Ever Slept With A Guy And He Just Disappeared?

I was replying to day and not to you.

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My question was:

Why don't we listen to our famous female instinct?

It's a mutually pleasurable experience.  There's no "plunder" involved.  Both of you have "chopped".

She should have asked herself "why?" before doing it.  The answer is: "because it's a fun activity".

Seun you are right, Any babe or guy that is considering going into it should have thought about the why in the first place, so it gives you that leverage to why what the hell afterall I enjoyed it, it should have been something you most have decided in your heart to do, its like there are certain people you meet that you just the feeling to bong them no matter what and once you do that your mind gets to rest and there is this feeling that you are satisfied then the guy can go to hell. I do things becos my mind drives me towards that thing in essence if am to do something for a woman I do it cos my mind leaves me to do it and with that I can take whatever comes out of it with a Hell yes I did it and so what? and that is how consensual sex should be like. your mind is made up you have the feelings for the guy and when you look at him  its all the sex you see then you can go ahead and do it and damn the consequence.

I don't think one should feel guilty about that, its a one night stand and you come out of it satisfied and its what matters.

Don't know why some people take this thing so very serious.

I have always wondered at the mentality and maturity of most 'young' people these days. The reality of our existence is that most men see sex as a conquest that must be made - they are subsequently violent {rapist, women bashers/batterers}; pliant {woman wrapper, beggin beggin etc}; bribe givers {those who spend money time etc to get d woman's attention}, fawners {those who lie under oath that I just want to be your platonic friend - no strings attached} and proud {they form a vague opinion that by ignoring the woman or making small shakara the woman wud come begging} - but notice no mata wat, it is in d nature of a man to look for dat fruit between d legs, and irrespective of wen, where, how and under which agreement he gets there, SEX ALONE DOES NOT GUARANTEE HIS LOYALTY. Most women are under d most vain myth of our generation that because a man tells you he likes u in any form, it means he wants to marry you - MISSED CALL. Whether the man admits it or not just take it for granted that one of the main drivers for his 'tuning' you is to 'sign' register, and in your overall responses as a woman, you need to take that in to consideration, and women pls always negotiate your relationships whether they are short term or long term but no that allowing sex as part of the bargaining chips Will necessarily make the man more honest about his intentions.
If any one has a contribution on wat i have written so far, plz speak up 

I have had my own expiriences,

I have come across ladies that just mess for once and the next time you call them they come up with excuses that will make them not to see you again. so thats just it. its not about the Guys only there are babes too that only want to satisfy the urge and after then they are done with you some out of mere curiosity, they just want to know how this guy feels like and some becos they had a need that they wanted met.

at least you're honest.

some people will deny basic facts till their faces turn blue.

Hope when you are talking about hypocrisy you are not reffering to me, cos I said I have had my own expirience? I have never denied that it happens, but then there this theority too that you dont put Sugar in A person's mouth that though he throws it out and then fail to swallow the rest.

I think if he enjoys it or she enjoys it she will wanna come back, its just that sometimes there are restrains.

Guilty as charged.