Guys Fall In Love Once And Only Once

word.

Keep searching, you will everly see someone better than she.

i wont say that for women as well,  we are emotionally stronger and can fall in love over and over again,  and can love more and more,

i do agree that boys fall deeply in love once with a girl
thank heavens I'm the only girl my boyfriend is ever going to love more than any other girl

I tottally agree


there is always one Manchester United will hold in your heart. for me it was the first man i loved and dated for 3 years

@Fluffy: u aint a boy how wd u know that? It's so untrue.
There a re different levels of love: the kind u feel rot the first lady in ur life is usually hot and  - dare i say - foolish. Some people are luck and the love gets transformed over time. Others are not so lucky, and get a breakup. BOOM.

Much later, when the guy is older and wiser, there's a cooler, more understanding form of love. it's THAT kind that is hard to let go of. Sure, you may remember the heat and passion of young love, but the longing will never be like when u had ur head screwed on.

So I'm probably SOL on this one since the topic so old, but I need some advice and I have no where to go for it.  I don't want to brag these facets of my situation vital to any advice.  I am a very good looking guy, and at the young age of fourteen I fell deeply in love with a girl from my school.  She was and is still very beautiful, but beyond that I feel that we established a set of morals growing up together while dating that I cannot find in any other girl.  We dated for three years, and then we broke up to date other people.  I never wanted to date anyone else, and I don't feel as if I ever will.  I am now 19 years old, and it has been two years since our break up.  I am in college now, and I have been with 24 other partners.  I feel sick over this, but I feel like I am in a never ending search to fulfill what my "x" once was to me.  I have decided to just stop looking and let it come to me, and i know I am very young and this probably seems stupid to everyone.  The truth is, in two years I have seen my "x" about 4 times, but I think about her at least 20 times a day, dream about her almost daily, and I worry about her well-being constantly.  She is currently with someone that loves her, and she loves him I believe, but he really is a terrible person.  He has faced criminal charges for gang assault, among other things.  Anyway, I have used drugs to relieve my pain since the break up.  At 17 I was one of the most intelligent and attractive students in my school, and I now I use drugs.  My "x" got into drugs, and I think I started to impress her.  I havent gone one week without taking some kind of drug since I started, and while I feel it is under control, I have brothers that look up to me.  Waiting around to find someone doesn't hurt me, because I occupy my time sleeping around.  I always use protection and I have been tested and I am physically healthy (besides the drugs), but I have been scared enough to stop sleeping around.  I don't think I will fall in love again, and I don't know if I want to.  I have everyone around me fooled, hence the resortment of "Nairaland?" I almost feel as if she wants to move on, I want her to be happy, but I never want to be with anyone besides her.  I truly and deeply love her.  For someone that has since cheated on following girlfriends, I never cheated on this girl and I couldn't even think of it.  It was physical with her even at a young age, but it wasn't the physical relationship that was important to me; it was the feeling I got in her presence, holding her while she slept, and kissing her every chance I had for three years.  We broke up because of trust.  I had the only thing I could ever want in my grasp and arrogantly tried to contain her from her friends and other boys.  I have grown, but really all I want is to kiss her everyday for the rest of my life.  What the f*** can I do with myself?

@ saint10

You should start your own thread. That way you can benefit from everyone's advice. Do so post haste. There lots of intelligent people on here who would give much, much better advise than I can! Please start your own thread.

p.s. I can relate to your situation. . .

@ Gridlock

I pray that you are right.

well i don't think any body falls in love only once it just depends on the situation u find yourself at that time

Well, there is no denying the fact that a person can fall in love and them experience heartbreak.
Of 'course, this teaches one to be more careful when it comes to things pertaining to the heart, but it does not necessarily follow that such a person cannot fall in love again.

For me, love is basically isolation. You decide to blind your eyes to all those around you and see this imperfect human being (imperfect of 'course because we are all humans and have faults and failings) as the most perfect on earth, or we decide to accept his/her faults as normal so we can live together.

Let us note that if we can objectively open our minds and see things the way they truly are, we will realise that there might be other better people out there.

In summation, if you say you fell in love just once, it just means that you need to open your mind to love again and you will truly find love.

NB

You might also be in love with her body or the way she does "IT" to you, but I can assure you that you will find someone else with an even better body or that will do "IT" better.

#Candid Submission#

It actually seems like a lot of women think men have no emotions

There is no love in this world its all lust infatuations and co-dependencies for both men and women 

agree with what?
everybody has his or her first love no matter the gender
we all sometimes think of our first love often even when we are in another relationship

  Let me just add a little of this.
I'm as confused as the first time i log into this place but think or can't say if i've ever Love anyone
but i know i will never forget my first infatuation

Sorry. . . most females like me only fall in love once toothe rest na business investment!

   WHo has the time to waste? 

actually

the saying is a man has five great ones. . .

he actually falls in with five different women

during the course of his lifetime,they might either come at the same time, one after the other

early on , in his life or in his latter years




so guys be wary that very girl you just played might be your last great one



so says the theory of the great ones