Ever Slept With A Guy And He Just Disappeared?

Well it happens often to 1st timers, but the last thing i think is one's personal upbring. and how built you are emotionally.
   i am a guy and i know i can't do such a thing! a friends do it and they play and make gest of the girls they have laid. well girls should try to liason with their mom (if its a mom that understands and is exposed).whenever they are going into such situation. advice from the mother helps better than peer group.
  Christy, its a thing of the past, let that incident be the thing of the past. he that lives in the past never make it through to the future.

i am a guy n frankly all i can say is that since u knew that is what would happen, y re u grieving, unless u never suspected such, anyway guys who do 1 night stands, i havent done such n frankly i wonda how it feels to have a girl jus once n leave her, wow, guys hav got guts, well i am sorry 4 ur sorrow but u jus hav to accept it because u wanted it.

@ topic NO.

He's a gost, hope you enjoyed him very well sha?

nhhhhhhhhhhhh  this is interesting

so no men in da house.

Why would you go for a night stand in the first place? If you don't want suprises the next morning, get yourself a stable relationship.

Well many guys get into relationships just to hit and run. The unsuspecting girls end up being heart broken and eventually hardened.
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Getting past being laid.

Sorry, you should have waited

i hav slept with a couple of grlls and i disapeared

@post
no offense but the title of the thread is funny. . . na wa o. . . that'll be so embarassing 

Oga o people just use everything for opportunity.
I never see - kila gbe kile ju?

@mechelin89
there is no where in her thread where she mentioned a 1nite stand
i understand she said she slept wit him quickly, but as it started to happen, 

"she slept with him quickly"suggests she may not have gotten his name before shaggin him
"as it started to happen" suggests that she did not sleep with him just once

@poster
some reasons why he cld hav pulled a houdini on u

a)your bed skills fall below average
b)you are overskilled in bed(scares some guys)
c)most guys don't value easy conquests

for a better analysis, can u giv us an insight on what u guys talkd about when 2gether
especially what u told him
who knws u cld hav bein tellin him hw many kids u want him to father,and their would be-names(that is some scarry sh@*)

Except @poster is a bit light-headed, I kina think tis a serious issue in our society today. Sometimes its our fault, sometimes its the ladys. But most importantly, it takes one to get raped,but it takes two to have sex.
So, like it or not, both parties are at play. For me, I know I'm not strong at rejecting a girl's invitations(no guy is really!), but since prevention is better than cure, I won't let her catch me at the right time at the wrong place and vice versa.

i think a perceptive lady should be able to discern a guys motives, even before he puts pen on paper. Most ladies are just not sensitive. Way too care-free.

Just the same way you can't eat one kind of meal all your life, you don't expect the guy to be content with having sex with you. He'll want more, and once he gets used to you, he'll begin to see if all ladies feel the same way. Thats where it begins!
All the same, i'm sincerely sorry about it. i've been through a similar case(the other way round!) and I can tell what it feels like. In my case, i was lucky to resist at the final moment. She left me, thinking there was something wrong with me, but I felt happy choosing RIGHT  instead of GOOD. Take care. Move Ahead. Theres a whole new world ahead of you honey

@poster

sometimes i don't blame huntresses. they stalk and hunt men down, just the way men hunt women, take what they need and dump the carcass. 's got a good feel to it too. powerful.

i guess it was one of those 'i like him but i know he's bad for me' moments. u know, when u just find yourself doing stuff u know could hurt you in the end? the way i see it, it happens to most girls for 2 reasons

1. something was bothering them and the guy was really a distraction they needed at the time
2. at the time they thot it was too good an opportunity to pass up.

u might feel better if u do chop and run for one guy. don't try it if u're sensitive at heart tho.

@abusive posters

a girl who sleeps with a guy she doesnt know well is a b*tch, slut, et c. what is a guy who picks up strange girls and disappears called??? sharp guy?
punks!!!

She didn't mention anything like "we met again". They just met and fucked.


Why would someone sleep with a man for more than once and forget to ask him his name?
I think she meant as they were about to have sex, she had the feeling it was wrong but went ahead all the same.

You should have followed your heart. But it is well brace yourself up.