Can You Be Friends With An Ex?

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Bosdem (f)
Can You Be Friends With An Ex?
« on: September 07, 2007, 11:36 AM »

You spent a long time together. You knew each other inside and out. And once upon a time, you thought you might be the perfect pair. But you weren't, and for one reason or another, you and your ex didn't work out romantically. But now that it's over, can you really be friends?

theffanyi (m)
Re: Can You Be Friends With An Ex?
« #1 on: September 07, 2007, 01:09 PM »

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NaJa HaJe (f)
Re: Can You Be Friends With An Ex?
« #2 on: September 07, 2007, 01:19 PM »

on first glance I'll say no.

then again it depends on how much feelings is left between you two, how matured you both are, you willingness to move on, and ultimately if you can handle it.

I think this will be a personal decision for you to make and it should not be made on account of your ex or what he wants. thats if he's asking you two to be friends.

I chose a clean break from my Ex because I knew it was going to be absolutely impossible to be friends with him considering how deeply i felt for him.

it was a very hard decision to make especially since he just didn't understand my reasons; But u know what ;,,,,,, It was one of the best decisions that I have ever made. Trust Me.

Babe some times its good to cut and pull out. That way you heal faster!!!!
chuckdee4 (m)
Re: Can You Be Friends With An Ex?
« #3 on: September 07, 2007, 01:30 PM »

Agreed with Naja Haje, it depends on whatever feelings u have left for this ex, if there is absoltely no more feelings then feel free to be friends with him/her, else if there is a tint of feelings left then call it quits.
The last thing u want is to be the cause of him/her splitting with his/her girfriend
sagacious (f)
Re: Can You Be Friends With An Ex?
« #4 on: September 07, 2007, 01:43 PM »

Absence  and out of sight shapen love,  but being together strenghten it .Two lovers sometime ago due to one reason or the other now decide to break the courtship and convert it to friendship , it doesn't always work , it as if you are not ready to drop what is in your hand. It's better you let the sleeping dog lie.It as if you are saying goodbye ,when you still want to try.Better let the music off
iice (f)
Re: Can You Be Friends With An Ex?
« #5 on: September 07, 2007, 01:48 PM »

Depends on the historybut generally am friends with them
Easybaby (f)
Re: Can You Be Friends With An Ex?
« #6 on: September 07, 2007, 02:27 PM »

lol . . .my own is not yet over! Cheesy Grin Grin Grin Grin

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