Married Man! But Searching For A Girl

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Ok This is the Truth!! I have a Girl Friend which I am serious with Presently . Based in the UK while I am based here. She comes very often because of me and I sometimes visit her in Cork [Dublin] when I can afford the fares.

But I want to tell her off, think its a good Idea? I need a more personal/initimate relationship not some that make me spend half my monthly pay on long phone calls on a daily basis

I am hereby searching for a girl friend on here.  I love though but can't stand the loneliness any longer

Pics of Her and My Self Herein Attached     

dude, what's d deal with her pix? do u love her or what? because i u do, u don't need to be looking for an alternative

if ure both serious, u shld be able to manage a relationship.

Yeah Babe, I do love her but I want into something more interesting/ I want a girl that will be available when I need her not a phone call away

i think she dumped u and ure trying to get back at her.
ure obviously not telliung d whole story man!

My brother, to honest with you, long distance relationships are tough, I was in one and it really tough, we broke up eventually, but in your own case you get to see often, maybe not as often like you would want to, and you said you visit when you can. I think there are better ways of handling matters like this. in any case she is a lovely madam if i may say so.

Like the last poster said you had better remove the madam’s pic, or less if and when she comes across the post, she will drop you without blinking an eyelid, maybe that’s what you want?

If you truly LOVE her distance should not be a barrier. All the best

@ Yewa Man

I think are right as  Jesus Freaks Says, I 'll just remove all pics


and post a new thread stating


''Beautiful Girl needed urgently staying in Lagos''

Oh Nick! please please don't do something you'll regret. Are you doing this because you envy your friends and relations? something tells me this is all so so wrong. You sound like one little spoilt boy that says, "mom I want a doll because you bought Jany one"
Grow up man. See how both of you can get together and if nothing comes out of it, you can think of breaking up before advertising for girlfriends. No decent lady will date you knowing what you just did to a fellow lady.

You're getting worked up here Nick.
Take out time with your girl friend and sort this whole stuff out. You still love her and only thinking of breaking up because she's not here. Imagine you call her up and she says, "y not, I'll come home for you horn" what will u do with all these built up passion?
This is so wrong!

@ N ick

I respect and admire your sincerity (which i choose to hope you are), but what i don't understand is why you'll come here seeking advice if your mind is already made up?

And what with throwing her pics all over?? If you're positive you guys are splitting up soonest, don't you think you owe her the decency of keeping her pics private??

I don't know what you're after, but do know that marriage has a lot to it than just seeing each other everyday, or wanting your babe with you because your frends take theirs along to weddings.

You have to weigh the positive and the negatives . . is she worth the wait? is she everything you ever wanted?? will you find another "her" around you?? isnt she giving you something that only "she" can give you?? something you don't want from someone else, but her, the distance regardless??

By the sound of things, forgive my assumption if its wrong, but from where i'm seated, it doesnt seem to me you love her . . because it sounds as if the money you spend on phone calls and the upkeep of your relationship is more important , and if thats the case, then yu should let the damsel go . . you're too selfish for her jare I know its frustrating dear, but if both hearts are joined, then the love will surely see you through!

@ NaJa HaJe,
I feel your irritation and annoyance, but please, chill, don't get worked up like the poster is already.

@Yimiton

my dear am not ooooooo.

some things just need to be said to put some people in their place

hey nick, do you think this is the best way to dump your girl?

i agree distance could be an issue in a relationship but it seems the only reason you have to break up this one. (not too good man)

why don't you consider relocating if you truly love her (at least you can afford to visit). otherwise you'D have another reason if you eventually hook up with a lagos babe (possibly that she doesn't return your calls on time or something, ) try to make your relationship work so you don't keep going around in circles. cheers!

@jkpretty
hi there. whats dumb girl?

One of the problems with Nigerians is this kind of statement:


You can feed someone you don't even know? Is feeding another person all that life consists of?

I can only wish you the best of luck my brother.

@ Naja Haje

No Hard feelings babe, Apologies from a Fellow Nigerian [Watch Your Tongue Though]

@ Board

It's just that I feel Jealous and Lonely when I go out on Weekends with My Friends & Colleagues, and they're with their Wives and girl Friends I mean C'mon ''Any one Would Feel Lonely'' I don't like to Cheat on her, except you'll advice I do that to keep the relationship