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ronkeD (f)
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but its not easy!
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twinstaiye (m)
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RonkeD, Play the same game he is playing (I mean the married guy), afterall, he is married and had another girlfriend in Naija. If he accused you of having an affair, accused him too of having a wife and two girlfriend(1 in Naija plus you). No doubt about it, you need to listen to what people are saying here, it is the truth. You have to leave both of them. Just like you said that it is not easy, you are also right. What you therefore need to do is to make up your mind that you are going to leave him, but not immediately. Play along with him, but make yourself available for another person, even if you have to do this discretly. There are men who will understand your plight and love you for who you are and take up your problem, until it is over. I wish you all the best.
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banke (f)
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ronke try and be patience, with that you can achieve alot in life!
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kimba (m)
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so all of you just conspired together and ronkeD just dumped 2-guys.
eh - ya
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chinani (f)
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@ kimba
I have no idea what your trying to say. Care to be explicit?
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ronkeD (f)
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kimba, they didn't conspire, it was just an advice! assuming you are in my shoes what could you have done?
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banke (f)
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ronkeD, how are you coping with things generally? hope you have resolved the issues of your guys! well just pray and fast serious about it.God bless you!
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afolabikar
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can i also join the queue
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ronkeD (f)
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thanks i have dumped the married man now and the other one and i feel so empty! is this feeling real or may be am missing something? i have a urge in me to call the married guy but i keep hiding my number and call him and he doesn't know am the one. its not easy i feel lonely! i would be taking a break nextweek and i would come to Nigeria. chane of environment! may be that would help!
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chinani (f)
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When you feel lonely, why not call a girl friend/sister/cousin instead? This is the feeling that people have when they've been dissapointed and/or have ended a relationship. It's natural and the feeling will pass.
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twinstaiye (m)
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Keep enduring it, it will only last a short while. From your actions now, you can now see you have taken a good decision. Take a look at from this angle, your ex-marired man, how is he doing too? Is he missing you as you are missing him? The answer is yes, he is missing you too, but he can endure your not being around because he has alternative to fall back on, he has his wife and some other women around him, while you don't have anyone else. It is a feeling that will go later on as time goes on, keep on enduring it, I wish you all the best.
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whitelexi (m)
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believing that the best is yet to come Look around u, The best might just be around the corner  |
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ronkeD (f)
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or are you the best whitelexi?
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whitelexi (m)
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or are you the best whitelexi? I didnt say that, But the answer might just be looming in the air  |
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oluwabiyi (m)
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at least she said she left the two them!
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