No Finance, No Romance!

@ Elgaxton

No shakes! no vex o!   

Who am i to bust your bubble. I'm  busy 'stockpiling finance'.

Back to the topic. I don leave una alone. Happy now? 

owning up to ones responsibilities (often, financial responsibilities for a man) make a marriage last and not 'love' literally.

So we can say, FINANCE might really be a necessary ingredient for ROMANCE.

People be real, true love alone cannot sustain a relationship
so many things are involved

and if the guy truly loves he will do anything legally possible
to support his family financially!!

So Money is Terribly important, both the woman and the man alike

But the man is the Original Breadwinner o.

@Gamine

I know that but the way money is specifically discussed here, it’s as if without money, you can’t marry.

I know money is essential in relationships, but there is also a possibility that if a girl loves you for your money, she is likely to leave you when you eventually crumble. True love shouldn’t be based on riches. It should be rooted on your emotions and feeling towards your partner.

ooooooo this people!!! ooooooooooooo

Romance

choose ya pick!

Romantic love" is a general term referring to the connection between "love" and the general idea of "romance", according to more traditional usages of the terms. Historically the term "romance" did not necessarily imply love relationships, but rather was seen as an artistic expression of one's innermost desires; sometimes including love, sometimes not. Romance is still sometimes viewed as an expressionistic, or artful form, but within the context of "romantic love" relationships it usually implies an expression of one's love, or one's deep emotional desires to connect with another person. It is exaggerated or decorated (more exciting than they really are) expression of love[1][2]. "Romance" in this sense can therefore be defined as attachment, fascination, or enthusiasm for something or someone.

Real men don't insult women!

LOL

i wonder how much a man makes is a composite of a 'real man' 

i know the area

i was there on sunday giving out rice n chicken to d poor

my church organised it

it was heart wrenchin to see u guys strugglin to get jst a bowl

aaaw aw aw

Happiness is subjective, what makes one person happy may not make another person happy.
For me sha, money is not = to happiness, yes you need money to meet basic needs but money is just an item not a pre-requisite for happiness or romance.
Women like men have five fingers on each hand and if money is what makes a sister happy, then i will advice her to go make hers cause you get satisfaction when spending money you make.
However what I can't stand is a Lazy Man, I will want an intelligent and smart man, he does not have to be rich.

Seun, God bless you!

Let us see it from another angle, If a woman looses her shape and beauty after marriage people
justify the husband's infidelity, you start to hear things like,'is this what you looked like when I/he married you?'

So tell me why can't the woman also take a walk when the man looses his job?
Why the doulble standard?

Gamine and co, please do not give men the impression that women are pests.
Women have oppurtunities of earning good money when they work hard. Why would any women want to sit back and wait for finance and supply from any man.
If I was a man, Honestly, I would not want to date a woman who will be a huge hole in my pocket.
Haba, wetin do her hand?

yeah, it does

i went to my fathers village last month n donated stuffz too

Ojugbule is in my care district

some other people went to mushin , ajegunle, etc

i c