How to Treat a Girl: Macho Man or Mr. Nice?

When I was in school, I knew so many boyz on campus that used to treat their babes like trash, rags and S H I T but the girls still continue with the relationship and  everyday.

I wonder why it's so difficult for them to open their eyez (I guess love is really blind then)

i like a macho man with brains so he is nice when he needs to n goofy when he needs to too. so both, why settle for one? when women are expected to work hard all day and yet look pretty, not fusttered and yet have energy reserved for other activites. so it would not hurt a guy to be two things???...

mnn,  still wondering y she quoted me.

Let me yarn.

I see ladies as bunch of confused species. At least 90% of ladies don't know what they want. I know some will get defensive here. But what I'm saying is true unless you want to deny it.

My advice to guys in this joint on how to treat your ladies " Be mean and keep them keen"

All my Mr nice guy (Which i am by nature), still dey leave me searching.

First off, to be harsh u have to have the face to match k. not all guys can be mean/harsh/bad guys and think they'll get a girl, its just doesnt work like that. am not saying the nice ones are not good luckly or have to be ugly. And like i would always say, stereotyping is not right. its different strokes for different folks. Some girls like bad guys and some like nice guys. My best friend likes corking guys but i really like cute, chubby, tall, NICE GUYS. lol

lol, at least your nice.

Treat her however you like. If she doesn't like it, she can go somewhere else.

I know there are females who like "bad guys" but I think most times, it's just for fun. You don't really expect to have a serious relationship with a bad guy. I can't understand how any normal human being can find being treated like crap attractive, but anyways.
I think "nice" guys tend to be too nice, though. The right guy has to be somewhere in the middle. You don't have to be an ass but being too nice is not attractive. I remember an ex who would never take a stand or make decisions. It was always, "it's up to you, baby", "whatever you want to do is fine with me, babe". At first, it's kind of cute cause it shows that he respects your judgement enough to allow you to make decisions for both of you in a relationship, but eventually, it becomes annoying. Nobody wants a puppet. Even with regular friendship you don't want friends that you can push anywhere and who never wants to take a stand.

i feel it has to do with a balance, i do not want a wimp and i do not want and egotistical a*s i want some thing in between, a man who knows when which part of his personality should be on show.    

so how u like? i want to know

Be nice with a hint of macho man. lolz

im sure they do.

"Bobo nice" has always been a loser kind of guy