Love Or Your Job.

My fellow landers, a very close friend of mine is in a very trickish n contravercial situation with his fiancee so lets help them out.

He newly got a job with one of the oil companies (shell) to be precise and deployed to porth (Rivers) while she is working in one of the Northern State.
All these took place before their engagement.

The question is non of them is ready to neither quit d relationship nor sacrifice d job, and transfer is somehow impossible.

please lets hear your views n contributions.

It would appear both parties aren't willing to bedge, so a stalemate.

Neither of them should expect the other to give up their respective jobs. Such ultimatums are unreasonable, they either agree on some middle ground, or call it quits. No point being together, if one party has to give up their job, because the question will   arise - who gets to keep their job? It'll lead to resentment later on.

Besides, it's not fun being unemployed, and being a kept man / woman.