My Ex Was Cheating With Me And We Got A Baby Together

well, basically, i met this girl and we began a relationship. this girl was everything to me.things happened fast before we knew it she was pregnant, but during the relationship, she told me abnout her "Ex" and how they "broke up".but then the way she talked about him made me think.so i asked her and she shouted, cursed, accused me of accusing her wrongly everytime i talked about how i felt.
eventually, in the labor room, she told me she had a confession to make, she told me how she was still with him and they never broke up, still i waited with her and when the baby was two months old, she decided that we had2 break up, i mean, itz all good because ive learnt my lesson with girls, i no they aint alld same but if u felt d heartbreak i felt, u'll get my drift.

Sorry you had to go through this. The baby probably is not yours,that  is why she left. Hope you get over it soon and get the girl you truely deserve.

@ hotstepper,
well really i guess i am a bit too young I'm 17, and yes, i ve already had a DNA test, hez mine, she was a virgin, her first time was wit me, but now she wants me back, 

well my dad is sorta a drug addict, we dnt no where he is he left us when i was 5, my mum was pretty upset, but what mum wuldnt b uno! i love my son very much i dnt think i have feelins for this girl ne more, because till today her boyfriend doesnt no she was vea wid someone else, hez in nigeria, it happend in england, i live in america now
my mum is nigerian, my dad is american but we're doin fine now, xcept my sonz friendz get to have mums but mine doesnt

yeh i guess i AM but livin in LA and havin inherited three niteclubs n two hotels from your uncle is quite a labor for a 17 yr old n I'm trying to get back into school to lay an example for my son, money isnt everytin, education matters and so does God

@ stormz

I'm glad you started a thread & got a DNA test. Congrats on the Baby Boy. Children are always a blessing.

But, sorry to hear that your heart was broken. It happens to the best of us, myself included. *Sigh* But HEARTS heal. Just take some time for yourself and try to take stock and focus on what matters. It sounds like you're already doing this. Glad to hear that you're back in school. Education is important, even if people try to tell you different. Just try to stack those building blocks & in no time your son going to have the best example of a man right in front of him.

As for the girl, doesn't her boyfriend know that she has a baby now? Anyways, she's in the UK and you're HERE so just keep things cordial (for your son) & try to support her so that her life is on track (also for your son). Your relationship (or lack thereof) will sort itself out.

As for other women or loving again, take your time. You're only 17 and though you may feel old, you are still young (enough). The world is very wide & crowded. They're nearly 7 Billion people on this planet. Don't you think there might be a woman for you???

this thread is quite funny (, no pun intended),

pun as in offense!

& all ya'll replies was funny

so stormz,

r u single now?or r u wid someone?

the two of you suck

Oh well. . .  at least U werent the One She was Cheating On.

i wasn't the one she was cheating on true, but when u believe that you're in love and ur partner feels d same and at d end of d day, it's all false, its kind of betrayal too b

alot of 17 year olds don't have what it takes to be a man and own up to his responsibility, give him a break, he is taking care of his kid and if u read the post back to school and inherited a hotel and 2 night clubs. Anyway Stormz keep your head up, and don't jump into any relationships too fast, continue to take good care of your son.

Hammering a 17 year old just because he has a baby boy  Have you ever imagine what sort of environment he grow up in? That is their culture 

Am not surprised a boy or girl at 17 having a baby. to them is just a normal life.