Ever Slept With A Guy And He Just Disappeared?

@ mellow
what? who told u i need  help, and what kind of help do u want to renderd.

@ Zingnorr
nhhhhhhhhhhh, 

@chistiana  take it easy Na Ur own is getting out of hand,  watin sef who you be? because person insult you and you just go they insult him mama for open forum,, why you none insult am back,  tell me who none get respect for each other Na? ,  . Do you have respect for Ur mom at all? ,  no offence because if you do you will never insult someone else  mom, insulting someone else mom give room for them to insult yours back,  be wise and be good,  thanks dear one love,

@ salvao28

or what the hell they call your name, u sound like a rotten prick. i wasn't talking to u fool so next time u mind your biz.
 buzzy body.

Ode oshi.

@ mellow
tell what this mirror is allabout if is good for my age.

ok
@sylvao
if no be say u be my brother i 4,

thanx kido, i hear u

Dear there's no big deal there. Maybe he didn't value you or he was downright low class or u sort of cheated or slept with someone else's man. Girl u move on . Life has so much to give. it's called one of those things.

Well, there are different reasons why guys "run away" after having sex with a girl.
1. It might just be a one night stand.
2. The girl is not good on bed and she is not ready to learn.
3. The lady demonstrated/portrays acts of prostitution.
4. She is proud and inconsiderate.

For me, sex is not a big deal. You can have it few seconds after the first outting. It could well be months or years after. Timing may not be the issue but character and the person in you.

When such things happen, I always implore the victim to asses his/herself to determin where the fault really lies. it may not be the guys fault afterall.

@chistiana  you again do you mean you can't say a word without insulting someone

Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach? You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happen?    Of course, the worst part wasn't that it happened, but that you KNEW you shouldn't have done it in the first place,  but you did it anyway

just want to ask all the ladies in da house

The explanation is that he got what came for, any slight intention of getting  into anything serious was quenched by you giving it up so easily. Its a double standard I know, but if your going to have a one night stand be able to bear the consequences. Is he going to take you out and dine you, why? You did it backwards my dear. (no pun intended).

Anyway, its a lesson learned for you and you wont do that in a hurry, if you want a guy to see as you as more than a lay. Take heart, we all make mistakes. I have never been in that situation before.
 
 

Men as a man I don't think I like to have it and just disappear but shit!! it just happens at times,

1. Like you just came into town trying to check out whats good for the night. Meet a pretty lady. You're a meant to see her tommorow night. BUt got a call from the office early next morning to come back to Lagos. Thats gone. Mostly those dayz when there was no gsm.

2. Back school days when some jambites go just come for registeration. needs place to stay for the night.

Not really, because I was the one who disappeared,

@christiana
so u now have a twin sister hmm. Okay, there's vacancy for one more bitch. We'll take her in.

, pissing all over your body!

talk about double standards all you heffers on Nl have done some stupid thing or de other you are just to ashamed to say it.

@Christiana  it took me a long time to realise that my pssy is my own the law say at 16 i can do with it what i choose and dam it honey i did.