Long Distance Relationships - Would You Leave Nigeria?

Offtopic: So you've never met your boyfriend?

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I'm not Nigerian at all, that I know of.  I say it like that because my father's heritage is spotty and I don't know much about him.  My mom is East Indian and I was brought up in America.  My boyfriend's dad is American and mom is Nigerian.  He has lived his whole life in Nigeria.   This month's phone bill is $300 which i think is like naira 38,317.  I can afford it, but still.  It would be less expensive for either of us (meaning HIM) to immigrate.     Now, before people start callin' me selfish, he said he will come.  But it made me wonder, how many Nigerians are willing to give up their home for a distance love.  It seems that there's a long of distance lovin' goin' on!

I would move in a heartbeat to anywhere that I can work and keep up the standard of living to which I'm accustomed.  Btw, Hotstepper, thanx for the encouragement.  I hope you're a lawyer so u can represent me in bankruptcy court.  That's where I'll surely end up!