The Day I Didn't Use A Condom

 
She is a very preety girl,
i had been chasing her for 4 months,
technically speaking we were dating,
but she had never allowed me to do it,
i was mad with desire for her, 4 months of trying to get there, !!!, inbetween those lovely laps,
she lived at the 1004 estate in victoria island lagos, before obasanjo drove everybody there into the streets,
tenth floor, no lift, i always climb up to see her at home, when her uncle is not around,
then on this day , we start to fundle, and she lets me go all the way,
DAMN, !!!, we are stark naked, she is ready, and i remember i have no condoms on me,
am i going to go down and climb ten floors again, just to buy condoms, ??
besides she might change her mind before i come back again, four months of wating,, and am condomless
i no fit miss this beter chop now o, !!!!
so i take the plunge like that,

will the guys and girls please share similar experiences or comments, abi una wan talk say una never do that kin mistake before,

well !  i was  with my friends  when this girl called me and told me " Uche i have miss you so much can i see you today " well i said yes and i told her to wait for me at a TRAINGLE JOINT, and when i got there, saw her and we talked, eat and drink. so to a point she told me "Uche i want you to take me out tonight" and i said where ? " she told me to an HOTEL" well what she woar that night damn ! the breast was kind of conspicous to all customers who came in to have a drink and buy some snacks

But Men, smartsoft can't  even resist the temptation, So i took her to an HOTEL and blah blah blah happend, i never knew i wasn't with condom, you know 10th floor  Damn ! too high! just bang like that and behold she told me not worry, that she is a lady:o

hummm Rhod, apart from the sex thing we had a lovely time shaaaa

Who's talking bout pregnancy?? That ni99a just got mihself infected, ,sh't! to say i've been campaigning in vain, , u r more likely to collect that sh't fromma one-night fling than from being promiscous, lol

 

hummmmmmmmmmmmm one night fling

True talk

Thats some risk,

A friend of mine never does it without condoms, his girlfriend of about two months one day tried to persuade him but he refused and instead held on till the following morning when he cud go out and get some! two months later she got a job in an oil firm on VI.

she went for the usual check and turned out that this very pretty robust girl was HIV +ve! she cried and thanked God my friend did not do it without that night because it would seem like she knew!

he went for his own checks and was -ve and was asked to return after 6mnths 4 confirmation, he did just last week and he still is -ve

so, please don't do it without condoms just don't, if there isnt any, stall the intercourse and if that kills the intentions for the girl, then let it, no sex episode is worth the risk wahlahi

can some one explain to me, why is it that when someone raise a topic of discussion people deviate from the topic and start giving advice that wasn't ask for?
Everyone knows hat AIDS is real and it exist, and that does who are having sex should ALWAYS have protected sex. However the purpose of the discussion is to talk about our experiences and possible consequences of unprotected sex.  This is important because, by explaing and discussing important topics such as unprotected sex people learn more from personal experiences that simple advice. Hence, those who are willing to openly talk about their faults and experiences should not be criticized or made to feel like that they are ignorant and do not know what AIDS is. We live in a closet society where everyone wants to judge you or give advice rather that listen knowing full well that we are all human and no ones life is perfect. There is a time for everything, there time for giving advice and time for listening.
Does who feel the need to advice should talk about their experience and what the latent form it people that helps more than the one liner comment.

My Experience.
i was in a committed relationship with a guy in the medical profession hence for work we both had to be tested so AID was not a problem. but later in the relationship he told me his ex girlfriend was diagnoses with carcinoma in situ of the cervix. meaning she had HPV. Human papiloma virus men are carriers and asymptomatic  but infected women are more likely to have cervical cancer in their life time. my heart dropped and i when to my ob gyn for all screening. and everthing thank God was negative. we later found out that her present boyfriend a white expatriate's wife was diagnosed with cervical cancer. which means that it was before his time otherwise he would have been a silent carrier hence i have learn't to be safe because AIDS is not the only STD that kills.

should have called this thread "the day i held a loaded gun to my head and hoped for the best" what a risk to take man can't beleive people are still being so naive.

well there are still people that make the mistakes but good thing is that this guy has learnt a lesson. i just hope he stays with it

I'M SORRY FOR U O!!

and the moral of the story is,

Always carry a condom in your wallet 

Smartsoft you try,i'll be thinkn bout STD's and without the condom,i will back out.It has happnd a couple of times,no fun that day but who knws maybe i could have been infected.Advice,always have a packet of condoms in ur wallet.Na life or death situation.

do it soft
do it smooth
PLAY it wise
play it SAFE
If u r abstaining , good for you
If u can't , back that ish up
but PROTECT yourself,
U don't wnat AIDS , do you?