I'm Attracted To My Married Boss

  don't compromise your job except u get another 1 o!!!

Ehm! this must be really hard for you because am sure your head knows you shouldn't do it - which is the reason you have posted this problem in the first place. But still follow head and resist it with every strength, power u've got. Botton line is, he is married and there really is no future for u guys. You will only end up hurting yourself and missing out on meeting some really cool single guys out there. Join some cool forums, mix with single people more and find something to do that will keep u occupied. Eg u could go swimming after work of cycling.
Ask anybody who has been in relationship with a married man if she would do it again given the opportunity, the answer is always NO. Cos sweetheart he will never be urs for keeps and u will never replace his wife.
E no easy but i sure say u be correct babe so u go try.

realy it is worth to be with married man except you what to take the position as a second option.ans ask yoursef would u like it if someone else was doin that to your man when your married.thinks twice my sister

my sister don't even try anything fuuny or else you have yourself to blame,ask people like me and i will tell you from experience you stand to loose alot by lusting after your boss,it happened to me although i didnt go after him he came after me and my GM is a very fine nice guy i thought most of my collegues were secretly dyning for jhm rumours were flying that he was going out with one of them but we all know the suppose girl is engagaed and the guy comes to the office so i was among the first set of people to rule out that possibility and when he came after me you can imagin the joy in me,he drops me off after work,i go to his house over the weekend and note my boss is seprated from his wife so the issue of him being a married man was not in existence but i tell you when trouble started,he was so possosive that he wants to know everybody that calls me,he wants to know thje client i attend to and when eventually i discover he was going out with other girl trouble started it was that bad that he reconmended me for retrienchment when we had trouble in our office,he said all sort of things about me infact its now so bad that we don't see eye to eye.if i had seen someone to advice me against the relationship am vey sure things wonthave being that bad,although i,ve goten another job but please learn from my mistake

itz better 2 have your own home than 2 step into anodaz womanz hme and start a polygamy house
a beg look somwhere else!!!

sylvao200 u  have no home training and with no manners, nothing good will ever come out of u. u are a disgrace to yourself and to people around. if don't have an idea  in this matter u should have kept quiet. there are better things to say to advise the girl about her feelings for her boss. the only thing your head could think of is to call her ashowo in fact u a bush  man.   

@ poster
isn't it obvious that your boss hasnt even noticed u?

u amaze me

please go look 4 your own man

What a good question!

I think I can relate to what you experiencing.

Your primary love language is Quality time i.e you have the tendency to fall in love with someone you spend some quality time with.
If you look back into your romance life, its easy for you to love someone that spends time with you.
Well its not a bad thing you are just being yourself, but it will only be bad thing if you loose control over your mind,you know what I mean.


Getting another person to divert your love wont solve the problem unless you use the will power of your mind to keep you focused.Yes you can if you believe you can.Give the relationship between you and your boss a definition like this "Business partners" nothing more nothing less,say it to yourself every time the more you say it the more it become rooted in your mind because "whats rooted in your mind is rooted in your life".

Corner him and sleep with him. You may never get another chance to live your fantasy

if u no he is really worth havin and if he u ask him and he accepts idnt see any problem in it becus if u go for som 1 else  u wuld stil hv your eyes out 4 him bt tread carefully becus its a dangerous game

hey Girl,
   i am so sorry about how u feel, accept my empathy, but please don't even start anything funny with your boss , because IF u ever get out of it, the damage would leave a scar on your emotions. I wont advice you to leave your job,
1. jobs are not everywhere
2. challenges are meant to be faced
i see it as a challenge for u to put your emotions under control, that is one of the ways to know u are getting matured.

build up your self esteem, if u have anything of such to do with a married man, to me it sounds like u can't have a man of your own, im i making any sense?, there is a man to evry woman, THAT MARRIED BOSS IS OBVIOUSLY NOT YOURS!

hi so much advise , scorn and the likes i'm sure by now you don't need a sooth sayer to tell you what next to do, just incase all they have said has not sunk in my word for you is please get a grip of yourself and don't let the cat out of the bag . most importantly go off and start a new life i wouldnt suggest you become family friend - the whole family inclusive- because you will still be tempted to do wrong , the bible makesme understand if your eye causes u to sin PLUCK IT OUT its better for you to  to heaven with disability, a word is enough for the wise, all comments i beleive are all in good faith, s please don't go aroung fallin in love wih your married bosses even if you get a new job, let people repect your integrity it matters oh