best interest . . . Some of the people telling you to leave him/move on face probs in their relationship that are worst than yours right now but like we know It's a faceless forum and people are singing move on. Lol!!!  Womanizin' and smoking are against your principles and you want to leave him simply because he does sometin against ur principle? Phulease!!! Which one of us hasn't gone against our principles in life for one reason or anutha? Which one of us is in a relationship that is perfect? What am I trynna say? I'm sayin' . . . . Be in your relationship until you think and feel you cannot continue anymore.Trust me gurl,when you are fed up you won't need anyone to tell you whatta do,You will know. |
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