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mopegirl (f)
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Mope girl here again, i am a girl, 20 years of age and i am a very close friend to this guy, 22 years, there is a strong bond between us, and i think we are both in love, but the problem there is that no one want to talk, we behave like lovers most of the time and people don't believe that we are not in a relationship Y i really nid help is because i have bin in this type of case before and the guy left but later told me he loved me, bt when i did not tell him, he told me that he did mot want to offend me, thats y he did not talk so please i need ur help, should i tell this new one? i really love him and don't want to loose him the way i lost the other guy. SHOULD I TELL HIM I LOVE HIM?   |
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Easybaby (f)
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Don't tell him!
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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erm,,,,,,,,, I am a little worried as to the reason he has not come with his feelings for you.
Personally i wont tell him I LOVE YOU.
I will definitely lay it down for him with something like; 'babe, do you really like me? because I think am starting to like you a lot and i wana know if we are on the same page so am not wasting my time.'
But you need to understand your closeness to know how to approach him.
I am really not impressed that he has not said anything to that effect to you. Is he shy or just enjoying the attention that he's receiving from you with no strings attached.
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acidrop (f)
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don't tell him, let him tell u
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hucarson (m)
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tell him . . . its the best u can do.
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jkpretty (f)
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Oh please don't tell him This has occured to me several times, but i never for once helped any guy out, to spit his mind. Let him come out, on his own, he eventually will, if he has mutual feelings. Again maybe he is still studying u & u are already through with ur own part of studying. I would not out rule the fact that he may be shy or afraid of rejection. Guys usually face this, but, If a real guy actually wants something, he should go for it, & be bold.  |
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swiftycool (m)
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Be creative send him some ambigous not to direct love texts that will make him think hard, but don't tell him outright if he's wise butterflies will start moving in his tommy and he'll feel confident to ask u and tell u what he feels for you. cheers
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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don't tell him you love him. talk to him but don't tell him you love him not unless you're ready for embarrassment!!!!
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sniperwolf (m)
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From falling in love with your gardner to the other person. Who are you mopegirl
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saucekid (m)
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From falling in love with your gardner to the other person. Who are you mopegirl
help me ask am  |
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lafile (m)
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All responses so far split evenly along sexual lines:
Males - Tell Him (thats their Ego talking).
Females - don't tell him (thats their pride talking).
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desgiezd (m)
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I'm sure its the gardener, he's afraid of loosing his job thats why he hasnt opened up. Poor guy, if only he knows that Mope wont tell moomy.
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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All responses so far split evenly along sexual lines:
Males - Tell Him (thats their Ego talking).
Females - don't tell him (thats their pride talking).
For the ladies------ its actually common sense. (a trait that is wonderfully lacking in many males) You see my dear lafile, women have this uncanny ability to see very well into the future because of our sensitive and emotional nature. Don't you just love us.   |
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mellow (m)
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Tell him don't tell him.
I think you know you himbetter.
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Pastor Sly (m)
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druggie233 (m)
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Don't tell him oh  When will guys start letting out their feelings Let him tell you how he feels jare |
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sylvao2000 (m)
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@poster so you are in love with someone else abi, well good for you
back to your question, tell the gardener, he will never tell you because of his job but na waoo for you sha you are alwys in love who knows if you will not fall for another gardener again tomorrow.
@poster one question for you why do you always fall in love with your gardener is there anything special about gardener you see that make you fall easily for all the gardener in you street . l am very sure if the very gardener is remove from your house same thing will happen to the new one
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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Don't tell him oh When will guys start letting out their feelings Let him tell you how he feels jare beta person! |
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druggie233 (m)
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beta person!
Thank u |
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mopegirl (f)
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Don't tell him oh When will guys start letting out their feelings Let him tell you how he feels jare tru tru u be beta person thx ya |
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druggie233 (m)
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tru tru u be beta person
thx ya
Welcome girl  |
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saucekid (m)
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by my calculations, i am 99.9% sure its the same gardener too
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$$Rhino
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Why do i like nairaland, it is a place to watch a movie without paying and where you see some comedian doing their thing, without being in same room with them, from gardner to another man, from another man to more to come, mopegirl, i raise yansh for you jare, tell him, ask him out jare.
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