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Gamine (f)
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yes ooh  i wonder why a man shldnt hav money to take care of us  so men, take heed  u gotta have d Cash to roll with a Catch  u gotta have Money if u want the Honey  thank u
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geevader (m)
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well well, it isnt all about the money u know. Some couples got money but no lurv, I think there shound be a balance of both, don't u think, 
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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Actually I don't think so.
Yes the guy has to have money but not for me. I don't need his money. He needs the money to polish his ego so he does not feel less of a man because i earn way more than him.
Money is not everything. ( I am probably talking like this because I am very comfortable) But besides that; I don't need his money to feel fulfilled in a relationship!
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Gamine (f)
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its all the same thing if a guy dosnt hav money, how will he polish himself thats my main point Even if i don't need his money he should be willing to spend it on me! 
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dakmanzero (m)
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Hmmm. So those of us with no money are once again, left out in the cold. gamine thou breakest my heart 
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geevader (m)
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OK fine a guy needs cash-money to tush himself up and all, but i feel its what u have got inside that counts, am a guy and sometimes i don't have money but i still have my sense of humor and confidence because i know its only a matter of time before i get that dough!!!
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doyin13 (m)
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geevader
People, this issue of romance and money has been on my mind a whole lot lately
See this is my dilemma
I am the next in line to the throne of the Awuajale of Ijebuland
Accompanying my title are assets worth over ten million dollars.
Now I need to find a woman who will marry me for who I am not what I have.
I have this plan:
I will travel to America to find my bride
I will live in the most decrepit conditions, prolly work at Mcdonalds.
My only luxury will be my able servant Semiu.
If a girl still finds me attractive then, I shall make her my queen.
What do you lot think?
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Easybaby (f)
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@post . . . I concur with you . . .No money . . .No honey 
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Seun (m)
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How many of you men will marry an ugly, fat, old woman? None? Well, it's the same principle. You are looking for something (youth, fertility) and the woman is also looking for something (security). There must be an intersection of demand and supply for the transaction of romance to be successful. 
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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@Doyin13
would you like me to bark like dog?
I have been instructed to meet your every needs and I was hand picked by your father.
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ugonna0071 (f)
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finance + Romace = Happiness to the power of 10
Romance - Finance = partial fulfilment
No Finance + No Romance = FRUSTRATION
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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@Doyin13
would you like me to bark like dog?
I have been instructed to meet your every needs and I was hand picked by your father.
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Keziah (f)
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How many of you men will marry an ugly, fat, old woman? None? Well, it's the same principle. You are looking for something (youth, fertility) and the woman is also looking for something (security). There must be an intersection of demand and supply for the transaction of romance to be successful.  Seun what a way to put it! But i must confess that u are absolutely right in my opinion.
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Gamine (f)
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How many of you men will marry an ugly, fat, old woman? None? Well, it's the same principle. You are looking for something (youth, fertility) and the woman is also looking for something (security). There must be an intersection of demand and supply for the transaction of romance to be successful. Seun u be correct guy jo!!! finance + Romace = Happiness to the power of 10
Romance - Finance = partial fulfilment
No Finance + No Romance = FRUSTRATION exactly ooh!  i can't love a man for money, for me, thats torture, it aint worth it! i can't fall in love with a guy who dosent have money or the ability to make it, for me, it just wont happen!  i can't
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C_JAY (m)
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Really 
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Gamine (f)
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yes, really im sorry Darkie 
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nana (f)
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Well,i don't personally agree with this topic o.
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doyin13 (m)
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Well I think it is contextual.
I think people are willing to give it a go regardless of money up to the age of say 23-24 before the women folk start getting career minded and the like
For most of University I was as broke as the Nigerian Economy but I had quite a few fruitful relationships. Most of the ladies had stars in their eyes, wanted to see the world, and save the environment.
Well they have since donned their suits and set conditions on their relationships. They now find my antics childish and lacking in ambition, the same antics that had them giggling and cooing in my ears a few years back.
well I am now looking for a female who wants to see the world and save the planet
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anney (f)
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Romans minus No Finance can b very frustrating expecially when u are a good girl type , nairalanders my eyes see sometin 4 life . d most annoning tinis dt some guys no get money and they no fit give love , we ladies we must shine our eyes o
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Gamine (f)
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well I am now looking for a female who wants to see the world and save the planet this can only be done with money 
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marjson (m)
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 MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING,
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ebony4life (f)
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Money doesn't answer all, but it should be a pre-requsite, because we girls like to day dream, when we come back from the la-la land it might be too late. So shine ya eyez. 
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Seun (m)
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On the other hand, i don't think I will spend all my money on a girl if I happen to be rich. Sorry girls!
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magneto (m)
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@ topic
funny thing about Naija girls is, they'll want to get the finance and withold the romance. u don see mugu!
No Romance, No Finance! . . . gbam!
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uchetobi (f)
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who cares about the money?? il have mine anyways, as long as there is no complex, we willco exist
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smartf (m)
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no finance no romance?! little wonder men divorce at will and marry as much as they can
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doyin13 (m)
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this can only be done with money  well back packing requires little capital i can get round Europe with hundred pounds  Unfortunately the ladies travel first class nowadays 
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shollebaba (m)
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i will never think of getting married in my life. If money will be the main reason a lady is with in the first place though it the KOKO behind every necessary things that one needs but to use that as a yardstick forget u in 4 so many trouble.
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option4301 (m)
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@uchetobi,
Please tell all these greedy girls here.That is why they can never be satisfied with one man.Poverty is a curse!
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