Please Help My Boyfriend Broke My Heart And I Find It Hard To Forget About Him

  I shared a good relationship  with my boyfriend for 4years he broke my heart and i  find it hard to get over it, please tell me what i can do to forget this guy. i look forward for your kind response 
one thing that hurts me much is that i have a child with this guy and the child resembles him so much, when i look at my son i see  a picture of my xguy,  when i open my note book i see his handwriting there, when i open my album his pictures are there, there is is just too much around me that makes  it hard to forget the guy.  please tell me what to do because i want to forget this guy and get along with my life he is already married to another woman now .

best way to forget a man, put yourself out there nd when i say out there, i mean go out clubbing meet new people, hang out, take your kid out , dnt sit at home nd look at pictures nd mope around,  u gotta be strong nd move on bless,

oh poor girl don't mind the stupid boy he's probably regreting why he broke up with you but let me tell you don't start thinking that all boys are bad,the only way to stop thinking about it is get someone else it must not be a boyfriend maybe just a male friend or even your fellow girl is a good company afterall maybe the boy no reach sef no worry beta the come

pray to God

Delly dear,its quite unfornate that you still love him so much.but if you really want to forget about him you must do these two thing they are very simple and effective.forgive him from your heart and of course you can't forget him ,don't even think about that and then replace him.its that simple.best of luck

dear, the best u can do is to forgive your past
you must learn to forgive d guy in question 2 if u really want to put him behind.
even if u destroy all d pics u have of him, u might not have destroyed him in your heart,  so u must forgive. its quite unfortunate u have a son for him, i wish u had waited to be married and very sure of him.

only God can ease your hurt, go to HIm giving thanks for your situation afterall, better a broken courtship than a broken marriage. u still have another chance baby, stay happy

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girl i definitely ask ya to have fun out there in da clubs, the more ya sit home watching his pics and so on, will just but make the life more dump, once he is gone,he is gone, and actually happy with some other lady, treat it like he was not meant for ya!!
engage in activities that will get ya real busy.
this is normal, it has happened to many of us, but life did not stop even for a minute, it had to take on and it's still on and will always go on. We have to forget some hurting events in life, we count them as part of life but we can't live our lives sad.
get some courage girl, face it and go on with life, get busy with what ya do best.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, cheers, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, God be with ya.

hi delly,
its a normal thing for you to be disturbed about your ex boy friend.anyway the only way you can stop thinking of him is by having fun,going places and most of all don't stay alone,because that will always make you remember him.have fun babe,go out as many times as you can with your friends.,
thanks and take care