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hector (m)
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Hei am 19, just about to go into the uni. i have not had sex before. I do have the urge and i have a couple of girls around me,but i don't know how to ask them 4 sex. I get shy making oral sex with them. i need to know what to do?
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bisii (f)
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cool, aint nothin weird in it really!!!!  guess the guys r in the best position to advice u on this, just wanted to say u can't JUST ASK A GIRL FOR SEX, if u don't even kno ow to go bout it!!!! neways , al the best with watever u decide to do!!!! |
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crazykid (m)
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Don't rush yourself into sex.
If you feel you're no ready for it, then I would advise you to focus on your studies. Sex comes with a lot of responsibility.
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BABEELOVE (f)
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@Topic  Hei am 19, just about to go into the uni. i have not had sex before. I do have the urge and i have a couple of girls around me,but i don't know how to ask them 4 sex. I get shy making oral sex with them. i need to know what to do?
Are you a front end --------- or rear end virgin !!!!!  Please specify!!! At least we know your oral cavity is not of the "virgin olive" calibre. Virginity is subject to numerous forms of imaginable interpretations thiz days!!!!  At 19, should you not be thinking of some graduation--parry--- from university in about 2 years like most focussed people?  !!! The saddest part is that you are a "guy" Having sleepless nights over ya "virginity"is highly developmentally inappropriate at this time!!! Please have a cognitive evaluation when next you visit your internist for your next annual physical. Might need to change your diet!!! Someone please page SANJAY GUPTA!!!! Just a concerned Nairalander---don't mean to hurt ya feelings regarding your list of accomplishments in your childhood life!!! Just what I would tell any of my sons if the came to me with such a problem when they reach 19!!!!!  With much love----babee "Adanna" love!!! All thiz silly virgin topics!!!  |
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cute-ass (f)
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Hei am 19, just about to go into the uni. i have not had sex before. I do have the urge and i have a couple of girls around me,but i don't know how to ask them 4 sex. I get shy making oral sex with them. i need to know what to do?
Oooh, you even "make" oral sex with them? hope by "oral sex", you don't mean kissing oo?? just asking sha! And if you don't mean kissing, then i don't get what you mean by "asking them for sex" . . i mean if you go as far as ministring oral sex to them, then you couldnt be that far from the real thing . . you've done 99, what is 100? Or you mean after the oral thingy, they just pull up their skirts/pants and leave?? na wa oo, i know its possible but . . ! |
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Seun (m)
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Once a man discharges his payload, regardless of which orifice is chosen, leaving is very easy.
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Dr. Dre (m)
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Oooh, you even "make" oral sex with them? hope by "oral sex", you don't mean kissing oo?? just asking sha! And if you don't mean kissing, then i don't get what you mean by "asking them for sex" . . i mean if you go as far as ministring oral sex to them, then you couldnt be that far from the real thing . . you've done 99, what is 100?Or you mean after the oral thingy, they just pull up their skirts/pants and leave?? na wa oo, i know its possible but . . ! LOL |
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cute-ass (f)
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Once a man discharges his payload, regardless of which orifice is chosen, leaving is very easy.
Yea, you're so very right . . but our dear poster here says he doesnt know how to approach them for sex . . comm'on if he releases around them during oral, then what does he find a big deal in sticking the same thing into them?? I'm still lost jare! LOL Abeg my brother, laugh oo, me i don laugh tire joor! |
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doyin13 (m)
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My guy no bother yourself Sex is overrated Na the waist dey suffer am I dey talk from experience |
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aloib (f)
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My guy no bother yourself Sex is overrated Na the waist dey suffer am egbe!!!! |
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ritchboi
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@poster
no mind doyin ooo!
that 1 don HAMMER taya now hin no wan make u enjoy
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aloib (f)
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@poster
no mind doyin ooo!
that 1 don HAMMER taya now hin no wan make u enjoy
i swear its like u read my mind |
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iice (f)
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@Topic Are you a front end --------- or rear end virgin!!!!! Please specify!!! At least we know your oral cavity is not of the "virgin olive" calibre. Virginity is subject to numerous forms of imaginable interpretations thiz days!!!! At 19, should you not be thinking of some graduation--parry--- from university in about 2 years like most focussed people? !!! The saddest part is that you are a "guy" Having sleepless nights over ya "virginity"is highly developmentally inappropriate at this time!!! Please have a cognitive evaluation when next you visit your internist for your next annual physical. Might need to change your diet!!! Someone please page SANJAY GUPTA!!!! Just a concerned Nairalander---don't mean to hurt ya feelings regarding your list of accomplishments in your childhood life!!! Just what I would tell any of my sons if the came to me with such a problem when they reach 19!!!!! With much love----babee "Adanna" love!!! All thiz silly virgin topics!!! |
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Easybaby (f)
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*peeps in to see the so-called virgin*
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hector (m)
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hei! everyone am so thrilled with all your replies,but u know i just notice many people seem to be yabbing me rather advice me. Anyway, such is life. for those ones that are asking about the oral sex thing, i would i only hug them and maybe kiss them.but thre is this thing in me that would not just make me take the other step, i mean u should understnd. i feel like a thief that is stealing from the owner, even when the owner dey look am.
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baby4ever
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l was 20 years of age when l got this-virgin so its cool
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saucekid (m)
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@ poster,
if you don't know how to go about it, don't worry. when the time is right, the knowledge will come from nowhere and you will work wonders
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Sulaig (m)
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Dear Hector,ur case is not too bad.There are many guys older than u that are still virgins.But u should try to get disvirgined before u're over twenty.
U also said u have girls around u but u don't know how to ask them for sex.I won't advise u to do that.Although girls like to f--k,they also know how to pretend.Don't ask any of them for sex.Just begin to look at them in a horny way that tells them-I WANT TO F--K UGirls are very good at reading that kind of signal.Then when u're gisting with them try talking dirty and see how they react.U'll be surprised that they'll play along and hopefully before u know it u'll have yourself a regular f--k partner.
Goodluck boy.
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Cyclone5 (m)
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Whether you choose to wait or you want to pick your moment there is no hurry. Sex is like an overfed domestic dog, it will bark and slobber but more food is only going to cause it to shit around the house. Nobody needs that.
Forget the pressure take your time and form a good bond with a girl or just go for it when your confidence is at the right ebb.
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shens2006 (m)
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yeah thats true
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Configur (m)
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@Sulaig,
GUY,I FEEL UR POST.
@POSTER,
DO ANITHING WEY U WAN DO.BUT don't BE OVEREXCITED SO THAT U WONT mess UP
CONFIG IS BACK,WITH A BANG!
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