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luuvbuuh (f)
The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« on: August 30, 2007, 12:23 PM »

THE DUMBEST QUESTION MEN ASK AFTER!,      

DID YOU COME? (AS IN WITH A QUESTION MARK?)DID YOU COME!!!!!!!! GUYS, IF YOU can't TELL WHETHER OR NOT SHE CAME, THEN I AM SURE SHE can't TELL AS WELL, LOL
Seun (m)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All Times Men Ask:
« #1 on: August 30, 2007, 12:30 PM »

Why shouldn't a lady be able to tell? Isn't it her body?
Please wise up; couples need to communicate more, not less!
adekennis (m)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #2 on: August 30, 2007, 12:41 PM »

Thanks so much for the rely Sheun.you are too much
N-joy (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #3 on: August 30, 2007, 12:47 PM »

It is not a dumb question coming from a considerate man who cares to ask if his lover is sexually satisfied. I think you'd preferred he asked than for you to hear him say 'wham bam thank you mam'.
luuvbuuh (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #4 on: August 30, 2007, 01:04 PM »

@ seun , It is a dumb question because a womwn always knows when a man comes, all the shaking and aahs and oohs , likewise if she comes you should know: from her reaction,,  except you are too engrossed in your own pleasure, then in that case why ask?,
luuvbuuh (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #5 on: August 30, 2007, 01:07 PM »

N-joy, if he is so considerate he should have carried you along all-through, A man should know when he is pleasing you, true or false?
N-joy (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #6 on: August 30, 2007, 01:25 PM »

@ love
It takes two to make love, love making is an art. Most men don't know when a woman cums, hence he is asking if she came. It's worth telling the man how you'd liked to be pleasured. Don't forget for most women it takes longer to make them reach an orgasm, and most men do come before a woman so it's only natural he asks.
Seun (m)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #7 on: August 30, 2007, 01:27 PM »

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@ seun , It is a dumb question because a woman always knows when a man comes
You must be a virgin.  You see, once a man ejaculates, that's it.  But a woman's system is more complex.

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A man should know when he is pleasing you, true or false?
Unless the man is a wizard, he can only know what you tell him.  This is common sense.
luuvbuuh (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #8 on: August 30, 2007, 01:45 PM »

COMMON SENSE? WHEN IT COMES TO LUVMAKING COMMONSENSE HAS NO ROLE, A MAN EJACULATES RIGHT? A WOMAN DOESNT COME AND JUST LIES THERE, SHE REACTS AS WELL, BESIDES WHAT ANSWER DO YOU EXPECT FROM HER? NO? THAT WILL HURT A MAN'S PRIDE, SO PLEASE NEXT TIME YOU ARE DOING IT BE MORE ATTENTIVE TO YOUR PARTNER'S REACTIONS (IF YOU CARE, THAT IS) IF YOU ARE PLEASING A WOMAN, BELIEVE ME YOU WOULD KNOW AND IF SHE COMES, SHE WILL MOAN LOUDER, JERK SHAKE OR SQUEEZE YOU VERY TIGHT, SO LIKE MEN, THOUGH WE don't COME AS EASILY, IT SHAKES US AS HARD!, @ SEUN LEARN,
iice (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: \\\'Did You Come?\\\'
« #9 on: August 30, 2007, 04:50 PM »

Not always dumb Undecided\
Komodo
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #10 on: August 30, 2007, 05:24 PM »

@luuvbuuh, ***** Listen, When a man comes, his tool becomes limp and most men come once and have to relax before coming up again and coming a second time, unlike women who can come many times repeatedly coupled with the fact that there is no obvious indication that she has come. So maybe if you could be less arguementative you'll see the sense in what Seun is saying.In men, its obvious "This guy has come" in women, it is not really glaring.I've had women who make the same amount of "noise" throughout the act, from the start to the end and yet say they came, not one girl or two, so pray, How can a considerate man know if he doesnt ask?Abeg think again Cool Cool
desgiezd (m)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #11 on: August 30, 2007, 05:31 PM »

Normally, a dumb question would require a reciprocal dumb response.

Question: Did you come?

Response: How? Why? Did you enter into me? I didnt feel you in my punani.
iice (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #12 on: August 30, 2007, 05:34 PM »

Grin Grin Grin
drrionelli (m)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #13 on: August 30, 2007, 07:03 PM »

This looks to be a thread of potentially complex considerations, so I'll add another variable to the equation.

When say "come" in reference to a females, we almost categorically refer to an orgasm.  In males, however, the orgasm and the ejaculation are not the same thing, although they do, most frequently occur, very near the same point of excitement.  And, yes, it is very possible for a man to experience an orgasm without producing an ejaculation. 

Perhaps more women should ask men the question!  (Ah, I can hear the chorus of disagreement now--"Talk about a mood-killer!")

osereka (m)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #14 on: August 30, 2007, 07:13 PM »

when a woman comes, is like the passing of a special train smooth, no noise
but when a man comes, is like the passing of a locomotive train, all noise
drrionelli (m)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #15 on: August 30, 2007, 11:52 PM »

So, if I'm reading you correctly, osereka, you're saying that when either gender "comes," it's comparable to a passing of a train, right?

And, when something passes, it "goes" by a given point, correct?

Thus, one might say that when people are "coming," they are, in effect, "going!"   Grin
luuvbuuh (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #16 on: August 31, 2007, 11:42 AM »

OK! GUYS YOU WIN, YOU WILL NEVER SEE MY POINT (BEING MEN!), I GIVE UP, KEEP ASKING YOUR GIRL IF SHE CAME, THE 'COME' ISSUE IS GETTING HILARIOUS, ANYWAY I WASNT ARGUING FOR ARGUEMENT SAKE,I JUST THINK MOST MEN ARE USUALLY TOO ENGROSSED IN THEIR OWN PLEASURE DURING, AND THE QUESTION SEEMS TO BE AN AFTER THOUGHT, 'OO, DID YOU COME?'  ANYWAY, WHATEVER ,
Komodo
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #17 on: August 31, 2007, 11:50 AM »

We are definitely not women, that is why we got the tool to fix your problem (If yu get the drift). Males and females enjoy the act at the start, during and after, so stop this "Engrossment (If there's an english word like that) accusation".And since you ave started, let me also join you in the Whatever chorus, *****%&&&&&&&&Tra la la
luuvbuuh (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #18 on: August 31, 2007, 12:01 PM »

KOMODO, CAN YOU PLEASE GET OFF MY BACK? THANK YOU, AND STOP BEING A WISE-ASS CHECK YOUR DICTIONARY FOR 'ENGROSSMENT' BEFORE YOU START MAKING WISE-CRACKS AND SINGING THE WHATEVER CHORUS, OK?,
Komodo
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #19 on: August 31, 2007, 12:33 PM »

I can see you are excited. Grin
Komodo
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #20 on: August 31, 2007, 12:36 PM »

Madam, Listen, when people say "If its an English word"its not by any means literary. Its just something you say when you are talking.
How strong are you?, what makes you think i can fit yur back? As a package or a baby? Which? I like singing the whateva song, its for us, Big time losers. Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
luuvbuuh (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #21 on: August 31, 2007, 12:48 PM »

some one please tell me why i am bothering to reply this guy, uncle sabi! Huh Huh
Easybaby (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #22 on: August 31, 2007, 12:54 PM »

*I knew it *             * roll eye*

*zoom off*
Komodo
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #23 on: August 31, 2007, 12:55 PM »

I like u,Luuvbuuh.
luuvbuuh (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #24 on: August 31, 2007, 01:33 PM »

[color=#990000]Easy baby? WHY ARE U ROLLING YOUR EYES?,
Easybaby (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #25 on: August 31, 2007, 01:39 PM »

Quote from: Komodo on August 31, 2007, 12:55 PM
I like u,Luuvbuuh.


lol . . . are you sure? Cheesy Grin Tongue



Quote from: luuvbuuh on August 31, 2007, 01:33 PM
Easy baby? WHY ARE You ROLLING YOUR EYES?,

[color=#000099]Water don pass gari Cheesy Grin Tongue
Komodo
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #26 on: August 31, 2007, 01:46 PM »

Easybaby Yes, but not as much as i like you, yu know nowwwwww.I likje people that find "Boring old me" interesting
Easybaby (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #27 on: August 31, 2007, 01:51 PM »

Quote from: Komodo on August 31, 2007, 01:46 PM
Easybaby Yes, but not as much as i like you, yu know nowwwwww.I likje people that find "Boring old me" interesting

Really? . . .but you didn't tell me! Grin Tongue
luuvbuuh (f)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #28 on: August 31, 2007, 02:38 PM »

FIND YOU INTERESTING? WHEREVER DID YOU GET THAT IDEA?  YOU AND EASY-BABY SEEM TO GET-ON FINE SO PLEASE don't LIKE ME Wink
Komodo
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #29 on: August 31, 2007, 05:12 PM »

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Quote from: Easybaby on August 31, 2007, 01:51 PM
Really? . . .but you didn't tell me! Grin Tongue
Haba, don't pretend you don't know, You topped my list onb this particular subect.143**************** Tongue Tongue Tongue Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss


Quote from: luuvbuuh on August 31, 2007, 02:38 PM
FIND YOU INTERESTING? WHEREVER DID YOU GET THAT IDEA? YOU AND EASY-BABY SEEM TO GET-ON FINE SO PLEASE don't LIKE ME Wink
I think i'm even liking you more than Easebaby now, you make me feel soooooooooooo unwanted, and this is the key to my heart.i love you
drrionelli (m)
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #30 on: August 31, 2007, 06:03 PM »

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OK! GUYS YOU WIN, YOU WILL NEVER SEE MY POINT (BEING MEN!), I GIVE UP, KEEP ASKING YOUR GIRL IF SHE CAME, THE 'COME' ISSUE IS GETTING HILARIOUS, ANYWAY I WASNT ARGUING FOR ARGUEMENT SAKE,I JUST THINK MOST MEN ARE USUALLY TOO ENGROSSED IN THEIR OWN PLEASURE DURING, AND THE QUESTION SEEMS TO BE AN AFTER THOUGHT, 'OO, DID YOU COME?'  ANYWAY, WHATEVER ,


@luuvbuuh:
Please, calm down!  I'm sure that some of the more cavalier responses on this thread were simply attempts at "lightening up" the subject matter.  I'm sure you know that some people are somewhat uncomfortable about discussing sexual issues, and tend, for right or wrong, to treat such things with a bit of levity. 

And, I implore and beseech (I'll beg, if need be) try not to generalize about all of us males (or females, for that matter).  We men are not all the same any more than you women are.
sexsogood
Re: The Dumbest Question Of All: 'Did You Come?'
« #31 on: August 31, 2007, 06:34 PM »

@luuvbuuh

there is no precise mode of conduct when coming; some scream while some are humble.

some sound like they are coming when f***king so how do u expect the guys to be sure they are or are not coming???

me i like the guy 2 ask and if i say NO he should get back to work. Wink Grin Tongue
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