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Ladapo (m)
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Have you ever suspected your girlfriend to be cheating on you at one point in your relationship? Do you trust her too much and believe that she can never do something foolish behind your back? If you do, it is time to wake up boy because some women, just like men, also flirt when their boyfriends are not in sight. They find enjoyment in playing and leading on other guys especially if they know that the said guys are attracted to them.
Although only a few go further than flirting like sleeping with another guy, this still becomes one of the common reasons why couples break-up. So, if you think that your girlfriend is doing something unusual, try to look at some evidences on how to tell if your girlfriend is cheating.
The first evidence that you can look for is when she starts buying more new clothing than she used to. If you are already spending months or years together as boyfriend-girlfriend, you must have been familiar with how your girlfriend dresses and how she purchases clothing for herself. Although there are girls who become suddenly interested with clothes, this will still become a big puzzle to you especially if you are used to seeing your girl wearing simple clothes and buying only new items when there are important occasions to attend.
If you notice this sudden need to buy new items of clothing, be more watchful because the reason behind could be to create a new look and feel more attractive to the man she is seeing behind your back. Give more special attention on whether she buys new underwear or lingerie because these are big clues on how to tell if your girlfriend is cheating.
Other evidences are receipts and unexplained extra mileage on the car. These two can provide you with loads of information and help you on how to tell if your girlfriend is cheating. When your girlfriend cheats, her buying habits change as well as the frequency of usage of the car. Although these changes can happen even to those girlfriends who are not cheating but merely finding ways to have more fun, these are still strong evidences to consider.
Check the receipts of her purchases and take note of the mileage on the car at the start and end of the day. Do the receipts show purchases of new underwear, men's items like cologne and shirt but you never remember them being given to you or to anyone you know, and large amount of credit for her cell phone? Do you see a big difference between the distance she said she traveled and what the counter on the car says in reality? The answer to these questions will sure be of big help on how to tell if your girlfriend is cheating.
And lastly, evidences like her cell phone and phone bills will also help you determine if your girlfriend is indeed cheating. Do you find strange numbers on her cell phone and phone bills? Is there someone calling her more often and does she try to get distant from you when somebody calls? If you answer yes to these, then consider them as indicators that something is really going on. But do not confront her at once; you must dig deeper by looking at other ways on how to tell if your girlfriend is cheating. You can look at the address book to check the strange number or you can try calling it and listen to the voice at the other line.
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Lady-Ti (f)
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@ poster: PARANOIA I say!!!! As for the topic of your thread - I read it! What're you going to do about it??!! 
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uf4oma (f)
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@ poster: PARANOIA I say!!!! As for the topic of your thread - I read it! What're you going to do about it??!!  O girl, you should have let the guy stew. Let him keep hallucinating.
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firstborn
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When the guy is hitting the at the point, babes who knows that what he is saying is true is saying he is hallucinating.
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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@topic As much as i agree with you on some the points you made, but i must say the issue of she buying new clothes all of a sudden because she's cheating, makes absolutely no sense.
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Easybaby (f)
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hmmm . . .what about men's sign 
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naijaborn (m)
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Hmnn! Ladapo! Ladapo!! Ladapo!!!, incase yu've been chekin on yur girly like that;yu'll av 2giv yursef a rest of mind nd stop!  being a watchdog over a girl is like diggin yur own grave, bsides i see no reason y a man shuld investigate a woman's unfaithfullness;it's head-aching  All a man need is to be close to his woman's heart by aving/sharing gudtimes,aving serious real life discussions 2geda,show love n b true 2it, most expecially prayin,because we're imperfect beings.so a woman or man indulging in a watchdog act over a partner will only b destroyin wot he/she has built wit time in no time  i might be wrong though, but that's dway i see it! 
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saucekid (m)
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shey i even get time to monitor am? make she do wetin she sabi and make i do wetin i sabi, in the end we go dey love ourself unless if the love don kpeme
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jkpretty (f)
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Hmnn! Ladapo! Ladapo!! Ladapo!!!, incase yu've been chekin on yur girly like that;yu'll av 2giv yursef a rest of mind nd stop!  being a watchdog over a girl is like diggin yur own grave, bsides i see no reason y a man shuld investigate a woman's unfaithfullness;it's head-aching  All a man need is to be close to his woman's heart by aving/sharing gudtimes,aving serious real life discussions 2geda,show love n b true 2it, most expecially prayin,because we're imperfect beings.so a woman or man indulging in a watchdog act over a partner will only b destroyin wot he/she has built wit time in no time  i might be wrong though, but that's dway i see it!  true talk, i believe in a relationship, u should do your own side of the game, be sincere & be true but for your partner--- future will tell.
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2dye4 (m)
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true talk, i believe in a relationship, u should do your own side of the game, be sincere & be true but for your partner--- future will tell.
well said! oga poster: u must really av time to go through all the stress on a girl, are u a policeman? people no matter how deceitful they are always slip up ok, if your girl is cheating, in time something will give her away, ok.
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Ladapo (m)
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Someone should read my post on " put an end to the lies" that's how to catch a cheating boyfriend. And I have not said You shld go checking in on your girl, I just posted my opinion, just do what is right.
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naijaborn (m)
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ladapo!, 2b sincere;an average mind is selfish ???no mata how good dtechnic yu apply,yu'll always be bias wit yur judgement nd in turn loose yur head n focus, which is tantamount to destructn.negative begets negative;so lets try n be positive 
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ufobabe (f)
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xcept a girl watch over herself, her guy cannot watch over her even if they live in thesame room. it is only a stupid girl that will get money outside her relationship and go about buying clothes what happens 2 shares in banks and investments. it is good 2 do good. and living a double life will not get someone fast as twice. if not , a girl can build a house without the guy even sensing it 2 talk of the traces.
guys take note: the more u watch over your girl, the more she ,
therefore fooling u with plenty lies.
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Busta (f)
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Guys why would u want to believe that your girl is cheating on u int he first place?
-----guys need to stop acting as watchdogs over your girls, it will only destroy u the more if she is cheating, it will sure come out one way or the other when no one expects it to.
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mellow (m)
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I don't want to know that Toyinrayo is cheating on me.
what you don't know don't hurt you.
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Busta (f)
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geez guy, did u just tell everyone here that your GF's name is toyinrayo?? 
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mellow (m)
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Screen name baby girl, does it surprise you?
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Busta (f)
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can't blame me, don't know all the member up in here.
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naijaborn (m)
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@Busta , how did yu com up with yur i.d it's kind of masculine  yu sure say yu no be man-woman  i 4 like kno yur real name;  anyways hope yur kool?! 
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sosa08 (m)
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@Naijaborn
This is not an avenue to toast.
Well, do u really think your girl will ever like only u?
Do what u have to do to make her not choose someone else.
I dnt have a problem with her flirting, but make I no hear because I too dey flirt and she no hear
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Busta (f)
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@Busta , how did yu com up with yur i.d it's kind of masculine  yu sure say yu no be man-woman  i 4 like kno yur real name;  anyways hope yur kool?!  lol u wish i was a man-woman  and am kool. . thanx
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Hazel-eyed (f)
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hnmm,i wonder why anyone should go through all that stress to check his girlfriend,she's your girlfriend not your wife,
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Bblak (f)
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@poster Those are not real evidences to ascertain if a girl is cheating or not. Serious trouble in the relationship if the girl is wrongly accused o. Beware 
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almondjoy (f)
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Very smart people usually know way before it happens---on the other hand----the errrrrrrrrrrrr  are usually the last to know.
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naijaborn (m)
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it takes two to cheat o-jare! she'll probably be makin way for yur betta half 
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Scopium (m)
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xcept a girl watch over herself, her guy cannot watch over her even if they live in thesame room. it is only a stupid girl that will get money outside her relationship and go about buying clothes what happens 2 shares in banks and investments. it is good 2 do good. and living a double life will not get someone fast as twice. if not , a girl can build a house without the guy even sensing it 2 talk of the traces.
guys take note: the more u watch over your girl, the more she ,
therefore fooling u with plenty lies.
Not true. Plenty lies will give her out easily. I don't watch people but events watch for me.
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