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tosinadeda (m)
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u just looking for excuses to have sex out of marriage abi,go ahead girl enjoy ur life but remember nothing stays hidden for eva
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Jimi90
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Hi baby, Contact me, I will solve ur problem  |
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c_blow (m)
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really sad,
i actually thought it was the other way around, per the guy wanting and the the lady saying no!!!
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d_chosen1 (m)
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omo my candid advice is for you to try the other guy joo ooooo.Afterall varieties is the spice of life ABI WETIN I TALK?  ?? |
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chyde (m)
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i think u should make your self sexy at all times and always approach him first when ever you need him
not always waiting for him to come for u.
remember men are like babies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
treat them with care and tolerance
do the following before he comes back from work
* Clean the house, send the kids out, spray the house house with a mild perfume
* Cook his favorite soup
* Wear your sexy night gown
* the moment he comes in undress him
* drag him into the bathroom
* Then Bath him, make it romantic
* Then take him to the bedroom and ravage him
E-mail me tomoro about the result, that was my own technique and know he begs for it.
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amannivere (m)
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@poster, This BOBO wey dey toast you, I'm don marry?If I'm don marry, tell am to bring I'm wife make your husband bang.Then you go ahead and bang that toaster like a ****machine.Its called xchange program .if your toaster never marry,then get one fine omoge for your husband to bang,then you go ahead and bang your toaster.The equation must balance oh,no cheating or else ur God go vex.Afterall read history, isn't marriage advanced prostitution?Or what else should we call a long term contract of money,sex and food.At least that's what your enquiry has reduced it to! |
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Gridlock (m)
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remember men are like babies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
treat them with care and tolerance
I absolutely HATE it when I-know-everything females make uninformed passed-down-by-my-mother statements like the one above. No wonder Nigerian marriages keep failing.
E-mail me tomoro about the result, that was my own technique and know he begs for it.
Are you male or female? |
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vescucci (m)
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amannivere was really funny! I really think a lot of people are taking the matter of this lady too flimsily. People should have more respect for her. If she were a 'ho' she wouldn't be coming here to bare her mind and asking for pea brained opinions.
@poster, you should keep your head up and never get fooled by movies that make it look like you can have a quick fling and all will remain well as long as you love him or whatever. Things are really not that way in real life and especially not in Africa. Need I be more specific and say Nigeria. Adultery is not a civil crime, only a basis for divorce. But if you go ahead with it and get caught, you'll live a very long life regretting it. And don't for a second think 'I'll only hang out with him', it always ends up in a tumble in the hay. As for your husband, talk gently and coercively to him. But if he persists to be impenetrable, let him know subtly that sex is your right and his duty and vice versa. Good luck with your raging hormones which, trust me, is perfectly normal. Just direct it to the right place.
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funkydot (f)
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I guess most of y'all are male, chauvanistic pigs at the least!!! >:(Please, leave the woman, bo. Nobody would give all these half-ass advice if it was a man talking about boning an extra lady on the side. Some would even say he's playing an away match, pleeeease!!! People can really be sanctimonious but if you dig really deep down you would be surprised how rotten they can be themselves, Nigerians especially. Sister please my candid advice is for you to seriously look inside of you and find happiness there somehow. This other guy won't be any different because he is only after one thing and we both already know what this is. So for the sake of yourself and your kids do away with the dirty thoughts and get busy doing some other 'clean' things to occupy your time. Devil really does find work for idle hands. Best of luck sis, l'm prayiny for you. |
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orenzo4u2 (m)
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Hi hope you won't be the enemy of your progress, if you husband was to voice out that another girl is in love with him what will be your feelings?
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Busta (f)
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that is a tough situation, I must confess.
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ogtwice (m)
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no beeeeeeeee smalltin oh!!! well' confront him and be blont about it. that's why his your husband. good luck,
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stag (m)
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your libido is only natural,abi house? looks like he aint got a prob witchu because u get along well on other issues.u sure he aint 'banging-the-hell' out of some cool-ass-chic at work? get your freak on baby and learn some moves.next time u burst-a-move, u gonn' b damn irresistible for no man is that dull sexually not even at 50.its easier for u to seduce him since u still sit together,at least he still stands ur sight.seduction is only a game at least he's ur hub. YOU TELL HIM? bet you going to be in a bigger mess.he's gonn' start assuming many things.believe me baby u don't want to do that.hold on as long as u can faithfully and truly, beyond elastic limit? (we all break at this point) enjoy the forbidden baby- stolen waters taste sweeter.  GET A GRIP!!!  to those unnerving critics: make sure your brains' got brakes before you engage your fingers  .betting y'all calling her names 've done worse than this  .she's only got a toaster for heaven's sake! it make life fun n good for the spirit  .remembr she's still young but i'm hoping not restless. |
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dafidixone (m)
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Am married with kids, still young, I love my husband dearly, but he doesnt want intimacy with me, we discuss general issues very well, but on an intimate level we don't really get along fine, I currently have someone toasting me real hard am tripping for the guy but wont want to hurt my hubby by going into such a relationship, the guy appreciates me, we only communicate by text and phone call, but I really am afraid of what might happen if I set eyes on this guy again. I don't no if to tell oga, but in his usually way, he doesnt count it as important at all. NLanders make una help me o. I hope your encounter with this new freind is not influencing your accepting your husband. Marriage is for better and for worse. Woman be careful, your imagination may be contributing to this issue. For example, you mentioned some who is toasting you and you are tripping for him. Examine your self first before you beging to blame your husband. However, I like to let you understand that broken will have great effect on Kids. For the sake of the Children, I beseech you avoid your new toaster you are Married. |
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luckyme9
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I think Salvao2000 is a little too far with this, i know its easy for you to say because you are a man. Imagine if the reverse were to be the case, this would probably have raised more hell that it is right now. My advise for you is to keep your sanity, keep your thighs together, talk with your husband. Open your eyes and listen very well to him, pay attention. What is his problem is he depressed of some sought, is he always tired, is he impotent of some level or is he cheating on you. Does he enjoy having sex with you when he does? Sister there is a lot of factors to put into consideration in this case. But above all, as long as he's not cheating on you, Then take a deep breath and work with him, find some other form of intimacy that you will both enjoy other than sex, then get actual sex when he can, do your best to help him get in the mood. There is a lot of things you can do to help him. DO NOT CHEAT ON YOUR HUSBAND IT IS FORBIDDEN. This is a part of marriage life it's, Peace out.
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nezerst (f)
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Thunder fire all of una wey dey insult the poor woman wey simply ask for advice.
Hello dear, no mind them jare.
I don't advice you to cheat on ur husby, but if u fit do am without getting caught okay oh.
On d other hand try and talk to ur husband about what u r going through and if he is d very busy type u sef go try understand small.
If u r not working abeg my sis try and look for sth to keep ur self busy,this will help take ur mind off sex.
Another wey i dey do when my husband no gree do be say i dey help myself. Infact na den i dey even come pass sef.
Get a vibrator if u so desire.
All d best.
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ragola (m)
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HELO OLD LADY, I WISH TO INFORM U THAT U RE MAKING THE MISTAKE OF UR LIFE IF U DARE DO THAT because U MARRIED FOR BETA AND FOR WORSE. SO NO MATTER WHAT THE CASE MAY BE, U HAVE TO DISCUSS IT WITH UR HUSBAND THAT U RE SEX CRAZY RATHER SELLING UR BODY TO OTHER MEN OUT THERE THAT MIGHT EVEN INFECT U WITH HIV AND AIDS. INFACT, U WOULD HAVE TOLD US THAT U HAVE BEEN SLEEPING WITH OTHER MEN RATHER THAN BLABING HERE. U NEED A RETHINK WOMAN XCEPT U WANT A DIVORCE. THANKS[b][/b]
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coolboy100 (m)
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@ poster, call your husband and talk to him, may be he is disturbed of something,he is your husband the two of you have to make things work out fine ok!
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daisy4real
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Don't do something stupid, acquire some skills on how to seduce and where to touch your husband for him to be aroused.
I think he will do it with you.
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TRUSERVE
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problem like this frustrate big time, my advise to you is that never judge your husband before finding out from him why he is like that. you might find out that somewhere somehow is you who is pushing him away, so do your best and see if he wn't change. if you've gained weight after birth please make sure that you join a gym or engage yourself into balance diet. do whatever it takes to look attractive because there is single ladies out there they like to compete with married wifes. also pray for your husband everyday it works.
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