Who Cheats More In Marriages?

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rachiwise (f)
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #32 on: October 15, 2007, 04:05 AM »

well,atleast if a woman is going to cheat is going to be with one man.

but men???they can with a million women!

they've got the magic sticks.

Men cheat more,it is only the truthful ones(men) that can admit this,but where them dey?? Grin
wed123 (m)
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #33 on: October 15, 2007, 05:40 PM »

Quote from: typical on October 02, 2007, 11:12 AM
In Nigeria, it's got to be men.
In UK, women cheat more in marriages (I believe) than men.
Not sure about in America

You're damn right. I'll just add that in the US, its the women who cheat more.
younghoodi (m)
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #34 on: October 15, 2007, 11:57 PM »

 IF U TREAT UR GIRL RIGHT THEN YA MARRIAGE IS  TIGHT,IF U FUK HER HOW SHE DESERVED TO BE FUK IF U TREAT HER NICE AND SWEET THEN SHE WILL NEVER CHEAT BUT IF U DON'T SPEND TIME WITH HER AND YA THINK SHE'S NOT going to CHEAT THEN YA ON CRACK.
dr qucak
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #35 on: May 25, 2008, 08:55 PM »

I think it's the women
snazzydawn (f)
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #36 on: May 25, 2008, 09:05 PM »

whatever
dudu-bobo
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #37 on: May 26, 2008, 08:32 AM »

Quote from: younghoodi on October 15, 2007, 11:57 PM
IF You TREAT UR GIRL RIGHT THEN YA MARRIAGE IS TIGHT,IF You FUK HER HOW SHE DESERVED TO BE FUK IF You TREAT HER NICE AND SWEET THEN SHE WILL NEVER CHEAT BUT IF You DON'T SPEND TIME WITH HER AND YA THINK SHE'S NOT going to CHEAT THEN YA ON CRACK.

Stupid reasoning. If that's what you try to do to keep a woman, it wont be long till you lose her to another guy along the street. Even if the guy in no better than you in bed, she'll want to enjoy the novelty of the new guy.

No wonder all you black people in America can't stay married. The only thing in your heads is sex. Life, especially married life, is much more than sex
liquid7
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #38 on: May 26, 2008, 02:27 PM »

Well i think its not that clear as black and white.
Firstly yes women are having more sex then ever before and more open about it.They view it as having fun same as men have.
So its actually quite common nowadays to find women having more sexual experiencfe  then their husbands before marriage .Remember its also easier for a woman to get laid then a man .
But I think when it comes down to marriage the ball game changes .firstly by nature a woman is more loyal.I have seen girls who have romped a few dozen different men but when they get serious or married they become pretty much loyal as can be.They probably viewed the other men as a fun and exploration stage and the husband as the love stage.
Also the society  we live in also has a strong factor,more so in Nigeria.If a woman cheats on a man  even if the man is willing to forgive ,family/friend/society will almost certainly make him leave her because its almost considered a stigma.
However if a man cheats on a woman you will find even her family try to save their relationship.
Women are aware about  this and know that its often 1 strike and you are out so tend to be more cautious.
Mind you its not that women do not cheat.They certainly do but i would say as a general rule less then the man.
liquid7
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #39 on: May 26, 2008, 02:41 PM »

Quote from: younghoodi on October 15, 2007, 11:57 PM
IF You TREAT UR GIRL RIGHT THEN YA MARRIAGE IS TIGHT,IF You FUK HER HOW SHE DESERVED TO BE FUK IF You TREAT HER NICE AND SWEET THEN SHE WILL NEVER CHEAT BUT IF You DON'T SPEND TIME WITH HER AND YA THINK SHE'S NOT going to CHEAT THEN YA ON CRACK.
Have to agree this is indeed stupid reasoning and reason why we blacks suffer bad relationships .If you think your privates is all that matters then you are solely mistaking .Newsflash most women are not marrying their best ever mess !They are marrying for a combination of reasons.
Think like this and i can assure you that you will lose your woman pretty fast.
elizabetta (f)
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #40 on: May 26, 2008, 04:06 PM »

MEN cheats more
rokiatu (f)
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #41 on: May 26, 2008, 04:07 PM »

50/50
otokx (m)
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #42 on: May 26, 2008, 05:50 PM »

I think its the men; they can still impregnate at 60 years of age even if the babe be 20 years
ima1 (f)
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #43 on: May 26, 2008, 08:29 PM »

why is this thread and every almost every thread geered toward bashing women, abi una no know say una mama na woman. alot of men cheat but no one sees it as anything they blame it on him being a man, which is bullshit. i think women try alot to keep the marriage together but the man always seems to bring it down. and then blame women if they cheat, if you don't want your wife to cheat then be a F-ing man
chika98
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #44 on: May 26, 2008, 11:42 PM »

Women are pretty good in hiding it
They also tend to do more emotional cheating,  But cheating isnt a gender thing. Men and women do it .
benincitys (f)
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #45 on: May 26, 2008, 11:55 PM »

men cheats more than woman it has alway been .
crazykid (m)
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #46 on: May 28, 2008, 07:52 PM »

Quote from: liquid7 on May 26, 2008, 02:27 PM
Well i think its not that clear as black and white.
Firstly yes women are having more sex then ever before and more open about it.They view it as having fun same as men have.
So its actually quite common nowadays to find women having more sexual experiencfe then their husbands before marriage .Remember its also easier for a woman to get laid then a man .
This is where I come in; a woman who has spent most of her youthful life jumping from one man’s bed to the other should expect the same attitude from her future husband. Just like the old saying you reap what you sow.

To be honest I would say the women are more faithful in marriages and unfaithful in relationships; today in our society, most girls see relationships as an avenue for making money.

Date a rich guy, have fun, enjoy your life and get married; The men also are the opposite of the whole matter; a men respect relationships, but disrespect marriages; a man can go to the extent of committing murder just to secure a place in heart of the woman he loves and cherishes.

Quote from: rokiatu on May 26, 2008, 04:07 PM
50/50
The bottom line of it all is that both genders are unfaithful like you said; the equation is 50% 50%A
LetThemSay
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #47 on: May 28, 2008, 08:55 PM »

It's both, but women keep it on the down low.
Nwaka77 (f)
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #48 on: May 31, 2008, 10:46 PM »

Men of course! I don't even see the need to ask this question  Angry
manmustwac (m)
Re: Who Cheats More In Marriages?
« #49 on: June 04, 2008, 07:40 PM »

Quote from: Nwaka77 on May 31, 2008, 10:46 PM
Men of course! I don't even see the need to ask this question Angry
Yes Nwaka na very stupid question
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