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bunkbobo
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For the Men, have you ever paid a woman for sex had?  One boy had stated his reasons to be: ''What I prefer is paying a hot woman to give me exactly what I want without complaining or insulting me. At least that way I know what her intentions are right from the start and I can't fault her for it. '' Whats your opinion house? <<mod: one question per thread, please>> |
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IBB Fan (m)
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does that boy have a girlfriend?
did she always complain/insult him after they did it?
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smartsoft (m)
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hummmmmmmmmm
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Seun (m)
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Some of such men might be single or in relationships without sex or with unsatisfactory sex. Paying for sex should be perfectly ok in a free society, as long as the parties involved are doing it voluntarily. The alternatives are worse.
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2cantango (f)
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*rolls eyes*
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Seun (m)
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It's better to pay for sex than to seduce a girl that's not a prostitute and dump her like trash after having your way with her. That doesn't mean I can patronize a prostitute, but I am being realistic about human nature.
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Oracle (m)
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It's better to pay for sex than to seduce a girl that's not a prostitute and dump her like trash after having your way with her. That doesn't mean I can patronize a prostitute, but I am being realistic about human nature.
thatz right seun |
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2cantango (f)
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@Seun: are you saying you don't think 'human nature' can be controlled? Why are men willing to belittle themselves all for the sake of sex?
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Seun (m)
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Why is it ok for a man to spend money buying gifts and romantic presents for a woman in order to sleep with her, but not ok for him to offer her the money directly and cut out the middlemen? |
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2cantango (f)
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@Seun: Ok, you made me laugh. I don't know, why is it ok?  I can't comment as I've never been spoiled with romantic gifts    Nor am I am man  BUT. . . if I were a man, I don't think I would want the type of woman who would only be with me if I payed her by way of money or gifts. Love me for who I am, not what I can give you  |
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must_a_far
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simple as A B C, some men pay for sex because they are tired of getting it for free.
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IBB Fan (m)
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lol @mustafar
not completely true. some for styles they've not been getting before, some for the fact that they don't know how to ask women out (a friend has to even help them talk to the sex worker), etc
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Seun (m)
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As long as the proper precautions are taken, I give this business transaction my enthusiastic blessing! I'm looking forward to the time when you'll be able to pick up a prostitute catalog, with pictures of pretty ladies in this business, their asking price, phone numbers et cetera. So you just call them in order to finalize the transaction. |
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IBB Fan (m)
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hey seun, i think you mean something like this: www.sextrader.co.za they come in various categories from escorts to one night stands. that still doesn't mean we've settled |
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Seun (m)
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Hehe. IBB, you have really explored this territory. Let them bring the idea to Nigeria. I wonder how many Christians in Kaduna or SOkoto will suffer for it.  |
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smartsoft (m)
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well they pay if the lady gives them want they really want and satisfy them wella wella
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2cantango (f)
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none of you all are making any sense to me. Did God not bless you with the power of speech? Men generally boast about their boldness, so why don't you just tell your partner what you want so you don't have to spend so much money? Where is the logic in being able to tell a prostitute what you want, but not being able to tell your partner? Some of you preach about no sex prior to marriage, and yet you're in here justifying prostitution  I'm not hating anyone, just trying to understand. If there's nothing wrong with prostitution, then why are women considered sluts for being prostitutes? Would you want, or would you accept your sister or you mama to be a prostitute? |
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Seun (m)
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"Slut" is to woman what "stud" is to a man. It is only considered a derogatory term because women take it that way. Try calling your boyfriend a "stud" one day and see if he'll be offended. Now try calling a woman "slut". Notice the intensity of the slap on your face? That's where the problem is! Women are repressed! Prostitute shopping malls. A large shopping mall in which there's a prostitute in each shop. |
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2cantango (f)
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@Seun: maybe things are different there, because over here men spit the word 'slut' out in such a way that there is no mistaking that it is not carrying the same meaning as 'stud'. So now I wonder, if the word 'slut' is so wonderful over there, why do you hope to marry a virgin? You're basically in praise of prostitutes, yet you want a pure wife. I'm still confused |
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Seun (m)
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I may not be gay, but I'll defend the rights of homosexuals. I do not see president Obasanjo as a baboon, but I will acknowledge the rights of my fellows to express such humorous opinions. I may not want to marry a prostitute (sluts should marry studs), but I'll defend the rights of a sex worker who knows what she is going into and a man who patronizes her.
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2cantango (f)
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I think that's called 'fence sitting' |
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slimgene (m)
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Men pay for sex because its an easier way and it saves more money for them.
For instance, a guy Adam meets a girl Eve. The dating game starts, He calls(£30) her every minute because the girl needs attention. He lavishes expensive gifts(£100) on her to kick her into life. He takes her to the club(£40@ west end,london) and buy drinks(champagne{£50-£100}). He takes her to his crib and when he demands for sex, she can either authorise or decline the transaction which is 50-50. A guy has spent almost £300 and cannot even guarantee a decent lay from a babe.
Anutha scenario, a guy strolls into the most expensive whorehouse in town and demands for the hottest professional whore and all he gets to pay is about £100 plus benefits like BJ,anal sex,toe-licking with no strings attached,no emotions and stuffs.
U do the math, which pays better?
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Seun (m)
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And the girl also gains, because the money goes straight into her pocket instead of into the boys phone bill. Business-wise, it's a win-win proposition for both parties! Prostitute beach. A private beach where men can pay for sexual romps in the sand with any number of willing females all properly copensated financially for their services. |
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Rhodalyn (f)
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because they're crap and don't know what to do with their cash
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Seun (m)
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I think that's called 'fence sitting' Fence-sitters are needed in order to keep people from fighting each other over every difference of opinion. That is why politicians are so slippery; they can't bring us together if they are narrow-minded and opinionated. |
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2cantango (f)
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no one wants to fight here sweet boy i'm honestly just trying to understand because it's something no one here wants to talk about. I respect your honesty Seun. |
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Idekeson (m)
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So you can enjoy sex with no strings, no aggravation.
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venice (f)
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i think they can't get enough were they are and pay to get better, satisfaction does matter
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charlisco (m)
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straight from the heart
men do pay for sex, reason - they are tired of buying gift to their girl friend to seduce them for sex, and sometimes it does not workout, insteading of wasting time & energy, they go direct to the prost and have a good satisfaction for their money
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eveseh (f)
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because they want to ahve it,
they can't keep thire private to thireself,
they are always hot
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