Christian, 15 Years Old And Desperate For A Baby!

Christian, 15 years old and desperate for a baby!

What do i do? The feelings are so intense but i love Jesus and my faith and i can't fornicate but i want it so so bad!

Are you male and female?  What is it about a baby that you love?

I feel im ready emotionally. Financially i can't look after a baby, No.

I babysit a 1 year old boy, sometimes hes a pleasure to have other times hes not. This just makes me want a baby even more!

You are not "desperately" in need of a baby, you are "desperately" in search of SEX.

Geez!!!!!!!! did it sound a bit too harsh? :-[i sorry if it did softee but i mean you know it's not the best

  sex that word does wonders to people  my dear, if it's sex you want then go for me  but not a baby

it is true if it is sex that you want to go for go it. trust me you don't want a baby this early in the morning of your life, when your friends are doing better you want to be stuck changing diaper?huh? the person talking better not be residing in nigeria.

@vicktbabe
that's true

@ softee

Just like the little boy is sometimes a pleasure to have & sometimes not, your child will be the same way. I only say this b/c I think you know that it's best to wait years to have your own baby and yet you still want one. That's OK. I love babies too. Try other ways of being around babies.

For instance, babysit more children. Or when summer comes, work at a day care or Sunday school (if you're 16). Maybe there's an outreach center for (teenage) mothers in your area and you can help look after the babies. You can "candy strip" or volunteer at a hospital.  (In the future you can be a pediatrician or neo-natal nurse or something.)

Above all, remind yourself that if you have a baby now, the struggle will be SO GREAT that you won't have time to spend w/ him/her. You'll have a job + years of school ahead of you. By the time you catch your breath, your "baby" will be in the 1st grade!

I'm glad you mentioned you are a christian. I want to let you know that God has a plan for your life. I believe he would grant you your heart desire if you seek him dilligently. sometimes God wants us to wait a little bit. we are accountable for the decisions we make . we would have to face the consequences of whatever actions we take. honey I believe the time isn't right for you. You are young , I believe beautiful, I would encourage you to focus on your career. right now you may think you are mature enough to handle raising a child  but 5-10 years time , you may look back and say "what was I thinking" . but even if you are mature as you sound , think about the future of the child. you don't want to bring a child into this world , and weep daily because you aren't able to support him financially or you have to overwork just to make ends meets thereby spending little time with that child. there are many fatherless kids out there, children are a gift from God . I believe they deserve our best. I believe if you bring a kid into this world , he's not going to get the best considering your present circumstances. also think about this , do you want to be a baby mama, when your friends are doctors, lawyers, hanging out, having fun, having stable homes. I believe you want to be a role models to other young folks. whew let me stop here anyway I believe a baby is not best for you now, but like others said you may babysit the one-year old more often ,  or find tiime to hang out more with kids. you can learn a lot which you would impact in you kid's life in the future. I shall pray for you. remember
serve the creator in the days of your youth, enjoy being a teenager, enjoy having to go out without thinking " oh my son is sick  " or this and that. honey enjoy service for God because a time would come when u got to focus on family.
let me know what happens
cheers.

@ ability
Do you really think your statement to this young girl is appropriate being that you are 12 years her senior_{joking or not}?

Sex itself comes with a lot of emotions, and a baby brings about even more emotions.  At your age, you are still trying to find yourself so why would you want to bring a baby into the world that you won't be able to emotionally or financially support? Another thing, why would you want to put this responsibility on your parents? 

I don't feel that at your age you are ready emotionally or financially to handle being a mother. 

It looks all glamorous on the outside looking in, but once you're on the inside looking out the view changes drastically.  Please clear this thought out of your mind dear heart and focus on more productive issues.  Trust me, when you are much older you will be glad that you did.

I think there is no need for such perverse postings here, this child is still under age.
Christian what you feel is normal and I know you are going to be a very good mother some day but please hang on for a bit longer.
You need to finish growing up yourself before you can have a bay.
I had my first child pretty young and it was hell. At night when the baby cries and you can't sleep. I just sat there crying too.
A baby also needs a father so you need to meet the right guy too.

Softee,softee first of all u need to get your sh*t together baby girl,u need to finish high school as I  believe you're still in high skul and go to college and get  job , a husband and then a baby.or Is it sex that u want, girl don'nt be in a rush u  might be regreting afterwards and by the the way its not cool to be a teenage mother, Go suck a lemon and cut that crap.

Thanks to those who brought sanity into this thread. I can't fathom how some Agbaayas can  give suggestions as raw as we have seen in this thread of discussion. This girl is young and we should be happy that she expressed herself.
Please face your studies and grow up! You have a very good future ahead and many more years to enjoy motherhood, and you have even answered your own question by saying that you are a xtian and can't indulge in sex. I am not sure Mary's miracle is still available here,  so please get back to reality land end enjoy your young age, its not as easy as you see now, but you will be able to handle it when the time is ripe! Bless You!

I'd say go for it.  If this is God's plan for you, you will become pregnant and have the baby.  If it is not, you will not become pregnant.