Won't I Get Tired Of Making Love With My Husband?

we keep talking about love how will u know u in love, because lust and love goes hand in hand.

many couples make the mistake of considering sex a "big deal" in marriage. abstinence, sometimes can help to boost the morale of your sex life. try it.

also, be creative. some ladies believe that there is only one position for sex. some guys think that because they have a big d**k, the woman will always like it, try something smaller and softer (you all know what i mean), it can work wonders.

stop all this "wham, bam, thanks, mam" types of sex. let old things pass away, let things become new.

to learn about positions, search for articles on kama sutra, you'll never be bored. be afraid of watching some creative porn. it helps

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Infatuation is more like it, or better yet I’d call it Lust.


It was honest of you to add the phrase; "I mean after making love with the guy for a couple of  times". That is the nature of Infatuation; temporary love or short-lived passion (check the dictionary). You see a nice guy, you get infatuated with him, lust takes over and you (subconsciously) set your goal to sleep with him.

The problem is your perception; your mental image of guys and relationships. As it stands to you right now the peak of love is sex and once you've accomplished that goal and had sex with the guy (a couple of times in your own words) you get this feeling inside that you've sampled all that he has to offer and now it's time to move on (especially if he underperforms in bed). You pretty much get tired and bored of your exciting new toy and everything that once appealed to you now disgusts you. Not the best of attitudes to life and love.


Well I’m a guy so I can't answer that question but believe me a lot of guys and gals experience the exact same thing.


I can only think of two ways to counter your dilemma:

Through adjustment, try to do something about it now, reprioritize your goals in a relationship and stop having sex just for the sake of it. Try to look at sex as more of a supplement to a relationship instead of the goal, something used to connect deeper to and enjoy with your partner. You probably have to change or broaden your taste in men because the ones that you're normally attracted to at the moment don't interest you passed the fun and sex. You never know, the right guy for you might not necessarily fit into that picture you have of your perfect guy.

Through experience, with time you get tired of all the lust and sex and instead start to look for true love, you start looking for that bond that's tighter than just intercourse. Hopefully your perception of men and relationships will mature with time and age, let's just hope it's not too late.

$0.02

i truly thank u all for ur responses i ve got at least few advises from each and every response on this trade and am very grateful.

i see,no wonder,some wives dey go nak for outside,so women too no dey like to chopulate the same thn evry time,
una baby if you tire for your husband i dey here dey wait for my turn o.

 
i can assure u dearie, you wont!
y?
but first, know that marriage is not for sex but companionship. sex is an expression of love for the other person. would u ever get tired of being with d one u love? then leave the sex issue alone


then y ar u tired of it in ur pre-marital relationships?
i believe u never really loved the guys, period!
get ur priorities rite girlfriend!

Nobody should under rule what God says,Girl u need deliverance from an adulterous spirit controlling you. without God's intervention u r doomed. Forget bout what people are saying and seek God. Abstain and self control yourself

The simple fact remains that there is absolutely no love in all the past relationships,  Trust me i used to nuture the same fear too but when you indeed find that one person to love and cherish ,  You wouldn't remember ever having this probs ,  Ciao

you are wrong she says she wish to get married and make her own family how can u be telling her to stay  unmarried for the rest of her life

there's no way, why should a christian encourage premarital sex. people! it is wrong. the world is wrong. must we dance to the beat of the trend. Abstain from sexual immorality. YoungLady. AskGod to help u.No smoking nor ,  will do to help. Meet a man of God and seek God's help dear. the world is fast becoming Sodom And Gommorah. God saw just a man Lot, and he was satisfied to save. Please consider SEX IS WRONG before MARIIIIAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

U don't have to make love to every guy you date i guess this is where the problem lies you  always want to make love every guy that come your way  after several love making you start getting tired of the guy and you begin to feel bored. Think of it how many guys are you going to open ur legs for  u get married. sis just define what you  want in any relationship and you will see that things will change
Good luck

I understand what you mean.  I Have a similar problem,  but its with my JOb,  I get a Job, get it going on well and then i get tired and i am off to the next job, 

How often do you get a new Guy? because i ussually get my new Job in less than 2 Weeks,

I feel u baby, had such fears sometime, but i guess the solution 2 it is taking the focus off sex. If sex is all u want u'D definetely get bored very fast,

buy different shapes /size dildos. your any future marriage will remain intact and ou will have fun too 

PS SEX IS NOT EVERYTHING IN A RELATIONSHIP

If you are getting tired of your husband
try as much as possible to re-kindle your marriage by bring back the old things you both use to do in your early relationship

* watch porn movies together
* try new sex styles
* eat out
* go clubbing or get drunk together

i'll think of more things later

Listen girl, your problem is that you're a nymphomaniac.

You need to go sort out your head, ho.

Failing that, go get yourself a vibrator before you catch AIDS, and spread it to your poor husband-to-be. (How I pity him).