Reading Your Friend's Text Messages

it seem you and your friend love pretending to one another, as for me, they even come and show me without me asking.
most of the time i read their text msg without any permission, in fact what fucking permission do i need from them, are they not my friend.

i feel is an act of jealousy and fear of losing the loved one 4 lovers
then for ordinary friends it get jist when u a bored but i do it at times openly without been bored

@wadosky, i do not mean it is a bad habit as in it is a bad thing to do, its just that I may mistakenly check someone else's message absent mindedly.

My girlfriend and friend dont object to it, and I dont object to them. Sometimes, I call my friend's attention of recent messages I got. My girl trusts me, so she is not scared. Most times when she reads my messages, it is when we are discussing messages we send to ourselves, otertimes, she is just bored (because am not around!)

i think its a bad habit unless if requested?

No, don't read anyone elses' things without permission.  It's an invasion of privacy.  If they say it's ok, then fine.  Otherwise, it's being nosey.

I think every body knows d type of friends dey have, as 4 me i think if i have a private message i will delete it immediately after reading it, why i say so is that, becos if my friend unkown to him, he want to read my text msg and i smartched it from his/her then i have invited trouble and gossip.
infact self i do not think something so secret should be send as text message, as any body can read it when you are not with your phone

I'll read it if it's okay with them
I do unto others as I'll have them do to me.

would never read my friends. have read my boyfriends on occasions but he has been next to me when i was doing it and he reads mine. nothing to hide so NO issues!!

well, it depends on who the friend is,i treasure my text messages and seldom delete them unless i'm running out of space.

i'll do that only if we decide its ok to do that in our relatioship,cos i feel everyone is entitled to a little privacy sometimes.

following my posts, i read two people's messages only - my best friend and my girlfriend and I AM NOT JEALOUS OF THE TWO OF THEM.

i love my girl and she loves me too, am not scared of anybody. my friend has his girlfriend whom he loves dearly. he reads my texts to get lyrics he can use.

i wont read your texts if you offer me a million naira (ok, maybe i'll take the money) but still wont read your texts

is bad

if somebody read my tex am dead, its too dirty

Not bad 4 me!

As long has your friend knows and is ok  with it no quams.
But no sneaking around my text behind ma back!

I encourage all forms of surveillance!
Its the only way to get through life without getting played.
Ex;
read txt msgs,
background checks on close friends,
knowing the associates of your socalled "best friends",

if you dont take such precuations,
u will get arrestted 4 a crime your "best friend" probably committed

capiche?