Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"

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salsera (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #32 on: April 23, 2007, 10:50 PM »

@oyinboaja
are u talking about mamaput?
u obviously have not been on nairaland dor long
she's a mother with grown -up children

the comment she made was of about the guy working in her house was of a long time ago

what's with the fables and untruths
wetin mamaput do for u
anabell (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #33 on: April 23, 2007, 10:54 PM »

i feel u rose, there was this guy in my uni, just because he helps me out with my assingment he tot we were dating,i had to tell him off.I don't get too close to guys because when i do the only tin on their mind is wantin to date u
anabell (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #34 on: April 23, 2007, 11:00 PM »

@oyinboaja, read mamput reply before u start runin ur mouth.She said it was a long time it happened
Damy (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #35 on: April 23, 2007, 11:05 PM »

d closer d better
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #36 on: April 24, 2007, 09:19 AM »

i think it depends on the parties involved, i got real cool friends that are guys, so i think it depends on the individuals. no need generalizing it on all guys.
oyinboaja
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #37 on: April 24, 2007, 01:28 PM »

anabell abi na cowbell you call yaself. you chop lizard yansh?
who dey run mouth. if you no put ya mouth where e suppose be, you go hear weeeeeen
anabell (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #38 on: April 24, 2007, 01:37 PM »

i can see u have a lot of bullshit in ur mouth go and clean d shit in ur mouth before u speak to me runin mouth, because i aint gono talk to no shit stinkin mouth.
oyinboaja
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #39 on: April 24, 2007, 02:24 PM »

i see say mad man open yansh for ya face. as u no sabi put ya mouth for where e suppose be

yeye girl
oyinboaja
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #40 on: April 24, 2007, 02:24 PM »

u no sabi write sef.
anabell (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #41 on: April 24, 2007, 02:46 PM »

o yea thanks alot,please pass by so i can give u soda to clean ur shit stinkin mouth.
Creamish (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #42 on: April 24, 2007, 03:18 PM »

Quote from: ThoniaSlim on April 24, 2007, 09:19 AM
i think it depends on the parties involved, i got real cool friends that are guys, so i think it depends on the individuals. no need generalizing it on all guys.

Yeah--I'm with u on that---i feel those that inteprete it that way actually had that in mind from the onslaught or ur kind of "friendliness" seemed to them like u are flirting with them. I believe if u display a casual attitude with ur male friends, they wont mis-inteprere it  Wink
samsilo (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #43 on: April 24, 2007, 03:26 PM »

   Anabell please ignore this buffoon, he obviously is poorly educated and I can see from when he started on mammaput that his command of English is poor.
@ topic  .This is a catch 22 situation. Most guys have learnt from experience including myself, that women are usually indirect when they fancy a guy especially in Nigeria. It is a very tricky game to understand when she is playing hard to get and when she is just being friendly ,the more experience you are the better you become at it.
I personally have always had very close platonic female friends,some closer to me than their boyfriends who come and go.
creamdream
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #44 on: February 26, 2008, 02:54 PM »

Good intentions?? the men are often right!! anyway
hanen (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #45 on: February 26, 2008, 03:04 PM »

Because men are simple-minded, randy creatures, sadly. you have to be very careful when dealing with them. Like handling an animald. They think any woman that gives them 2 glances likes them and anyone with a hug wants them in bed.
opokonwa (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #46 on: February 26, 2008, 04:47 PM »

@poster
The same way a woman interpretes a very friendly guy as trying to get under her skirt.
Why do you ladies do that? Huh
amuki
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #47 on: February 26, 2008, 05:45 PM »

Hi guys,
           It's really nice to be here once more.Well, this topic is individual and so I will answer it from my perspective.Most girls are fond of this,they like to have 'puppies' trailing behind them and doing their bidding.Well if you are not genuinely interested,why show friendliness.Everybody no matter who responds to the show of  love and it's just a thin line.
You get there sometime and when the question is asked,the reply,the guy may feel used.
   So take my advice if you are not  genuinely interested,don't even venture into friendship or when you do,don't overexpress it like always complimenting,being there for each other.

I have said my mind.LIGHTS OUT!
choco4life (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #48 on: February 26, 2008, 06:31 PM »

 :-x
Busta (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #49 on: February 26, 2008, 06:32 PM »

@topic

because they are men!
tommyex (m)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #50 on: February 26, 2008, 06:38 PM »

because grls aint predictable

When they say Yes they may mean NO
stillwater (f)
Re: Why Do Some Men Inteprete Friendliness As "interest"
« #51 on: February 26, 2008, 07:26 PM »

Quote from: amuki on February 26, 2008, 05:45 PM
Hi guys,
 It's really nice to be here once more.Well, this topic is individual and so I will answer it from my perspective.Most girls are fond of this,they like to have 'puppies' trailing behind them and doing their bidding.Well if you are not genuinely interested,why show friendliness.Everybody no matter who responds to the show of love and it's just a thin line.
You get there sometime and when the question is asked,the reply,the guy may feel used.
 So take my advice if you are not genuinely interested,don't even venture into friendship or when you do,don't overexpress it like always complimenting,being there for each other.

I have said my mind.LIGHTS OUT!

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