What Is A Real Test Of A Woman Virginty?

Please can landers out there tell us the real test off a girl's virginity?

I read in an article by a doctor that the "hymen" is not the best way to test a girl virginity as it can easily be torn by other activities(which is not sex oo or not messing around),without the girl's knowledge.

Please this is urgent,someone lost hers(my very good friend,i have known her for 11yrs) and she never messed around all her life,church going etc and she is really depressed because after 27yrs,she suddenly realised she lost it without knowing how. (she said she has never gone to a guys house before talkless of getting drugged by one or go clubbing or partying).she even said she was never "attacked" before.i was baffled and went on this reasearch and i found this;

"Hymen

 Kalpana asks,
What is Hymen? Is bleeding during the first intercourse a sign of the girl's virginity?

 Dear Kalpana,
The hymen is a thin membrane that covers the vagina. It may get torn without the girl's knowledge while doing certain sports activities. It may also get torn due to masturbation or use of tampons. Sometimes it is absent since birth or just folds naturally along the walls of vagina. If it is unbroken, a little bleeding may takes place at the first intercourse, however it CANNOT be regarded as a test of the girl's virginity."

for more on this(my research above),check out the link below


http://blog.fropper.com/times/2005/07/how_safe_is_the.html

NB:This is a serious and urgent matter(she has stopped eating and she is getting lean),experts' and knowlegdeable people's views will really be appreciated  too.

Thanks!!!

Whats wrong with her? Is it only when her husband pierces her hymen that when she can show him that she loves him or what

She is not eating nke? If she kills herself,Life goes on ooooooo.

she should tell her boyfriend what happened an if the boyfriend rejects her.She should reject the guy back.

Is it because of her hymen she is not eating? That is serious oooooooooo


I understand what she is going through.What she has been keeping all of a sudden should disapear  but she should not kill herself oooooooooooooooooo

''what's a big test of a wman's virginity?''

what's the big fuss over women's virginity with nairaland men?  this is the most absurd , nonsense i have seen in a long while, please find another hobby.  male chauvinist pigs

@ kulashaker

my sister abi o

But i just can fanthom what really happened with my friend.Is anyone out there with similar story?or my friend is the 1st ever??

Poster,

I think u  r the guy, and u probably got what u deserved. How in the world u r looking for something u ur sef can't offer?. What is the problem with most of our guys asking for a virgin to marry and they r the ones sleeping with every Lisa and Nikky all over the place?. Get a grip brother and marry the woman if u truly love her.  You placed ur sef in a position to be lied to in the first place, because u have made the woman think she has to be a virgin to be decent woman or a marriage material.  Drop all these ur childish questions and concentrate on other good things she offers.

please ladies(or doctors,people) out there who have experienced or know more on this topic,SHOULD please HELP OUT!!!
u might touch a life by doing so.

Thanks i advance.

Ok I am finding it hard to feel sorry for her, infact it is funny. What nonsense. So she is going to starve herself because, ? She does not have any problems so she decided to make one for herself. That's my take.

So now that her boyfriend has decided to manage her despite the fact that she has never had sex with anyone before him is she happy and does he plan on marrying her

The fact that you cannot tell that I am being sarcastic just makes me want to hit my head on the floor. Your friend is not very smart, her boyfriend is an ass and you ---- I am not sure what to say about you yet

@Outstrip

y the dissing,well i wont have replied u if i knew r u being sarcastic.really all i wanted to know was in the thread, not neccessarily advice for my friend on how to live the rest of her life, but to know if the'virginity' stuff was real.dah!!!  ???some people and their ways of handling things,sho u sabi me before abi them send u???na wa o.if u don't have anything to say about the thread(virginity),then forget about my friend,abi wetin???u dey interested in her??sho!!!

@gbasky,thanks man!!!

and for the upteemth time, ,i aint a guy.i bi girl ooo.