Can You Marry Your Dream Lover Whose Only Vice Is That He/she Is A Chain Smoker

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lawyer (m)
Can You Marry Your Dream Lover Whose Only Vice Is That He/she Is A Chain Smoker
« on: September 11, 2007, 01:10 AM »

I have a female friend whose in a dilema now. She is engaged but not yet sure she wants to marry her fiancee. She says, he's the best thing to have happened to her in 4 years. She says he's cute, well built, a fox in bed, treats her like a queen and is not obsessive one bit about her mingling with boys or all those nightly male calls. In short, he is her own tom cruise come to life, but he has one vice that pisses her off**** He's a chain smoker*** and her parents and pastor has cautioned her about marrying a smoker. She's really worried because she loves him to death and wants to spend her life with him but the smoking thing is a major turn off for her and he's not ready to quit for no body. What can she do? Nairalanders please help because this jamb question don de tire me for office o!
akonam_one (m)
Re: Can You Marry Your Dream Lover Whose Only Vice Is That He/she Is A Chain Smoker
« #1 on: September 11, 2007, 01:45 AM »

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BABEELOVE (f)
Re: Can You Marry Your Dream Lover Whose Only Vice Is That He/she Is A Chain Smoker
« #2 on: September 11, 2007, 09:38 AM »

Quote from: lawyer on September 11, 2007, 01:10 AM
I have a female friend whose in a dilema now. She is engaged but not yet sure she wants to marry her fiancee. She says, he's the best thing to have happened to her in 4 years. She says he's cute, well built, a fox in bed, treats her like a queen and is not obsessive one bit about her mingling with boys or all those nightly male calls. In short, he is her own tom cruise come to life, but he has one vice that pisses her off**** He's a chain smoker*** and her parents and pastor has cautioned her about marrying a smoker. She's really worried because she loves him to death and wants to spend her life with him but the smoking thing is a major turn off for her and he's not ready to quit for no body. What can she do? Nairalanders please help because this jamb question don de tire me for office o!

Well, dated a couple in me life---but can never marry one!---------As you get older you find out what works for you and what does not.  It is her choice so let her decide what is more important, the guy might quit at some point in time----but that is a chance she would have to take!!!! Kiss 

Other desparate women are waiting to grab the guy oh!  So let the chick make up her mind sharp sharp!!! Wink
oge4real (f)
Re: Can You Marry Your Dream Lover Whose Only Vice Is That He/she Is A Chain Smoker
« #3 on: September 11, 2007, 12:47 PM »

If she doesn't like a smoker, it will be a mistake to marry one because as the days unfold she will simply be put off by the act and that can start the end of the marriage.

my advice is to pray for him, speak with him and slow the  marriage plans.If he is the right man he will definitely change before the marrriage but never after.
oge4real (f)
Re: Can You Marry Your Dream Lover Whose Only Vice Is That He/she Is A Chain Smoker
« #4 on: September 11, 2007, 12:53 PM »

nooooooooo! :p
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