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Bolubunmi (f)
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies
« #128 on: January 02, 2008, 05:02 PM »

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What can I say! I just love it all! This is a gud thread and a sweet write-up too. I cannot but agree with my sister about the temptation we women usually fall into all in the name of love? lust! i dare say. We should try to respect ourselves and most importantly, this body that God has entrusted into our care. It is when we do this that the male folks will begin to see us in another light and begin to respect us too. Carry on the gud work sister. Cheers! Happy New Year all.[what is life? life is what you make of it, simple!]
Contila
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies
« #129 on: January 05, 2008, 05:05 AM »

I like one of the responder’s comments that segregated the meaning of TRUTH and REALITY,
I don't have a high horse nor a righteous podium to stand on; however, I do know that the book of Proverbs,
chapter 10 starting from verse 31 talks about the value of a virtuous woman.  So the eventual question for all the women
that this initial write-up applies to is - Where Do Your Virtues Lie?

What I have noticed is that girls who are really attractive in their younger years are misled by their beauty until
their more "mundane" friends start finding mates and getting married.  Then they start to ease up on their
"correct bobo longer throat, "  Advice to men - research the woman you're about to marry. If you can research
a job prospect, the stock market, etc. why not the person you choose to spend earth's eternity with. Who she shows
you, MIGHT not be who she really is.  With that being said, men we must not be hypocritical in our approach. 
Some, if not most of us have histories; however, know what is important is realizing that the most fulfilling
things in life are intangible.


I dey hail!
Contila!
Tonyblu (m)
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies
« #130 on: March 09, 2008, 05:33 PM »

Quote from: Contila on January 05, 2008, 05:05 AM
. . . Advice to men - research the woman you're about to marry.
. . . Who she shows you, MIGHT not be who she really is.  With that being said, men we must not be hypocritical in our approach.

Well said!
And shld equally apply both ways.

Cheers.
Nwaka77 (f)
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies
« #131 on: March 10, 2008, 01:35 AM »

Very nice write up. Loved reading it.
Orikinla (m)
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies
« #132 on: April 08, 2009, 05:17 PM »

Read again.
cashi.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies
« #133 on: April 08, 2009, 05:54 PM »

 YOU NA YOU I DEY TALK TO           LIMIT IT!!!!! PLS
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babygurl19 (f)
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies
« #134 on: April 09, 2009, 08:14 AM »

u are such a freak, its becos some of the guys here are poor and they support yu, cos your sisters are unfortunate doesnt mean women cant be happy, and for sex, its very good as far its with the rite person, and not multiple pple. the porn actresses use drugs and all thats y the side effect is bad. God desisigned sex for marriage so shut up with the diappers. silly guy
daduke2k (m)
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies
« #135 on: April 09, 2009, 08:46 AM »

Nw dats d main problem wit Nig girls neva repentant. How sure am i dat u re not one of dem hoes.  Angry
Enockia (m)
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies
« #136 on: April 09, 2009, 03:34 PM »

wat will too much sex do to man will it make him use daipers as well
topup
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies
« #137 on: April 09, 2009, 11:28 PM »

Good points made.
Druss (m)
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies
« #138 on: April 15, 2009, 08:50 AM »

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ask the commercial sex workers and the most sincere ones will tell you that they now use diapers like babies.

You were doing averagely well till you came here. This is bullshit. This only occurs to those who poke girls or guys up the ass. Pardon my English. GOD didnt design the vagina to lose control if you are doing what he actually designed your privates for. Stop using fear factor. I hate it when people do that. You wrecked a perfectly good post with the above line!
Druss (m)
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies
« #139 on: April 15, 2009, 08:52 AM »

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Wow, this is very hypocritical and one-sided. The women you said shouldn't give in to sex, who asks for it in the first place???
Your post is extremely unrelenting towards the female, yet, it pays no heed to the fact that men instigate these things in the first place. Why don't you ask stop men to stop pressuring girls into sex? Why don't you ask rich men to not marry poor women? Why don't you also ask them to stop 'falling for' these apparent devil marketers? Look, I'm in the banking industry, and I can honestly tell you this whole banks employ chicks to go tempt guys for money is exaggerated, I don't say it doen't happen but if those girls go out and do it, it's on their own idea. Girls who feel they can't meet their targets goign to extreme measures to get what they want. At the same time, the men (mostly married) who are loose enough to fall for a babe in a skirt and let go fo his money?? Please.

Your no6 post tripped me the most though. You are yet to give the scientific proof that happens. I agree with birdman. Somebody told you a lot of bollocks, and you believed it because it proves your point. It doesn't happen. Too much sex will not turn you into a  walking baby. It's so RIDICULOUS, i can't beleieve how many women on this post believed it! Don't you even undersatnd your own bodies? What are the diapers supposed to hold anyway? Urine? Cos if that's the case, it OBVIOUSLY has nothing to do with sex, because those parts are not related. God is not stupid. If he wanted married people to have sex, why would he then put a limit on it? Listen to yourself, abeg.

Please go and re-examine your post. A man thinks about sex every 6 seconds. He's not blameless. And stop generalising. I know too many women who have had long, meanigful relationships WITHOUT sex, so that imagined 99% u made up is very annoying.

Just another chauvijistic male running amok under the guise of the Bible. Spare me.

She has said what I wanted to say.
smooooooth
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies
« #140 on: April 15, 2009, 09:09 AM »

greatest post so far on Nl, ladies pls read and learn, xpecially no. 5
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