Sleep With My Boss Or My Resignation?

Hello,

I was thinking what would you do if your boss in your office wish to have just one raw night with you before you can be promoted?

Would you go on with  the raw night with your boss in Eko Hotel or drop your letter of resignation  that same minute but have it in mind getting a job outside is not very easy and the promotion is something every staff would want o have.

Now I believe the text that reads "Men were born between a womans leg, yet they spend most of their lives trying to go back there, indeed there's no place like home"
Men and puss-y, na wa o

@ efuah

So u are going through this evil st your workplace. Now i see why you refer to your job as really stressful. More reasons why u need to 'relax' on nairaland. No worry, next tine the guy tell u nonsense show am your pikin picture. I never new Ghanian men where as randy as their Nigerian counterparts

A very honest response. I respect that.

Whether he's single or double, handsome or ugly, i will put in my resignation immediately. The God who provided that job for me in the first place will give me another one. And even if there were no other job on the face of the earth, i will still put in my resignation.

If u are good at your job, u wont be afraid of sack threat because he would still come back looking for you even after sacking u.

Why not try sleeping with her with the plan of resigning afterwards because at the end you're going to get fired anyways.

OK

I'll think about it . .

I think this sleeping with your boss is for a promotion right, my dear u can lose the promotion this year, next year might be different, is the compant his' what if u sleep with him and he gets fired and he has not promoted u yet, or u have a new boss, my dear your pride is gone, so i advise u don't if the pressure gets too much, please resign, God will sustain and provide a better job.

Sister, My advise is simple, get him to say it all on one of those phone with call recording feature and then Play the blackmail game. that will guaranty 2 things.

1. if you want him off you back, then he will be off your back for good.
2. if you really want this promotion, then that is a sure ways of getting.
3. if you want to sleep with him and ensure that you get the promotion without hurting his Ego and then make sure it does not happen again.

I can give some pointers on how to make a cd recodring of the phone conversation for distribution.!

It is very easy to respond to this sort of question from Nairaland.

Every lady would like to play 'good', afterall this is Africa.

Oh! spare me the moral views.

This question is best answered by experiencing it; if you have either experienced it and honestly narrate your reactions to it or going through it now and don't care about the criticisms from Nairalanders for being candid, then be my guest!

Otherwise get off this thread.

For the boys, boyz can do anything anytime. You can predict boyz. Whether be it for promotion or plain pleasure, many boys go like wack!

Show me a guy who wouldn't and I will show you a strong man.

Capital NO would be my answer. The one that created the heavens and the earth can do anything. Remember, if he victimises  you because of  your objection, WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. I believe, he would definitely need your help someday. Please this is an advise for all NAIRALANDERS, let integrity be our watchword. We should not allow selfish interests come in. You might say at least it does not have a reading meter. Hey; you would pay for it someday.

Regards.

you need guts to pull this off. but it just might work because bosses who do things like this are usually the timid type.

still, i have to go with seun:



this is very practical, honest and simple enough.

GOD would not let such happen to me.

I'll not sleep with him, but to tender my resignation letter, that would only happen when he with-holds my salary just because I didn't get down with him. Meeeennnnn, do I know how many of such people they've slept with, that I'll now come and be an accomplice. It's not posible, not in this life.

Sleep with my boss for promotion. . .

Much as i'd like to i don't really trust office romance because someday somehow things will get dirty and my office image will get tainted.

What will happen if she starts to fancy someone else, say a new employer?

I could get as much fresh picks outside as i would like, but never will i try funny things in the office. Except of course, this person is not my boss and we're naturally attracted to each other.