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laide o (f)
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Why do people always 'kiss and tell'? Its really annoying. Oya guys, come and explain: - Do you do it?
- Why do you do it?
Fill us in.
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trae_z (m)
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do u mean "why do we like bragging about our sex/chick/kissing conquest/exploits"? i don't know, i guess we just like to brag a lot, share stuff with our friends. because unlike girls we know how to keep friends 
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kazey (m)
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don't tell me ladies, don't gossip about guys in relation to their escapades with them. As in say things like hey that guy's "Jacobs" was so small that i was dissapointed, he is a 10 second guy or even he was not as good as I expected etc. Well i have overhead ladies doing that before, or you ladies don't? amongst your friends?
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Chxta (m)
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It's a guy thing, simple. What irks me, and I have fallen out with a lot of my guys over it, is when you go into the lurid details. It boosts a guy's ego (mine included) if people around know you are straffing a particular chic, especially if she is Agbani Darego. But when guys start describing stuff like how she screams in bed and how wide she is down there ...  that is downright immature! I once came across a joke that truly explains a man in such scenarios: "This guy is marooned on a desert island with Cindy Crawford. It's just the two of them, and naturally, they become intimate. "One day he seems very sad, and she asks him why. He tells her that if she wants to truly satisfy him she must, just this once, pretend to be his buddy Dave. She agrees. He gives her a man's shirt. She puts it on. He gives her a man's hat. She puts that on. He gives her a combined fake mustache, Groucho nose, and glasses. She puts them on too. Now he's ready. "So the guy walks round the island, comes back and sees her, and thinking that she is actually Dave exclaims to her: 'Hey, Dave, you'll never believe who I am [sleeping with]!' "
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Seun (m)
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Kiss and tell: Betray a confidence, as in A real lady doesn't kiss and tell. This idiom originally alluded to betraying an amorous or sexual intimacy. Laide is asking us: - If we tell our friends about the people we're sleeping with? (I'm excluded, of course) - Why we do it, or why we think we do it. My answer is simple. "I wouldn't know", though I've promised to go get some experience soon.
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Pinky (f)
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I loathe guys who kiss and tell. I feel a guy that does that usually has a complex without his knowing. You want the whole world to know what you're doing with so so girl, because if you keep quiet, it seems you ain't in the league of men
As for ladies, yes at times we get too excited & want to share some gists with friends. But really, for a decent lady who's got no complex, all she'll say is "ok you girls want to know what happened right? We kissed and talked all night!"
She might be lying, but then she isn't kissing and telling (kissing and telling means so many things o!) For girls who kiss & tell, they've got a complex I tell you.
I, for one, know that guys kiss and tell more than girls do.
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Seun (m)
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So Pinky, lying is not a crime, but "kissing and telling" is a crime? May God save us from Nigerian (hypocritical) morality!
If kissing and telling is so bad, why is it difficult to simply say "I'm not telling you" or "I can't tell you" or "it's confidential" when your friends ask you to 'kiss and tell'?
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Pinky (f)
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So Pinky, lying is not a crime, but "kissing and telling" is a crime? May God save us from Nigerian (hypocritical) morality!
If kissing and telling is so bad, why is it difficult to simply say "I'm not telling you" or "I can't tell you" or "it's confidential" when your friends ask you to 'kiss and tell'? a lie is a lie, GOD save us all.. ur friends will keep pestering u to tell them ... u will just have to divulge some info so u can get some rest.. aint it better than guys who give the detailsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss 
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hot-angel (f)
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Most guys kiss and tell. Infact all. It's like it makes them feel like a Man. I
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Chxta (m)
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All of una no know wetin dey happen. As long as u get people wey be una friends, una must yarn! QED.
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hot-angel (f)
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Why QED?? This ain't further maths.
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mike1956 (m)
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Real men don't kiss and tell.
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laide o (f)
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Real men don't kiss and tell.
so true!!!! girls do kiss and tell...i stay with a lot of girls and i hear a whole lotta stuff..but like sumone sed..they dnt go into details...describing all sorts..thass just nasty!
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kazey (m)
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If i have a friend that i trust, and we talk about things in general? whats wrong if i tell him, how it went with a girl, i went out. I mean of course leaving the intimate parts out. Just the general outgoings?
That does not make me unreal?
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hot-angel (f)
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laide some guys go in details. I have male friends.. I mean most of my friends are male anyways.. These guys sometimes forget i am in their midst and they would be talking about a girl like me...The way they made out with her and all other craps.
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makgod (m)
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hey...my girlfriend is my pride,i am careful on what i say on her back, else i will make both of us look stupid among my friends. nevertheless, we guys are childish, funny,and stupid sometimes,like hot angel said, "we just want to feel like real men and we end up being like babyboys... 
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Chxta (m)
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Una just dey yarn for here. E no change wetin dey happen say bobos must yarn. Wetin we suppose try change na that kini wey them go yarn d story reach ground.
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CalabarMan (m)
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If a guy tells you what he has done without revealing the identity of the girl then I don't think it is a Kiss and Tell situation abi.
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tayotina (f)
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My male friends go into details. They don't hide anything from me including the names of the girls and some other nasty things.
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kazey (m)
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My male friends go into details. They don't hide anything from me including the names of the girls and some other nasty things.
Now, that is what we are talking about. Honesty !!!
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Greatpeter (m)
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Tayo, And how do you feel hearing such from your male friend. Do you still encourage him to continue such a thing?
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IAH (f)
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Kiss and tell is still better. What of guys that "don't kiss" but tell? I mean some guys will tell their friends they slept with you when you've never even spoken to them before!!! I think some guys are just stupid. I don't know why guys like to "gba star" with the number of girls they've slept with, either imaginary or real.
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CalabarMan (m)
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@IAH I am sure those must be 'small boys' who need to shine amongst their friends, in the real world you don't really score any point by sleeping with a babe, what guys discuss with their pals are the unique features/events of the encounter, the identity of the person involved is totally irrelvant.
I had a female friend I use to gist my escapades with, she was always interested in knowing who the babe was, even when I tell her she doesn't know the person she always wanted a name to relate with. Eventually I had to develop codes. However when she gives me her own gist she tells me the names and goes as far as pointing out the guy if we happen to meet. I always told her it wasn't necessary but she said the story is not complete without the identity. I guess it is a female thing abi?
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pkrix (m)
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It's so natural for guys to kiss and tell even if their friend whom they tell doesn't know anything about the girl.
And reciprocally, girls kiss and tell the more but will always not, because they are afraid the other girl (her friend) will go for the guy and the result would be she loses him.
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tayotina (f)
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Greatpeter, I know my friends very well. Let Elijah come down, they would never change. 
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Greatpeter (m)
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It's a sorry case then.
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makgod (m)
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hehe.. no one is talking about women, who kiss and tell even more. ladies in the house, Am I lying..?
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loma (m)
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Let people like hot angel go and read their books.
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hot-angel (f)
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Hehe.... Small chick eh?? Okay.. *looks for book*, *shouts*, Books where are you?
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hot-angel (f)
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loma male or female?? And how sure are you?
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loma (m)
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verrrrrrrrrrrrrry sure. as at last time i checked, still male.
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