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mopegirl (f)
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hi, someone needs ur help, i am not the one ooooooooo  jst send ur replies.  I am a guy of who is 20yrs of age, i need help from everyone here as soon as possible, my story goes thus:  Two years ago, i had a girlfriend whom i love so much and she also did or so i thought. We were real lovers (don't be jealous!!!!!!!!!!)  and she was my first love One day, I overheard her friend saying that she will soon travel out of the country, I was angry  >:(because she never told me that, but instead of that, I heard it from her friend. I asked her about it but she denied it, I swallowed her story hook, line and sinker, just because of love.  A month later, I went to her house, only 2 discover that she was preparing to leave for the States. Waoh! I was angry, and then she pleaded and told me she was going there for the sake of us both and that she will always love me and she just planted a kiss on ma lips,  Men I was crazy but deep inside me, I know I really love her. I found it hard to take because  I will feel lonely, but what can’t SOMEONE do for the sake of LOVE? I watched her go and OUCH! I was crying, how can I live without my love, but Guess what? LIFE MUST GO ON  Days ran into Days Weeks into weeks Months into months But there was no sign of my one and only love. One day, I decided to go to a cinema house and there not sitting far away from me, was this CHARMING PRINCESS , I looked at her and behold, our eyes met,  u know whats next don’t you? I introduced myself to her and vice versa and just like a dream everything worked out as I wanted, u know what I mean I really loved her as much as I love ma first love. Last Week, I had a phone call and alas, it was my first love from The States. i was shocked She told me she was sorry 4 all what she has done for the past two years, she said that she has a lot to explain 2 me on her arrival, because she will enter the country next week, she told me she still loves me n i didn't know when i replied saying 'i love you 2' the problem is [[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]b]'WHAT DO I DO' SHOULD I LEAVE MY FIRST LOVE FOR THE NEW FOUND OR VICE VERSA, BOTH OF THEM ARE CARING , LOVING, PRETTY, AND ALL OTHERS.[/b]ur [/font] replies r urgently needed. i am waiting |
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Yinks (m)
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Normally this kind of stuffs Happens to gals, i mean i other ways round. BUT men seems this guy is really in Love I suggest he ways his priorites rite And check on d yanki girl, well before thinking of her what was she doing all d while wit out contactin him, Maybe she was into another relationship, But as for me if d Present girl is ok , I WILL STICK TO HER, Who Knws, The other Yanki girl might still leave again |
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Cyclone5 (m)
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No disrespect but it seems your guy is setting himself up to be a playa. If after 2 years he hasn't moved on then maybe he hasnt been entirely honest with his new girl. But I think he has moved one and now wants to join fufu with gari and eat like King.
Unless he has no real feelings for his current babe, or he is hoping his first love will serve as a gateway to the US; he knows what to do.
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mopegirl (f)
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@cyclone5 thanks but please direct the que to him not you guy |
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jayvin01
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i would be a fool to leave anyone of them , the game must continue until i actually kno wuz going down wit the yankee girl, |
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mopegirl (f)
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he just met the new girl
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jayvin01
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doesnt matter, i got a friend who was in this kind of shit as well, and what did he get, (guess u already kno) |
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Cyclone5 (m)
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i would be a fool to leave anyone of them , the game must continue until i actually kno wuz going down wit the yankee girl, Haba! Exactly what do you think might be going on with the Yankee girl?  She took him for a fool once, now she is coming back with 2 years experience under her belt. Believe me, the guy is in for a world of heartache. |
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jayvin01
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ha ha ha ha, true that!
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mopegirl (f)
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@jayvin01, i don't know what happened, maybe u shld explain. |
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jayvin01
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it was a sad experience for tha poor guy, that is the main reason why i wouldnt want anyone to get stuck in the same thing if i was in your guys shoe, ha ha ha, it would have been better!, |
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mopegirl (f)
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@jayvin01, u be original player, small small o
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jayvin01
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wasn't born a player, i've been through alot in tha past, girls don show me well well when i was nothin though I'm not yet somethin ooooo, so thats tha main reason, i'ma show em, |
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sylvao2000 (m)
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@poster;;;;; The first love was lust never love because you can't tell me if she actaully love me and will not tell me she was prepareing for the state trip. . How on earth should he ever wait for someone who travel to the state in the name of love, the guy must be a fool,
Now my advice to him please tell him to hold on to the two girls because l am very sure that same girl will go back to the state in a short while to her real man she is just useing the guy to warm her self for the holiday here ok, and l bet you he will be invicted for her wedding soon with another guy,
Hope you get my advice Mope let him go for the two infact he should keep the new one closer than the other old lost one. or what do you think, or can you do that to your love one abi you want travel and you never tell your guy, make we know now
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Cyclone5 (m)
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wasn't born a player, i've been through alot in tha past, girls don show me well well when i was nothin though I'm not yet somethin ooooo, so thats tha main reason, i'ma show em, So na Cinderella you dey find or Little Red Riding Hood? |
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jayvin01
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lol, none, just an openin for chickenheads who want to get down to get down, naw mean |
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mopegirl (f)
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@jayvin01, now that you have av become a player, which area are you good at?
@sylvao2000 i no fit, i am not that wicked and cruel
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mellow (m)
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She has gone once and will propaply leave again.
Last time the guy check his heart what was he feeling?
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jayvin01
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every, |
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acidrop (f)
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hw can u diss ur first love for someone else that u just meant, iight, switch lanes n put ur self in her shoes, well i have n i will be soooooooooo pissed i will never want to talk to u, c u or even want to remember u any more, u been through longer time with her mehn than the new one, and if there is anyone who knows u more its ga2 be her, not the new one, she's just a freshie. n trust me she aint gon be as hot as d one coming from the states, u have ur jaws falling.
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Cyclone5 (m)
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hw can u diss your first love for someone else that u just meant, iight, switch lanes n put your self in her shoes, well i have n i will be soooooooooo pissed i will never want to talk to u, c u or even want to remember u any more, u been through longer time with her mehn than the new one, and if there is anyone who knows u more its ga2 be her, not the new one, she's just a freshie. n trust me she aint gon be as hot as d one coming from the states, u have your jaws falling.
Speaking from experience? A bit close to the bone, eh?  |
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acidrop (f)
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Speaking from experience? A bit close to the bone, eh? LOL, who are uuuuu?  |
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Cyclone5 (m)
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LOL, who are uuuuu? You wan know? Namy x-ray spex dey work so |
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acidrop (f)
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hahahahaahah, na its true shaa, infact am in a middle of almost d same situation, bu i rather not disclose myself on a public forum |
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mellow (m)
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@Cyclone5 I honestly don't understand what acidrop is talking about.
A girl who lied to you, decieved you and took your love for granted.
Never contacted you all the 2 some years that she was there woke
up all of a sudden, called you in the middle of the night and told you that
she has a lot of explaining to do that she will be in the country the next week.
Aw men give me a break, I think she means no good and this is straight from
my heart.
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Oracle (m)
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You can't have equal Love for two people.
He might Love the cinema girl more because he just met her.
How can the American girl abandon him for that Long, without calling, writing or even caring.
He had every reason to go for someone who would readily make him feel cared for.
Two years is not two days besides no one knows the kind of Life she lived in the states.
Why did she forget him all the while and suddenly remember that he exists?
I think he should follow his heart, he has no reason to feel guilty if he abandons his first girlfriend
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Cyclone5 (m)
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hahahahaahah, na its true shaa, infact am in a middle of almost d same situation, bu i rather not disclose myself on a public forum No worry we go rap. |
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acidrop (f)
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@Cyclone5 I honestly don't understand what acidrop is talking about.
A girl who lied to you, decieved you and took your love for granted.
Never contacted you all the 2 some years that she was there woke
up all of a sudden, called you in the middle of the night and told you that
she has a lot of explaining to do that she will be in the country the next week.
Aw men give me a break, I think she means no good and this is straight from
my heart.
u don't know y she never kept in touch she might has lost the contacts or even something worst, but for the fact that she called him before coming means that she has grown and now matured to actually open up to who she loves, moreover if she didnt love him she woulndt call him 2 say she is comming, its better than she didnt say at all. No worry we go rap.
that will be really relieving, because am looking for someone to cry to anyway, lol |
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Cyclone5 (m)
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that will be really relieving, because am looking for someone to cry to anyway, lol
No sweat. Holla at your bwoy. |
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mopegirl (f)
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@oracle thx, have we met before?
ur name, look seems familiar
are you King?
i'll be expecting ur reply
@acidrop, talk am make we hear, maybe your own is even WORSTER that this one
ow can it get lost and all of a sudden was seen, anyway she said she will give her reasons hwen she somes back
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