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blablabla (m)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #32 on: March 13, 2006, 08:56 PM »

it shall soon come to pass,
the day other peoples fruitcake shall be sampled,
that day shall dawn like any other day,
the gist, in a secluded room begun,
becomes a raging fire, unquenchable fire,
imagine, gist begetting fire?
fire service, fire service,
help, help,
IT WAS A MISTAKE.
but this kind of mistake, once made,
becomes so easy to make again, again and again.
sometimes you even look forward to making the mistake.


Oga, go thee to your wife,
never meet your single mistake prone collegue in privacy ever,
stay away from gists that beget fires with damsels,
but will you listen?
the fire has been lit,
this mistake must be made,
this fruitcake must be sampled Tongue


nairaland for life
oluwizard (m)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #33 on: March 13, 2006, 09:33 PM »

please my brother call your co-worker and tell her your problem in your marriage and your fillings for her.
 Tell her that you want her to help you out because you don't want to cheat your wife.
Tell her that any time you are using your privates to think instead of your brain you want her to tap your brain because u don't want to offend GOD from her side is that clear sir. BELIEVE ME SHE IS YOUR BEST TEACHER  AT THIS MOMENT
raldsfield (m)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #34 on: March 13, 2006, 11:28 PM »

This is for HE/SHE and who ever doesn't know how to bring up the topic of sex with his/her wife.

Buy a book about the topic and place it on her bed side. Grin
chinani (f)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #35 on: March 14, 2006, 12:45 AM »

@ ilovepda

TELL THE TRUTH:

are you a MAN or a WOMAN???
are you the foolish married man or the ignorant tart???

Either way, you are dishonest to the core, abi?

If not, then explain the OTHER things you've posted in this forum. Please, enlighten me.
funloving (m)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #36 on: March 14, 2006, 04:11 AM »

Quote from: ilovepda on March 12, 2006, 07:44 AM
my boyfriend and i used to spend about 5 minutes to turn each other on,  but now, we can turn us on just like a snap shot!  It's on with a blink within one second.

God, it's too hot now! Wink

Quote from: ilovepda on March 09, 2006, 07:58 AM
I'm an accounting student heading CPA licence.  Wish me luck!

This girl/boy who has been married for 8 years is also somebody's girlfriend.He has a job in which he is a project team member but at the same time he/she is an Accounting student.
Come on, ilovepda or i-love-to-tell-lies go and hide your head in shame.Don't come here and use us to do sexual fiction research. Angry
If you want to write a novel tell us and maybe we can contribute ten-ten kobo towards the publishing
imtheking (m)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #37 on: March 14, 2006, 10:10 AM »

i have to say something.  i believe ilovepda is sharing the id with friends.  how can a person perform such different roles at the same time? Huh

besides, Seun said he has banned him/her.  i don't think he/she has any ability to go on this forum and clarify the truth.

com'on, be an open-hearted person.  maybe he/she does have some problem in life and need your generous help.

by the way, I think Seun should ask ilovepda why he/she act this way before he banned this person on this site.  There is no such rule saying a person cannot ask questions with different perspectives.  we just ASSUME that one id should be exclusively to one person.

i'm a law school student.  maybe Seun will ban me from this forum since I said something for the minority.  Anyway, I want ilovepda to be able to come here again and give everyone an explaination and then we decide if this person or this id should be get rid of from this forum.
chinani (f)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #38 on: March 14, 2006, 10:53 PM »

O.K, well I for one didn't mean to be hateful or anything. I just don't like be taken for a fool. So if that is not the case, I am willing to hear an explanation or whatever. That is, if the person in question is interested in giving one.
Mr.Africa
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #39 on: March 15, 2006, 02:29 AM »

Let us focus on the story because even if not real to the originator, it is real to some men.

Deep in the originator's mind, this deal is 95% done. Fornication abi na adultery is a difficult sin to run away from. It is far easier to reject egunje than to reject "free" promising hot sex for a gu y. Believe or not, most gu ys will grab free hot sex anyday if not for the laws forbiding it or consequencies that might follow. From my expereince, this he/she  gu y has gone too far and only the grace of God can save him/her from falling flat on his/her face. I remember what one of my clients told me : He could not concentrate for days because he chatted with a hot Niaja babe on the nternet and the babe after describing her equally hot room mate passionately urged him to come from obodo oyinbo to visit them. This  line, and pardon my Agengule text here for a moment "You go gree fu*k us?" which the girl asked him, gave him an erotic erection for months. Na so some bobos be.

You see, gu ys are very funny creatures and small thing, dey don derail. This he/she gu y is already gone, except of course by the grace of God. But he seems to be orbiting away from God with an Escape Velocity. Only heavy fasting and prayer warriors' involvement than solve this problem or a drastic physical action like resignation from the company and fleeing town one time.

One person in this forum said it nicely, "Flee from Fornication" It didn't say walk away or turn away. Before the body go fall, the mind don over fall since.

Wettin that he/she gu y wan talk about sex with a single and perhaps sex starved spinster for biko nu?
Is it after 8 years that he discovered that his wife cannot talk about sex openly

Does this he/she think that this hot babe will be as hot in 8 years?

Make una forget matter, water don pass garri already.  Person wey the gods wan kill them go first make am mad, no be so?
twinstaiye (m)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #40 on: March 15, 2006, 12:33 PM »

Take your destiny in your own hands. There are some things you don't discuss or seek advice from general public, this is inclusive. An average human beings are pretenders, they say something and practice another things. To me, the issue of sex partners and being faithful is a self decision which you don't put in public debate. An average public will never support cheating or being unfaithful, but they may be in the middle of such scenarios. You can't get a good advice here, where you can get an advice is from a close friend or confidant. If you need my public advice anyway, and I hasten to add that I don't care whose ox is gored. If you like the girl, and your sex appeal click very well, take your destiny in your own hands my brother.  But remember, next time, you don't seek this type of advice from public, they wont give you the kind of advice that the ear does not want to hear, but the kind that will drum a good music into the ear. Enough word is good for the wise one.
Bishop (m)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #41 on: March 15, 2006, 03:51 PM »

resist the devil and he will flee away from u.does that verse sounds familiar to you from the Bible.if it does i advice that you begin to practise that technique anyway u can pass the babe to me sha as me i never marry.it is not a sin on my part.u never know what can happen ahhhhhhhaaaaaa.i be bishop ooooooo    Grin
stormz (m)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #42 on: March 20, 2006, 05:28 PM »

soundz like they spend a lot of time together
STOP IT
both of you will lose control before u no it
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #43 on: March 20, 2006, 05:35 PM »

Quote
Umm, good looks, an interest in him, interest in similar activities, a coworker, should I go on?
from allonym



don't!! don't even think of it
cheekee (f)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #44 on: April 28, 2006, 07:33 AM »

run away from sin as fast as your legs can carry you Angry Angry
if any part of your body causes you to sin then CUT IT OFF Grin Grin Grin Grin
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #45 on: April 28, 2006, 07:53 AM »

hiya cheekee Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy I'm off 2 skuul Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Kiss Kiss Kiss av a lovely day! Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss
cheekee (f)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #46 on: April 28, 2006, 07:57 AM »

have a nice day too dear Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss now take care cause ken and many other people don't wann loose you Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss
candy A (f)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #47 on: April 28, 2006, 08:29 AM »

ilovepda
cut ur "spermy" privates off n uil hv piss in ur fake marriage, 4 real
babymine (f)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #48 on: April 28, 2006, 12:25 PM »

I hope you've not done it yet?
Grizzly (m)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #49 on: April 28, 2006, 12:32 PM »

I think ilovepeda's been banned long ago and she aint coming back.
adconline (m)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #50 on: November 19, 2006, 03:02 AM »

Hmm! This sounds so Dr Philish. So what is it about this lady that your wife does not have? After talking about sex, you will get to experiment  with this new buddy, and  you are going to feel the same way. Over excited  when see you boobs,  U feel them and get bored later. Its all the same. I think men are biologicall inferior when it comes to sex. Talking about sex  makes no difference, because the bottom line is  to sleep with this lady and you going to regret after 15 minute of ecstasy and loss of memory.
 Here is an economic equation for you?
 Talking sex + having sex == disaster, divorce, heartbreak, loss of job, legal fees,debts,family disunity, shame, custody battle etc

with your wife , Talking sex + having sex oops making love ==  disaster, divorce, heartbreak, loss of job, legal fees,debts,family disunity, shame, custody battle etc HAPPINESS.

 I believe that humans should  not self destruct or engage in anything that does not add value. What does it profit a man if he talks about sex with a stranger and loses his livelyhood. Why don't you read EVE by James Hardley Chase
minniepoe (f)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #51 on: June 20, 2007, 02:56 PM »

i have found out that most married couples think an affair only happens when there is sexual intimacy involved. hell no!!!! an affair happens once there is some other person you share emotions with, apart from your partner

you are kind of attached to this female colleague of yours emotionally and do you want to tell me you have not thought of doing it with her. i am sure you take extra care dressing up in the morning just because of her,

stop meeting with her for lunch and cut all the emotional talks with her before it leads to something you cannot handle,

get your wife interested in talking about sex with you. i used to be in your wives shoes but my husband pulled me out of my shell. if i don't talk about my sexual life with my husband then who do i discuss it with?

 
mekoyo (m)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #52 on: November 30, 2007, 03:06 PM »

You are treading on a wrong part. Just discuss your project issue and leave the rest. If you are having problems with your wife call her and sit with her one on one. Have a heart to heart talk and then seek counsel.
uchetobi (f)
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #53 on: November 30, 2007, 03:52 PM »

u and this girl need distance and soon
souless
Re: Am I Having An Affair With This Smart Girl?
« #54 on: December 03, 2007, 01:16 PM »

You are definitely cheating on her, emotionally , it's actually worse than you cheating on her physically IMO.
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