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geominas (m)
Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« on: September 30, 2007, 03:31 AM »

What Is Your Idea Of A Perfect Relationship?  Does It Exist?

Some says it does by having a sincere, caring and faithful partner.

Some says it doesn't having been disappointed severally,
To some its a total mystery meant to be kept in a box and never dare to open.

What do you feel about it?
iice (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #1 on: October 01, 2007, 01:32 PM »

Perfect doesn't exist
efuah (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #2 on: October 01, 2007, 01:45 PM »

iice, word!
ufobabe (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #3 on: October 01, 2007, 02:19 PM »

in this life, nothing just happen. u have 2 work 4 what u want 2 have.true relationship still exist.hapiiness can be found by doing what u do best and not worrying about what the other person is doing.

it is wise 2 weigh the pros and cons of anything that reguires commitment. nothing has the power 2 determine what happens in your life like the coice u make.

people that are always having problems are yet 2 realise their mistakes.maybe u are looking 4 beautiful girls who will soon dissappiont u because she knows 4 herself that she is beautiful.

  romance tells u nothing about character and is extremely unreliable as a method of determining the viability or vitality of a relationship

there is true love, only if u can open your eyes
anyway, goodluck
londoner
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #4 on: October 01, 2007, 02:33 PM »

I don't believe that any human being can be perfect, so there can never be a perfect relationship. I do believe in compatability and when you have that you can be so content that you feel your relationship is perfect.

Relationships have to be maintained though.

dearstan (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #5 on: October 01, 2007, 02:43 PM »

no such thing as perfect!
aquita (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #6 on: October 01, 2007, 03:10 PM »

as far as we don`t have perfect human beings, there can`t be a perfect relationship. any one that tells you that he/she has a perfect marriage is not telling the truth. however, we should always work towards improving our relationship with people.
mdsocks (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #7 on: October 01, 2007, 03:14 PM »

it exists but not perfect
edmondo (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #8 on: October 01, 2007, 03:17 PM »

no perfect love since no human being is perfect
otuonye (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #9 on: October 01, 2007, 03:17 PM »

Quote from: ufobabe on October 01, 2007, 02:19 PM
in this life, nothing just happen. u have 2 work 4 what u want 2 have.true relationship still exist.hapiiness can be found by doing what u do best and not worrying about what the other person is doing.

 it is wise 2 weigh the pros and cons of anything that reguires commitment. nothing has the power 2 determine what happens in your life like the coice u make.

people that are always having problems are yet 2 realise their mistakes.maybe u are looking 4 beautiful girls who will soon dissappiont u because she knows 4 herself that she is beautiful.

 romance tells u nothing about character and is extremely unreliable as a method of determining the viability or vitality of a relationship

 there is true love, only if u can open your eyes
anyway, goodluck


YOU SAID IT ALL. WORK FOR WHAT YOU WANT!!
mellow (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #10 on: October 01, 2007, 03:28 PM »

No perfect relationship but we must strive toward perfection.
spaceworld
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #11 on: October 01, 2007, 03:38 PM »

mellow
u have said it all, it all depends on the both, if the real intention is stay on, then they should perfect both side to makle one perfection., it takes alot of sacrifies
mdsocks (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #12 on: October 01, 2007, 03:44 PM »

there are but not that perfect
it depends on both parties, if they are determined to make it a sucess
Olusleeky (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #13 on: October 01, 2007, 03:45 PM »

its does exist,give it n u will get it
moreshow (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #14 on: October 01, 2007, 04:11 PM »

It does exist depending on the view and the ways which the parties involved took it,
teena (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #15 on: October 01, 2007, 04:14 PM »

Nothing is perfect in this world, but you can have good relationship if you are able to understand each other.
@tomX (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #16 on: October 01, 2007, 04:46 PM »

Quote
as far as we don`t have perfect human beings, there can`t be a perfect relationship. any one that tells you that he/she has a perfect marriage is not telling the truth.
Well no one is perfect but you can find someone who is perfect for you. In the same vein you can be perfect for some one. Perfect love does exist and it might take some work but it's workable.
degubi (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #17 on: October 01, 2007, 04:58 PM »

no perfect relationships do not exist, all relationships must be worked upon to give u the ideals u seek.
Etin (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #18 on: October 01, 2007, 05:19 PM »

Hi All,

I wouldn't use the term perfect as its too clinical and would be an adequate term for something with a fixed value (Numerate), one that anyone could check the boxes and tick off. In relationships that is not the case the standards keep changing by communities and by person - there are no absolutes for measuring relationships only the people in it really know what works for them.

There are happy, comfortable, good relationships but non of them got there without going through a learning curve and a determination to make it work.

The concept of 'perfect relationships' is one of the reason for lots of marriage breakup, lots of people have been sold a myth - love movies, mills & boon, novels, fairy tales etc.

Real people are comfortable to live with, unrealistic expectations creates dissatisfactions. 
sweetberry (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #19 on: October 01, 2007, 09:09 PM »

perfect relationship does not exist.
people just find other people which fit most of the criteria of how they fill a  perfect partner should be and the minor irritable qualities they learn to live with.
just as their is no perfect car, house e.t.c
Rob-roy
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #20 on: October 01, 2007, 09:11 PM »

Perfect relationships DO exist. A perfect relationship is one where both partners argue but make up respectfully, love each other sometimes and can't stand each other the rest of the time, work at communication but fail most of the time because everyone is different. That is perfect. If a relationship is all "yes dear" one partner will muder the other out of boredom Grin, if it is fighty-fighty everyday that is equally not good. A nice mixture of both is perfect,
kokoletz (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #21 on: October 01, 2007, 09:25 PM »

Perfect relationship? Well it sure happen in d novels. Gbam
sweetberry (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #22 on: October 01, 2007, 09:55 PM »

oh that z so true the only place the perfect man exist is in novels & film. where the guy is tall, handsome & very rich most preferably a prince lol & the girl is very beautiful, extremely nice,  very sweet &  loving e.t.c
kokoletz (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #23 on: October 01, 2007, 10:02 PM »

You hv jst said it all.
nazzyon (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #24 on: October 01, 2007, 11:50 PM »

If you see any perfect relationship.

It means that the duo are fooling each other.
Ndipe (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #25 on: October 02, 2007, 01:58 AM »

Compatability is the right word, no perfect relationship in the human realm. We are humans now
Nwaka77 (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #26 on: October 02, 2007, 02:05 AM »

No, it does not exist but you can find someone you are compatable with who will compliment you.
bimbliss (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #27 on: October 02, 2007, 08:34 AM »

i will say sweet and happy relationships exist and not perfect because when u say something is perfect u are saying it does not have a defect in anyway , inside out.
relationships will always have its bitter moments because of the differences in the individuals involved but the sweetnees comes in when u can tolerate the other person and love them despite their weekness thats is when the person can become close to perfect in your eyes. theres a say ing that goes thus: "nobody is perfect until we fall in love with them"
u can make your relationship tend towards perfect if u take time to work on it, but u will need alot of patience because atimes it will seem atimes that your efforts are just waste !!!!!!
ibrahiem (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #28 on: October 02, 2007, 09:58 AM »

i seriously DOUBT.
Kabibi (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #29 on: October 02, 2007, 10:53 AM »

Perfect relationships do not exist - they are made.  The patners
must make an effort to make the relationship perfect by loving each
other to death.

I know a pastor who says he has made it his project to find new
ways of making his wife happy - so why should that relationship not
be perfect when people are working on it.  If you don't work at it
then you are condeming it to doom - like everyone else's.  If you wait
for a perfect relationship to 'EXIST' you'll wait till Kingdom come.
Bblak (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #30 on: October 02, 2007, 11:18 AM »

Not at all.
larriederm (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #31 on: October 02, 2007, 11:35 AM »

@ UFOBABA

    in this life, nothing just happen. u have 2 work 4 what u want 2 have.true relationship still exist.hapiiness can be found by doing what u do best and not worrying about what the other person is doing.

it is wise 2 weigh the pros and cons of anything that reguires commitment. nothing has the power 2 determine what happens in your life like the coice u make.

people that are always having problems are yet 2 realise their mistakes.maybe u are looking 4 beautiful girls who will soon dissappiont u because she knows 4 herself that she is beautiful.

  romance tells u nothing about character and is extremely unreliable as a method of determining the viability or vitality of a relationship

there is true love, only if u can open your eyes
anyway, goodluck
                 WORD!!!!!
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