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makgod (m)
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What is it about being nice to a girl?
Sometimes I get freaked out with the way some women think.
When you are very nice and caring, they say you are weak and not man enough. Then when you go authoritative, firm and become and [become an] "I don't give a damn" kind of guy, they say you are taking advantage of their love, and you are too rude and scary, then threaten to leave you.
Are we supposed to understand a lady and act according to how it pleases and suits her to make the relationship last longer? Or we should just be ourselves in the relationship, for her to understand, or vice versa?
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pkrix (m)
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Nobody satisfies anybody. Be yourself. That's why I commend the work done by laide o in " I want a man" Yeah! Be yourself and she can go to blazes if she doesn't accept you as you are. And that also means she doesn't love you. But when you try to be somebody else I bet you, you will crash. |
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jogego (m)
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never heard a truer statement. Ladies tend to swallow anything u dish out to them, but when u are doing mr nice guy, nothing for u.
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ikstarr
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Men are designed to be hard and powerful,women soft and submissive....They are meant to be pampared. this shouldnt however compromise the mans strenght and aggression in any way....
I think as a rule one should be a man 24/7 that is aggressive and ambitous. this gets the job done everytime....the only thing you owe your woman after you woo her with this form of masculinity is to make her believe she is number one...the operating word there being "believe"
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makgod (m)
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igster.. are u a guy or a girl, well if u are a guy, do u think ladies think the same..?
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Pinky (f)
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never heard a truer statement. Ladies tend to swallow anything you dish out to them, but when you are doing Mr nice guy, nothing for you. jogego really??  i pray our paths cross.... because you will re-frame your post strait away after i mite dealt you a blow.....because as you re dishing me rubbish, so will i be refusing it..what do you take ladies for? let me tell you..it's those of you that dish out NOTHING that get nothing, while your so called Mr. nice gets something.. |
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Greatpeter (m)
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Women are like eggs they need to be adequately taken care of. god says they are weaker vessels so they need our support and we need theirs. Don't call me woman wrapper ooo.  |
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Vieira (m)
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bobo nice na original suckers!!
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makgod (m)
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see what i mean..? so where do we guys stand now.
i want some real truth from a ladies mouth, because perhaps they know better.
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Seun (m)
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You will never get the truth on this matter from a woman. The truth is that sometimes girls don't appreciate guys that are desperate to please them. But when a guy seems as if he doesn't care too much but cares all the same, they like it.
So I think the idea is to be a nice guy who deliberately behaves like a bad boy sometimes just for the woman's entertainment. They love drama and suspense a lot, and 'bad boy' behaviour gives them a lot of that!
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Pinky (f)
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women are weaker vessels
Don't call me woman wrapper ooo. & u Dont call women weaker vessels anymore |
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Chxta (m)
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You have to find a balance...
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hot-angel (f)
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Just be yourself when you are talking to a girl. Don't try to be nice and don't try to be harsh. Just be the you that you are. If the you that you are is nice, be nice. if the you that you are is harsh, be harsh.
It pays to be one's self.
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Missworld (f)
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Like hot-angle said, just be yourself. Let the lady be what she is: the crown of your life. I appreciate a man that will treat me like a lady and that's why I love the way UK guys treat their ladies. From the hand kiss which shows admiration to the opening of the doors. All these can be unnecessary but I cherish honesty most.
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Pinky (f)
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From the hand kiss which shows admiration to the opening of the doors. All these can be unnecessary but I cherish honesty most. girile this aint unnecessary at all. most girls cherish all this, but knowing nigerian guys for what they re.....one shouldn't expect it from them  i had this ex- dude who used to open all doors for me, i wasn't used to the luxury, so we picked quarrels on that { he claims i like doing things myself} it was a pity because, i was used to guys ---who jump out of the car & wait for you to come out too ---wake up in the morning without giving you a kiss on your forehead ---who can't give a bear hug {they hug only to feel your boobs on their chest & if you chest in, they complain} so i mean..what kind of guys re you nijas  |
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makgod (m)
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common Pinky.... Is that your rating for Nigerian guys...?  , well if its really true, then maybe it has to do with the environment. and culture. nevertheless, don't generalise it, |
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sage (m)
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Women love bad boyz period. Nothing 4 good or nice guys. Be a nice guy at your own risk |
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makgod (m)
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LOL... u really think so.....
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jogego (m)
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I once was a friend's place.A girl had travelled over 3 hours from her school to spend the weekend with him. She got to his place while it was raining and she knocked. Normally, his junior one would have opened the door for her, but my friend said he shouldnt because another babe was inside. This girl stood in the rain for over an hour, and eventually had to go.
Normally, you'd expect the babe to get the message and never appear again. For where? She no gree oh!!! I come look her sotay, meanwhile she go dey make yanga for some guys because she is fine and here she is, being treated like trash and saying she is in love.
Madness.
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tayotina (f)
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One of my ex's was a bad guy but he was romantic, I tell you. I love bad guys because they are romantic, they know how to take care of women. Believe me, they do. He used to open doors for me at all events, pull chairs for me to sit down, and some other things I can't mention. I never took all those things for granted. I respected him and even loved him more.
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Seun (m)
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That is why some people believe that woman are simply crazy! Gluttons for punishment!
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tayotina (f)
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Don't understand you Seun
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Greatpeter (m)
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hmn! wonders shall never end. I see!
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jogego (m)
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Greatpeter wetin u see? Now if you were a girl, got to your boyfriend's house early one morning, and he refused to let you into the room, instead met you at the door and told u to go prepare breakfast for two.
The average male brain would tear down the door to see what is happening there. This useless girl actually went to prepare the breakfast for two. Brought the tray and knocked the door to give the tray to her boyfriend. All the while she couldnt go into the room.
Nonsense
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Greatpeter (m)
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This is a heartless case.
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tayotina (f)
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It's a pity. I really feel for this lady.
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Pinky (f)
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;Djogego most women re weak willed when it comes to boy-girl matters.. that's what we called.. finding it hard to let go..... a lot of girls need training in this area of relationship....a guy treats u like a piece of thrash & u re still hanging on to him.... it's just because u can't see {well mannered guys}beyond him.....
i have a friend who was sleeping with another guy's girl.. she never listened to my advice till nemesis caught up on her, she went to the guy's house as usual for a weekend & that Friday night, while luluxing wit the guy in the living room, she looked through the window & saw a car with the same model & color like the guy's own {the guy bought his type of car for his girlfriend} Na so yawa gas o
the girlfriend got into the house, saw the fling & captured the scenario well. she put a call through to her home saying she was spending the night with her boyfriend.. my friend was too embarrassed. she couldn't leave because she travelled frm her school to see the guy. on the long run, the guy put her in a room close to his, she never came out till morning......in the night, she was hearing the loud moans of the girlfriend as the guy was giving her a nice treat {knowing girls for what we re.. am sure the girlfriend purposely moaned louder than usual for my silly Friend to hear}when she couldn't take it anymore, she called me & finished her credit talking nonsense with me.......
the annoying thing was that.. after this great embarrassment, my friend still went back to spend weekends with the guy...so wont we call that stupidity on her part?
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Greatpeter (m)
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Ha! things are really happening. Honestly I'm hearing this kind of treat for the very first time. Where was I when all these were happening?
I hate injustice, I would have fought for the victims, not minding if the person can crush me.
Girl sha! when they suppose to fall for one dying for them iro ni they will either fall for money.
No be money that your friend dey look for. E don see the guy with may be mece oloye
Somebody is dying for them pursuing them on the net and phone yet they won't consider him until bobo olowo discard them.
What a pity? Who get head no get cap. who get cap no get head. Aye yi o d'ogba. Fingers are not equal.
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makgod (m)
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that girl should be sick.... and needs to see a psychiatrist, if its love.
but if na money... the she is a prostitute.
can a guy really be that stupid for love...?
i mean meet my girl screwing some other guy and i happen to see or even hear the sound
and i still go crawling after her.....?
i might still love u but ......
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nike4luv (f)
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bad guys huh!..imagine wot dey'll do..u never even see it coming:(
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makgod (m)
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hope it never comes to my knowlege.
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