Dating a White Lady (or Man)

yea..me too its just not possible lol..plus, dey break up wit people easily no long lasting relationships

yea

that is in usa..i mean dere r mixed cultures there and them guys like black people

wel here..i love u comes out of almost evry white dude i ever seen and white chicks even though dey don't mean it

but majority of them meant it when dey say it

See here's a real problem.

Sometimes you have people who don't value them selves as Black men and Women. Although I understand, it still bothers me. It bothers me when Black people are afraid to love them selves without including others. It's as if we go into a deep depression or someting if we focus on ourselves and not other ethnic groups.

As soon as you have discussions about our own issues and try to bring unity about for the betterment of our people. We're labled as black supremacist and hate groups by other Blacks.
These are the blacks who want to work so hard to show the white people that they are the good blacks and the others are outcasts because they reject the notions of the dominate culture of the white world.
I don't even like being around them type of people because you can't have a conversation with them without them thinking that your being racist or narrow minded because you want to focus on the love you have for your self and your people.

White people or Pink people and other groups does not always have to be included in the love we have fr ourselves.  Yes we are all human but the truth is that we are different in many ways and that has to be acknowledged and respected in this life. Let's be real with ourselves and not blind ourselves with illusions of this rainbow color of love thing.

Were you a rainbow when the African lands were being Colonized by Europen descendants? and where African's were sold into the US and basically washed clean of everything even their native languages and cultural practices and memory? No we were not and it's the same way now, it's just in a different form.

We will always be one in the way of being humans but it's just as important to recognize the fact that Allah has made us different in color, language and culture so that we may learn from each other. And you can only learn from that which is different from what yourself or what you currently know.

So let's stop jumping on each other when we have a preference to love and be with our selves instead of others.
I don't criticize anyone for being with any other ethnic group. Were I live in Minnesota it's so common to see black men from Africa and America with white women that you would be surprised if you didn't see it.

It is a fantastic idea for one to continue his/her lineage, but if one can't simply find a perfect or a near likely one. In my own case i am currently living in a place totally predominated by whites, the only very few blacks here aren't just acceptable for one reason or the other, so what should one do in this case? It isn't easy at all, I´m in my 30s without anyone from my lineage to marry and scores of nice,understanding and willing white girls at hand . What should I do in this case? It isn'e easy at all.

all my EX are white guys, any one can date who ever they like, so there is nothing wrong with it

Medube ur not white but ur not all that arab. lebanon along with turkey and israel are actually considered eastern european countries so you are kind of a white arab. anyways i don't think there is anything wrong with dating a guy of a differnt colour. i have never had a crush on a black guy in my entire life. if u ask me bowwow or the dude from harry porter i will choose the dude from harry porter. if u ask me will smith or lionardo de caprio u probably know who i will chose. i have liked latinos, chinese, indians, arabs, and whites but never blacks. i realy don't know why.

I don't have any issue with color o, i just happen to like my nipples black and not pink __but if it has to be a white girl, well God luck to mother africa!!!

the big deal is we are animals built to have taste__i believe love does have its own taste too......we are not talking racism here.

I observe you are quite a tender and sensitive girl  , wasnt talking about your post prettyH, just making my own contribution

legry...if she is datable, she is she not marryable?

Yea i date white chicks.....but i miss my Nigerian babes too...been out of naija 2 years now...i really don't understand all this further my lineage crap....i don't intend to marry anyone...at least not 4 10 more years,,,so we just having fun...get it...Plus when u in the club chillin after a hard days job...u just want to relax and talk to any pretty girl around you...white,black... asian...but again sometimes they approach you,so its all good...

Maybe it's just me but I'm more attracted to white girls than African American girls. Nigerian girls come last on my list.......LMAO

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forget about your black and white stuff, that is just another carrier for greed and envy.

I have not come here to spoil ur fun. No, not at all. As for me, my African queens comes first on my list anytime anywhere.

If i ever want to date a white lady, God forbid o; it's just to bang the naughty thing out of her ass.

I m not a racist but i don't just like their stuff at all.