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steamingt
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I am 28, tall, choco, averagely nice, babyish in act at times but very inteligent.
The story:
I met her, she became my friend, the friendship waxed stronger, we baceme lovers.
We planned life, I impregnated her after introduction she delivered her like; a beautiful baby girl, and on the eight day she became history, I meant she expired.
Do you really think I can LOVE any other woman again?
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nana (f)
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Expired as in Died or u both broke up?
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yimiton (f)
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Oh my God! She died! I'm so damned sorry. That is the worst thing that could happen. If this story is true, then my heart sincerly goes out for you.
I love the way you wrote this story, it's short, interesting and captivating.
I hope the baby didn't go with her. At least that will be your joy, you'll see her mom in her in your lonely days.
I think you can love again, it will only time some time but time heals (may not be total) everything.
Take time to mourn her, take time to miss her, take time to love her memory but then, you must get up. Life goes on, you must learn to live again.
Wish you all the best!
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olanajim (m)
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My Dear Yimiton, you have just won a nobel prize for Dirge composition. Please come for your prize: MY HEART OF GOLD.
Sincerely, you are right.
If the poster is telling the truth, then you can love again. Though the pain of your lost might be hard to bear. I go with Yimiton.
Please take heart. Things like this happens. But yours is too early. Once again, take heart.
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crazykid (m)
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First I would sympathize with you concerning your loss; it isn’t easy to bear it when you loose someone who is so dear to you.
But like the old saying life goes on; you have to forget about the past and move on with the future. If you come across a girl in future how has all the qualities you want in a wife; there is no reason why you shouldn’t fall in love with her.
You can’t let the pain you suffered in the past pull you down in the future; I would advise you to tackle this situation like a man.
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havanah
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i am so sorry for ur loss , it not easy to bear the loss of a beloved one  but we r humans and the only thing that starts big and then decrease is sadness , it will decrease with time and be replaced with the joy of seeing ur kid grow and develop under ur love and guidance, may GOD give u hope and strength to carry on, we all feel when we r in love that thats the only person ment for us but as we go on we develop in our feelings and character and there is not only one soul mate for each one of us but many and u will find another match and live ur life with another loved one and u will carry the love u held for that girl forever, don't let this experience pull u back cause all life is about is taking what wev been through and making use of it for the future, let the loss uve experienced be the trigor for more kindness and compassion and u will get the best out of what u give GOD bless u and ur child |
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steamingt
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Yes I meant she died!
Havanah, crazykid, olanajim and yimiton I really appreciate your concerns and I really thank you.
I've heard a lot of stuffs like that from people around me, I happened to be a strong minded Guy so I'm not weighed down by the act of God but I've tried conciously and unconciously to love again but my love life looks just like a child's play. I'm only waiting for doctor time to come and heal the open wound.
Yeah! Her daughter is pretty living and I see much of her mother in her. So will she feel the love forever with a stranger on the way?
The real fear I'm having now.
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Busta (f)
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@topic
I am so sorry about your loss
like they say "time heals all wounds"
u will love again and it would be someone that will love and care for both u and your daughter.
Just remain positive.
all the best!
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jkpretty (f)
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This is really heart aching, U really need time, & u'll certainly get over it. U've got to watch out, for a woman wit a heart to take care of a child that is not hers. Not many people have this heart, Its very rear. Don't just fall in love, fall in love wit the right person.
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Scopium
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Season come and go so does certain events in our life. You can love again if you want to, you can't love again if you don't want to. So choose yea this day what you really seek and so shall it be.
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Xorcyst (m)
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the truth is, you'll never learn to love like that for a very long time, maybe nevr ever. having someone you love die is bad enough. having someone you shared the joy of birthing a kid 2geda, die, that is , i don't know.
take shit slow, but youl never let anyone so close again,,, or it might destroy u. take it from a man whose been there
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CuteAngel (f)
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SURE YOU WILL LOVE AGAIN. ITS QUITE UNFORTUNATE YOU LOST HER.
TIME IS A GREAT HEALER, YOU WILL SURELY FIND A REPLACEMENT. WISH YOU DA BEST.
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oyie (f)
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y did u not marry her between the pregancy n the delivery?
i find this story very porous.
sorry if i sound cold.but i think u just thought it up
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rachiwise (f)
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@Oyie ah,awon aye,what if he thouht it up??who r we to be his judge??we r to address the thread and not the person abeg. like yimiton said in her thread [quoteIf this story is true, then my heart sincerly goes out for you] i support her. but how could u just conclude like that,God help ITK(i too know) peole oo. @Poster True or not,May God don't let u see this kind thing again(or ever) oo!!  Time heals these kind of things,just make sure u take good care of ur baby girl. Cheers!!! |
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steamingt
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Dear Oyie, thanks for your opinion but I'm not telling the whole world this so they can sympathize with me but to earn the idea of how to get moving without affecting the lady to come. I know I can love again with time but that love maybe hinderd with the feeling of that great loss I'm suffering.
As you said it's a free world thanks and God bless. I pray you don't loose a pet not to talk of a loved human. Amen
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olamijuwon (f)
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sure man,you can love again. just rem that the bible says in Ecl 3 there is time for everything. just make sure for the child's sake that you fall for the right woman who will love the child as her's. nothing can beat the fact that your child will want love from a woman she can call Mama
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