The Old Silent Treatment Is A Waste Of Time

What is wrong with the so called old silent treatment?

I am amused whenever I see couples not speaking to each other in annoyance.
And I saw a man who found it hard to forgive his wife for sleeping with another man and separated from her till he died. I never saw him speak to her.
He was mean and unforgiven.

I cannot imagine not speaking to my sweetest, no matter what she has done. Even if I found out that she is a witch, I will still talk to her to do my best to help her out of her predicament.
Even if I catch her in adultery, I will not stop speaking to her. Because, the fact is, I don't lose sleep over many of the issues that humans fret about.
Speak or don't speak.
Sulk or don't sulk.
Hate or don't hate.
Live or die.
Life goes on.
And I don't want life to go on without enjoying it.

I don't know how to hate.
Because, I was made for love, to love and never to stop loving till the end.

Even if I catch my sweetheart in bed with another man, I won't throw her over the balcony.
In fact, I will still love her and even make love to her the next minute if she still wants me to love her.

There are enough conflicts and hostilities in the world, and besides I don't like  headaches or worries.

If a man forks my babe or wife, that does not mean I should go mad.
To me, they just had sex.
Finis.
How was it?
Did you enjoy it?
Was it a good fork?
But darling, why did you do it?

If she is honest and transparent, I will forgive her right there.
And life goes on.

A girlfriend once told me that my friend raped her.
When did he do it?
She said a month ago. But she was afraid of telling me.
Hmm.
Did you enjoy it?
Suddenly, she flared up and yelled that how could she enjoy being raped?
And she was just telling me after a month?
She thought I would shoot my buddy?
Wrong.
He took advantage of her behind my back and forked her.
She never told me until 30 days later and expected me to go and figjht him?
Wrong.
How was it?
Simple Question.
Did you enjoy it?
Yes or No.
Life goes on. 

I am not an emotional animal.
I love drama.
Scream and yell aloud.
Howl and snarl like a dog.
But I won't hit you and I won't even push you.
I would prefer to lay you and lay you real good.

How do I punish my woman when she offends me?
I fork her well.

Love is the weapon of my warfare.

And you may quote me.

Two babes are not speaking to me again right now, but whenever I think of them, all I imagine is making love to the older leggy one. And I imagine how I would raise up her thighs and make her feel the measure of my love. The length and depth of my passion to love and not to hate.

My Sweetest and I went through a stormy weather
But we came back and reconciled and still together.
Our love is better and stonger and tighter.

Whatever will make you feel blue and not to speak to your spouse, please do your utmost to stop it before it happens.

You can join the discussion on the old silent treatment.

Seun,
Apologies for being so blunt.

I just let it flow.

That is me.

Cheating is the most common cause of separations between lovers and spouses.
That is why I have made the issues so graphic.

Apologies to those who would feel ouch! for the raw language.

Have a great romantic weekend.
Kiss and make up today, because tomorrow may be too late.

Keeping rapists as friends is not being blunt.  It's being a criminal by association.  Soon you will join them.

Those who know me would not be surprised.
Nigerian nurses spoilt me since 1988.
I had to draw the female anatomy for months that I got fixated on it. But I am harmless.
It is good to free your mind.

Seun,
I did not know they were capable of doing such horrible and terrible things.
They were regular church goers.
How would I know a rapist when none of them had any criminal record.

I cannot commit such a crime, because I see sex as very sacred.
I have not even had sex since July 7, 2006. And before then, I was celibate since January 1, 1999.
The first time I had sex, I was afraid to cross the road.
I knelt down and begged God to forgive me for fornication. And the last time was with my faithful partner and she is in another state and we have not seen since July 7, 2006.
She is very faithful.
I am very faithful.
Sex is sacred to me.
So, I don't abuse or misuse the birth canal of humankind.
The sacred grove of motherhood.

But lest we digress, the issue is, why should couples be so cross with each other that they would not speak. Like the man taking his pillow and going to sleep in another room or turning his back on the wife in bed?

To me, the old silent treatment is childish.

I believe in talking things over.

Sit down and trash out the rubbish.