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Kabibi (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #32 on: October 02, 2007, 11:45 AM »

@larrie

 in this life, nothing just happen. u have 2 work 4 what u want 2 have.true relationship still exist.hapiiness can be found by doing what u do best and not worrying about what the other person is doing.

 
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na true now my son
chinalu
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #33 on: October 02, 2007, 12:21 PM »

perfect relationship Huh Huh Huh  not on this earth
Saipro (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #34 on: October 02, 2007, 12:32 PM »

Search for the number of things "humane" which have the word "perfect" as a befitting adjective. List them out here on the thread.

A task for all and sundry!

Do it!
shigidi (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #35 on: October 02, 2007, 12:44 PM »

hell noooooooooooooo
sirken
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #36 on: October 02, 2007, 01:32 PM »

The subject "Do Perfect Relationships Exist?" have invariably been answered positively without even the people that give the positive answer knowing they are doing so. Only understanding that your partner as a human being is not perfect makes your relationship with him or her to be perfect. Grin

There are and always will be perfect relationships, hence there is understanding between the two partners involved. And like someother people have already said, you don't have perfect things in life, rather you build perfect things and same goes for relationships and every other things you do on earth. Huh
Tawa-Temi (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #37 on: October 02, 2007, 01:56 PM »

PERFECT? Shocked


According to the REALISTS, "Human Beings are Imperfect",  (Hans Morgenthau  & Co.)

Maybe when the stuffs in the Novel "The Truth Machines" comes into reality, then , there maybe Perfect Relationship.
But my dear, I doubt it sha.
Even if it happens elsewhere, not in naija Grin Grin
I trust mai people.
diva_naija
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #38 on: October 02, 2007, 03:07 PM »

Ain't nothin lik  a perfect relationship.
Close to perfect maybe but never perfect.
Aladunni (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #39 on: October 02, 2007, 03:52 PM »

It doesnt exist and you cannot force it out, you just need LOVE chikena. That is why LOVE is simply COMMITTMENT. Committed to your partner despite his/her imperfection, adjusting to your parner's imperfection, seeing his/her impections yet correcting with gentleness, patience and perseverance (if you are strong in those areas). Complimenting each other in your imperfections, tolerating those imperfections and finally living with those that will not just change no matter what or how.

Good Luck
onyeka_ng (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #40 on: October 02, 2007, 04:07 PM »

COMPATIBILITY  is the word and not perfect, because perfect doesnt exsit.
Halle B (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #41 on: October 02, 2007, 06:35 PM »

PERFECT does not exist, neither does a "perfect" relationship.
People spend a lot of time trying to create a picture perfect of their relationship to the outside world while it is far from perfect behind closed doors.
Dont be decieved. human beings can always stive to achieve perfections but theyll never become perfect.
apocalypse (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #42 on: October 02, 2007, 06:38 PM »

it's all in the mind,if you believe in it you just might find it, but for the less sentimental and emotional people,love is overrated and overstated.
ikeobidi (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #43 on: October 03, 2007, 12:13 AM »

fushizzy my nizzy
vivak (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #44 on: October 03, 2007, 08:44 AM »

it actually depends on how u see it. a perfect relationship can only be born only if u both make it work. seeing the other party as your friend first always helps.
Saipro (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #45 on: October 03, 2007, 09:43 AM »

Relationships as are good, committed, blissful and whatever term you'D like to attach to it, as are the people involved. If it's perfect, then it's because the people involved view it as perfect. If otherwise, then it's up to them. Such terms are subjective as far as humans are concerned. Else how would you qualify and quantify "pefect"?

Have a nice day house!
Cool
jkpretty (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #46 on: October 03, 2007, 10:16 AM »

I'm sacred when everything is all rosy, I can't even be in relationship wit yes & amen

I think its more fun when u don't call each other for like two days & u both yell on the next call, instead of forming understanding. Abeg jare I don't want perfect relationship, i want true relationship. 

Easybaby (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #47 on: October 03, 2007, 10:21 AM »

hmmm, prefect  parfect  perfect! Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed
just me (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #48 on: October 03, 2007, 10:50 AM »

It sure does exist.

When its between you and yourself.
diva_naija
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #49 on: October 03, 2007, 11:05 AM »

Between you n yourself  Undecided ??  Huh

Ain't nothin like that unless u tellin me, u n yrself are perfect ?? Undecided

NONE IS PERFECT,NO NOT ONE.
chymes
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #50 on: October 03, 2007, 02:08 PM »

couldn't get to quote olusleeky but like he said "its does exist,give it n u will get it." word,  men Cool.u want to cheat n be imperfect n get som1 perfect Grin Grin. u can't[ eat n your cake n have it people!!!!!!!!!!!!! Huh Huh
tglaz (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #51 on: October 03, 2007, 03:05 PM »

The only place we can expect a perfect scenerio,is only in the world of forms.The world that we live in aint even perfect.
amaikama (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #52 on: October 03, 2007, 05:19 PM »

There is no such thing as been perfect but just love each other as God loves you.  Cry  Wink
sowura (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #53 on: October 04, 2007, 02:17 PM »

the problem with a lot of relationships is that people  expect to get their hapiness from their partners. i think only a person can make him/herself happy depending on choices made. 
deejoegold (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #54 on: October 04, 2007, 02:22 PM »

Perfection belongs to God.As human we can only  move near to perfection.May be what you meant is someting close to prefection.It does exist.Its a mind thing, when we are honest in our relationship.when we  approach issues with  enquiring mind and not with suspicious mind, by so doing we will be able to demonstrate some level of trust towards ourselves.Perfect Relationships Exist!
deejoegold (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #55 on: October 04, 2007, 02:24 PM »

Perfection belongs to God.As human we can only  move near to perfection.May be what you meant is someting close to prefection.It does exist.Its a mind thing, when we are honest in our relationship.when we  approach issues with  enquiring mind and not with suspicious mind, by so doing we will be able to demonstrate some level of trust towards ourselves.Perfect Relationships Exist!
londoner
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #56 on: October 04, 2007, 02:33 PM »

Quote from: amaikama on October 03, 2007, 05:19 PM
There is no such thing as been perfect but just love each other as God loves you. Cry Wink

Even that is impossible, if you believe that God's love for you is perfect. Even in the Bible (if thats what you believe), God told us to love your neighbour as you love yourself. That alone is very difficult.
bennygee (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #57 on: October 05, 2007, 03:14 PM »

lai lai
oisrael (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #58 on: October 05, 2007, 06:28 PM »

Perfection in itself is but an ideal. You can't find perfection in anything on Earth! There must be one flaw and perfection entails flawlessness.
moondust (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #59 on: October 05, 2007, 06:58 PM »

yeah it exists . . . in fantasy land
Islander (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #60 on: October 05, 2007, 06:59 PM »

Still searching jare,
Tomme (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #61 on: October 05, 2007, 07:45 PM »

The notion of a perfect relationship is the boy meets girl, they fall in love and live happily ever after. This happens only in fairy tales. In reality, loving someone and being loved by another is full of ups and downs. Two people from two different backgrounds, families and ideaologies and at times different cultures come together, of course, sparks would fly. However, i believe strongly that a relationship can only be made perfect if the two parties are willing to make it work.
As a result i believe that perfect relationships do exist after the parties have come to understand themselves.

In conclusion, relationships are not beds of roses. They require sacrifices from both parties and only when that is given will such a relationship be deemed a perfect relationship.
amblors (m)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #62 on: October 05, 2007, 11:18 PM »

of course we all know beta than the existence of the word perfect that even our so called perfectionists are only approximations.
so there aint not like perfect,
chao!
colors (f)
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist?
« #63 on: October 06, 2007, 09:19 PM »

there aint nothing perfect in this world and same goes for relationships. i think its all about making an imperfect relationship perfect for you. i wish i knew what the hell that meant though,
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