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dele_adisa
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Hi,
Guys am so shy with women that at my age i have not had sex, at all for the first time, how do i go about solving this problem. I really need a woman to sleep with to know what it feels like.
Suggestions would be appreciated
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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I am round about your age and am still a virgin, I don't think its a problem like you think it is.
Loosing it should be because you love the person you're loosing it with rather than wanting to know what it feels like to be with a woman. you've kept it this long its beta to loose it to someone worth it.
I think you need some TLC to calm you down. I also think you would need to talk to you lady if you've got on Talk to her about your nervousness and take it nice and slow.
A little foreplay, a little licking, a little rubbing a little pulling and you'll be expoding like the Vesuvius mountain in mount Titicaca.
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moondust (m)
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he's a guy for heaven's sake! and u're a girl . and u're right, he'll definitely explode during foreplay, like after 10secs
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dele_adisa
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yes o, am a guy and i need it like yesterday, am carrying too much of an overload now
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justblaze (m)
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at 29 u never nack, guy u no go use your prick take do money?
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moondust (m)
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make sure that the day u finally spurt it out, u don't blast and glue her to the ceiling wit your congealed come  |
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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@ moondust
why da sexism?
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drrionelli (m)
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I've said it before and I'll say it again: Virginity is not a disease!
@dele_adisa:
Sir, it is quite normal to wonder about the things we haven't experienced. Those who have never traveled wonder about exotic lands, people, foods and such.
However, people who have never traveled outside their homeland still lead very rich, fulfilled lives.
So it is with sexual activity. Clearly, you've had no reason to have sex. In all likelihood, you've been too busy living and enjoying other aspects of your life for it to be of overwhelming importance to you. And, that's fine! When you look at it as part of the big picture of life, we spend so much time doing other things compared to having sex that it really shouldn't be a big deal. Yes, it's a lovely way to spend time and it's imperative to procreation, but, really, the world will not stop turning if you don't have sex. When you're ready to do so, you will. Please don't agonize over being a virgin at 29, because doing so serves no productive purpose.
IF, however, you are determined to "know what it feels like," then it shouldn't be difficult to find a lady to assist you in your endeavor. It seems to me that you might be seeking love more than you're seeking sex. Two very different things, my friend, so make sure you're looking for the right one.
Incidentally, if/when you do have sex, please remember to do so responsibly and safely!
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theffanyi (m)
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NAJA HAJE, please roll on thIS guy, give him some sexy [PC] talk, and i bet u he will RELEASE from his MOUTH |
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RuuDie (m)
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brotha, keep those cherries intact man. . . . u're on d right path! sex's g'onna come, don't bother about looking for it; ain't worth the while! |
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moondust (m)
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@ moondust
why da sexism?
sorry about the sexist undertone but i couldnt put it any other way. u know 4 ladies, virginity is a thing of pride, but for guys, I'm not so sure. lol |
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efuah (f)
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I really need a woman to sleep with to know what it feels like.
without love or when in love? if it's without love, then u can go for a callgirl  on a more serious note, prepare ur mind, body n heart, u dnt jst get n sleep with anything in skirt brb |
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shigidi (m)
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ADISA its okay. 29 is quite late but its not how far, its how well sex is not hard to find, but LOVE is! so u have to know what u want first of all. try going out regularly with friends and i bet u ull overcome ur shyness, tell her to take it slow with you when u finally get there, and don't be scared, its just sex. even if ull just be gyrating all silly like a fish out of water (I'm just kidding). you might actually consider just picking any girl to sleep with u so u overcome ur shyness. just hang in there men  |
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Jossidu (m)
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Haba,
29,
its like ur a reverend Father,anyway its not bad sha, but i pity the girl u'll fisrt Nack.make sure she's above 23 or else,she go just collapse. Akamu too much 4 that place. and again don't border to wear a condom because it would still tear.
Krak
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sanmius (m)
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its strange to hear that there are still a few 29yr old men on earth but its good to know. bros, whats the hurry? i'd advice you stay that way. by the time you are seventy-nine and still a virgin, we'll nominate you as the oldest virgin in Guiness Book of Records
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sanmius (m)
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@ Jossidu: , Akamu too much 4 that place, i'm sure you wanted to say condensed milk |
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tectona (m)
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hhhhmmmm, cool for you, but not for most of us.
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theffanyi (m)
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[funmeme] Bross sorry ooooooo!!!!!!!!!!! see ur post.u no dey shame?  am happy he is a guy. u can hardly see a female virgin : if he is telling the truth, i think we should give it up to him.
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drrionelli (m)
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I agree. The original poster should be congratulated for having held such strong convictions for so long. And for all of the so-called "men" who spew forth bravado about your own putative sexual prowess and alleged conquests, you, especially, should be thankful that he has decided not to be sexually active. If he puts his mind to having sex with the same committment that he has for not having sex, he'll likely be able to take your women from you!  |
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lololo (m)
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ha ha ha u no well ooooo, anyweys gods time is the best, or u fit go see one ashawo |
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