Won't I Get Tired Of Making Love With My Husband?

First you have to identify what exactly are u getting tired of.


Once u identify that you should be ok from there, 

if u get 'tired' den sample your houseboy,driver,gateman etc,by d time your tru u wil 'untire' 4 your husband.

Did you enjoyed it  or you  didn't feel it all? Whaoo! I guess you need to identify yourself, what you really want and what actually going to make you feel it in the right way. Are you bisexual or what?

oh yeah u will get bored with him.  especially when he develops a pot belly

what she asked also bother me too, i am a person who get tired of anything that i do see every thing, i mean, it will will get to apoint when i c it as a bored thing.

what i am trying to say, is that, you are not the only one feeling so, i advice you to amend if not you will found it difficult with your partner. discuss it wth your partner in question and know how he/she feels

This is geominas,,

In response to your topic,the only advice i can give you is that u really need to understand one thing,and that is the fact that u're a woman,u've got an integrity and pride to protect,this doesnt mean u don't keep a friendly and healthy relationship with the men folks,but u really need to change your attitude of having to sleep with every guy that comes your way.

The problem u're having now i'm sure its more of a psychological one and if u don't work on it on time,let me be blunt with u,its going to ruin your home in the future.

The more guys a girl sleeps with,the more she will unsatisfied with a particular guy such that she need to have a feel of another,nd i'm sure u know that any girl who indulge in that is always seen and treated as such by most guys in the world today.

Take that from me its the simple truth,work more on yourself and get more disciplined,it help u a great deal,cheers!!!!

@shy1amy: i have the same fears too . like wont i get tired of "my girl". its cool now that we're just starting out and everything is loovy doovy but i can't say that i wont eventually get bored or cheat on her.

its a crazy world, just wish i could eat my cake and have it, open marraige, Will Smith???

katheranie you're geting the whole thing wrong!!!,fine u may say all men are pretenders and so on,but the truth is that even in the state of decay and distrust in the mordern relationship ethics,there are still decent,i mean very decent are sincere guys out there who might probably no be flaunting it,

Its normal,and mostly psychological,she is going through the depression 'because she's too exposed to guys,diff guys have diff ways if their sex stunts and tactics,it can never be thesame for all guys,in a case where a lady is subjected to such routines,the effect on her is that she suddenle find out that once into a relationship,after sex with the guy in question after sometimes she naturally gets bored and probably look on to meeting another guy,its a bad thing and she need to discipline her self and work on herself so she could have a better relationship that will last in future.

Your Husband? Get tired ?

Hell NO,

You shouldn't,

But that depends on a lot of things,

If you don't love him for real u'll definitely get tired of being around him.

You may even detest the way he talks, walks etc not to talk of after SEX with the person.

He will simply become a stranger to you,  Chikena

It is called Irritation , You will feel irritated allowing yourself to do it,
It is natural, Yes NATURAL,

Many people never really liked the personality of the other person but what is in between their legs when that is conqured FINITO, >>>>>BANG>>>>>>>>BANG>>>>>>>>>>>>>>BANG  and it's all over.

Young girl try REAL,   TRUE,  LOVE and you'll see that the more You get of the person the little You actually feel You're getting.

(PLS note it doesn't come easy, you must work for it.)

You will not get bored being around them, You will simply Love the way he talks, the way he moves his body, the way he looks at you the way he does this and that and he will be the topic of your discussion with your friends, You will want him to do it again and again and again,

The other thing is psychological, When you think too much of SEX you will never get to understand and feel for other

people but think of it as a way to demostrate what you feel for Them,

Generally after marriage u tend to have Seen and Felt it ALL ,  There my friend is where REAL LOVE counts, you may never enjoy it like the first time , or things may just get better by the day , whateva it is ,

REMEMBER True Love never fails,

Love isn't SEX,

Love isn't just what you feel,   

It is your ability to remain commited to ONE person even in the face of adversity,

No matter what people say there is never a perfect Love/Marriage teacher ,

What you want ,  What you do,  is Always what you GET,


So girl GET TIRED BUT NEVER TIRE OUT

 hi,
Many of us feel disgusted with anyone we sleep with outside marriage but its hard to own up to that fact as you've done here, because something inside tells you he or she wasnt probably worth that dept afterall,you'll feel cheated,like you ran at a loss,then you begin to notice the changes in his behavior,even his tone of voice changes,expectations change too.Finally, it hits you like a mark truck-it wasnt love,it was just sex and my dear,sex is cheap-it is everywhere like garri-,very soon it will be cheaper than petrol, hehe, it happens to guys too ya know,we get disgusted too,more often after the very first round,so you were even late to the 'disgust party' if you lose interest after a couple of time like you said.your guys probably got there first and were waiting patiently and pretentiously for you to get disgusted and make way for their next 'wild oat sack', sex changes everything, You did nt mention it, but these guys you sleep with, you certainly noticed drastic changes in their behavior-no more happy hour calls,he's too tired to talk,all he wants to do is get in the sack and get out,the whole thing is not real anymore,when the phone rings,you get suspicious and he says-that was my sister and you say-let me see the number-ya know what i mean-so perhaps your reaction  is a reflection of theirs. After attraction or cathexes, comes infatuation or the 'fallin in love' experience-which is just a trick nature plays on us so as to quarantee the continuity of our race.falling in loathing is usually followed by courtship and finally commitment or marriage or sex .All these can happen in a few hours,u meet him,like him,he likes you back,your body phone u,him body phone am,love don come,u bang am, he bang u.what next??? cathexes flies away and common sence returns, it wasnt love.Love starts at the moment of commitment,wether in marriage or otherwise,but usaully at the point of marriage, Any man who marries you probably loves you enough to commit and if you marry him,it is because you love him too.love is never disgusting, so when you have sex in marriage,he wont disgust you,because then you'll know the true essence of sex is to grease the friction of relationship rather than overload it with anxiety as in your  case right now. funny enough,do you know that married couples have sex on the average of nine times a year??? Finally let me add that you develop a personal relationship with jesus christ, he 's someone who will never trade his love for sex with you, He loves totally and you'll know what falling in love is really all about when you get to know him beta, Cheers.

I think the lady ask for advise, in such situation, you're to post your own opinion and learn or leave what others says.

Love goes deeper with sex, it is like convenant once you go into sex to those that has good heart.

The more the sex, the more you want to keep the relationship going

No reasonable girl want any man to make love (sex) with her and just drop anyhow and begin to look for another man unless public dog.

Please, let us think beyound talking ordinarily

Lady, if it is true that you are passing through this and not that u just feel like sampling pp's opinion, after a few time of going through pp's responses on this trend, it shall be over.

Please, talk to your God more for divine insight,

Even boys with this attitude don't marry on time and after marriage, they don't feel full loved for the wife not to say women.

Please, posters,

Let there be freedom of expression on this issue.

We will all learn from the trend. Many homes are in SHAMBLE for this little reasons we don't count.

Regards to all. 

Poster, what you are facing is not limited to you alone. Many a time you

make love to a girl and after the show is over you end up asking yourself

why you have done it. The only thing is when you notice that boredom is

about setting in, change eviroment , like going to an Hotel together and

try something new. Above all else, make sure you stay with someone you

love and I bet you if you trully love somebody you will not get tired of having

sex with him or her.

You need to know what is wrong with you first. See a guidance counsellor or maybe marriage counsellor.

One problem i think you have is the sex life you ahev been having in different relationships. Like you said if you have sex with a guy you get tired, Imagine that? Sex before marriage that is your major problem. You just have to put away with that and think about your life, your future, your husband and children and stop the infactuations you are having.

Go To church and Pray Before its too Late , its not normal you might have a spiritual husband oooo, No me me talk am ooo

MR Lecturer, who says.

she's married 4 God sake, so she need more sex its good for the heart u know.

Hi i am sorry it happening that way!  
don't fall for a guy anyhow now, make sure you cool dawn & look for real love don't set a trap to make the person love you, but sit quiet and you will get it don't submit to the guy on time and that zeal will still be their unitll  if you love the person realy you remain untill your days in this word but above all pray to God not to lost but love,,
for i know ever since you have not been falling in love but  lost for all this while.
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